I am sending you a pm to let you know how to book for the social.
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Goldsmith
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If i want to go to the event wat do i have to do ??
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:D :D :D :DYes of course you can come along. If you call the club and book with them, thats all you need to do. Can you let me know on here when you have done that so I can add you to my list.
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Goldsmith
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Goldsmith
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Hi Golds, if there is any room for another single guy I would really love to come .
I came to one of your socials at Libertys a couple of years ago and it was soooo good, it was hot outside and so much hotter in the play rooms and pool lol.
I live only 10 minutes from Libertys so close and hope the weather is good again.
Hope to hear from you soon so I can phone the club up and confirm.
You will find that sometimes people are just plain rude. Its not personal its just that some are so wrapped up in their own clique that they don't see anyone else. Which is one of the reasons I open my own room most evenings where people are made to feel welcome and are free to join in the chats going on. I try to welcome everyone when they arrive in the room.
Having said that its also up to members to join in and make themselves known. Once people get to know you then you find that you fit in well all over the site.
goldsmith x
Having said that its also up to members to join in and make themselves known. Once people get to know you then you find that you fit in well all over the site.
goldsmith x
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a big sorry from me Gold,i'm going to have to come of the list..gonna miss my first Gold social the 100% record is going to have to go,,,,sorry but working away in London that weekend...
catch you all soon
1wineman2...xx.
Bugger - never mind love, I know you would be there if you could. xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
How many times have people said to me on a Thursday night in Golds Room 'Where is Silversmith?' - he is on the chatters list but ignoring me. Well thats cos he is watching Question Time and A Week in Politics.
He will love this section, the only problem is, he is dyslexic left wingers, and I will be the one who has to type the fecking posts for him - omg here we go.
It is nice to see new headings on the forum.
Goldsmith
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He will love this section, the only problem is, he is dyslexic left wingers, and I will be the one who has to type the fecking posts for him - omg here we go.
It is nice to see new headings on the forum.
Goldsmith
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Welcome to the Browneyed Handsome Man - as Buddy Holly said. Hope you have an enjoyable time in SH there are lots of lovely people here and I am sure you will find your share of them. You can come and chat to me if you like, you can find me in server 2 in Golds Room most evenings. (plug plug).
And what a great addition to the forum SH, well done, its good for the existing sh members to say hello to the new members. It makes people feel welcome and I am always up for this.
Goldsmith
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And what a great addition to the forum SH, well done, its good for the existing sh members to say hello to the new members. It makes people feel welcome and I am always up for this.
Goldsmith
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Quote by davidsanction
something i've discovered - is that everyone uses their profiles in different ways
I'm more interested in the profiles that have something written and at least a few pics - gives me a start on the person/couple
I've never taken much notice on what the profile says they are looking for in terms of straight, bi, male fem etc unless its written in the text - the rest is just ticking boxes and i've never been a 'box ticking' person
For me, profiles are the start of getting to know someone - hanging a label on anyone is wrong IMHO, but hanging one on them before you've even got to know them, well.....i'll never understand that.
I'm a bi curious woman according to our profile - but thats only because I have to tick a box to explain - what i really am is completely dependant on who, what, why, when.......another reason why I dont judge folks on the 'boxes' they've had to tick to define themselves
Others dont use their profiles in this way - that's up to them
What a sensible post. Yes profile text is the best way to say stuff about yourself, but the point I am making is when I have clearly said I don't play with bi or bi curious guys, its because I choose not to play with them. I have no intolerance of bi males at all. It's up to the individual who they play with, and all I am saying is I don't play with bi or bi curious males, and the honesty factor was what I was questioning, guys who change their profile to suit the current circumstances. I was not making any judgement on their sexual status or preference at all.
Its not a matter of hanging a label on anyone, people do that themselves when they describe themselves as bi or bi curious or whatever, and that, of course is right, so those reading the information can start to make a clear judgement and choose whether to meet/interract this person or not.
I will give an example: Recently I was contacted by a very nice and charming single guy. We got to know each other via chat. The possibility of a meet came up, but when I mentioned that I don't meet bi or bi curious guys, he said he was str8, and I asked why then was he looking for bi and bi curious males on his profile.
He got very defensive and then turned a little sour. He came back to me a few days later saying it was ok now as he had changed his profile, bless him.
During further chat, I pointed out that I am not happy interracting with people who just change boxes and/or text to suit the current criteria. He seemed flabbergasted, he had said he was just ticking the boxes to keep his options open, and that is where I just don't get it. We remained mates in the chatroom, and still chat to this day. I would have no problem meeting this man socially, as he is a nice guy. But he feels that I am being a little unfair and unreasonable. I feel I am being totally fair by saying what I think and being consistent.
I certainly don't judge people on what they are, as we are all individuals, and thank goodness for that.
Goldsmith
For God's sake all I was getting at was the fact that guys who are str8 won't, by the very implication of being str8, play with bi guys, so why look for them in their profile. Perhaps I am being naiive, perhaps being mixed up is all part of this merrygoround we call swinging. I have seen enough chips on shoulders to realise that some people really dont know what they are or what they want.
The other major point was that some guys seem to change their profile to suit the moment, and i have seen this happen on numerous occasions. Some guys will change their profile three or four times a week, just to suit the person they are trying to meet.
I have no problem with bi or bi curious guys at all, or gay guys, but I have a choice and choose not to meet them for sexual purposes. Some of my best mates are bi or gay, but I choose not to have sex with them.
I just wish some people were honest and consistent thats all.
Those are my points!!
Goldsmith
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The other major point was that some guys seem to change their profile to suit the moment, and i have seen this happen on numerous occasions. Some guys will change their profile three or four times a week, just to suit the person they are trying to meet.
I have no problem with bi or bi curious guys at all, or gay guys, but I have a choice and choose not to meet them for sexual purposes. Some of my best mates are bi or gay, but I choose not to have sex with them.
I just wish some people were honest and consistent thats all.
Those are my points!!
Goldsmith
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Vell as you visit my room on server 2 on a fairly regular basis, i agree, there are sometimes good reasons for a whisper, if only ask if its ok to whisper.
But its unfortunate that sometimes when people whisper without being told they can, they get rather aggressive when they are asked not to whisper.
i never mind someone whispering me asking if thats ok, as long as they respect my answer if its a no.
Good point made well Vell, thanks
Goldsmith
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But its unfortunate that sometimes when people whisper without being told they can, they get rather aggressive when they are asked not to whisper.
i never mind someone whispering me asking if thats ok, as long as they respect my answer if its a no.
Good point made well Vell, thanks
Goldsmith
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Oh Really, and who might that have been lol -
Goldsmith
As Dork&Windy have already said, there was loads of action over the bank hol weekend. Sat night was rammed in the particular car park we were on. 3 couples and at least 6 or 7 single guys.
Even saw a woman running around with no knickers on.
Goldsmith
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No replies to our add went over the chase last night was totally dead whats gone wrong? we were looking for males as well
As Dork&Windy have already said, there was loads of action over the bank hol weekend. Sat night was rammed in the particular car park we were on. 3 couples and at least 6 or 7 single guys.
Even saw a woman running around with no knickers on.
I wonder if anyone else is as perplexed as me. Why do some 'str8' guys look for bi males, bi couples, couple with bi male etc etc on their profile, then when asked about it in chat they say 'oh that was a mistake' or 'i thought it would improve my chances of a meet'.
Surely if you're a straight male you arent interested in bi guys. Or if you are bi curious, then you aren't str8, you're bi curious. Its simple really.
But the main thing that baffles me is why its so often a mistake, and once you are in a situation where the guy thinks he is has a vague chance of meeting you, they go off and change their profile to suit the current situation.
Any logical explanation would be most welcome.
Thanks
Goldsmith
Surely if you're a straight male you arent interested in bi guys. Or if you are bi curious, then you aren't str8, you're bi curious. Its simple really.
But the main thing that baffles me is why its so often a mistake, and once you are in a situation where the guy thinks he is has a vague chance of meeting you, they go off and change their profile to suit the current situation.
Any logical explanation would be most welcome.
Thanks
Goldsmith
You dont have to be a member of Libertys to attend Goldsmiths social event, that was the whole idea of the event, its Libertys allowing this event only sh members to visit the club and having a Libertys exxperience.
The other Sunday chill outs are for Libertys members only.
You will also see if you look at the link on Sarah's post that Colin and Gina from Libs have give my guests a better deal than the normal entrance fee for single guys.
Hope this clarifies everything
Goldsmith
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The other Sunday chill outs are for Libertys members only.
You will also see if you look at the link on Sarah's post that Colin and Gina from Libs have give my guests a better deal than the normal entrance fee for single guys.
Hope this clarifies everything
Goldsmith
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Quote by Sarah
If you cannot make this one, there are others
Try here Note you MUST be members to attend
I'll see how funds are just before the event to see if we will be attending.
If we don't attend have a wonderful day and I hope the weather is good.
