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grifrock
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 56
Bisexual Female, 51
0 miles · Somerset

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Quote by Sassy-Seren
Personally, I wouldn't want my man like any of the old style cop heroes. They were all sexist, chauvanist Brut wearers rolleyes

Absolutely true Sassy, but you have to allow them to think they can play that role occasionally (without the Brut i may add!). lol
Mrs G x
Weren't they fantastic!
Do i want a 'real man' that can do a handbrake turn in a 3ltr granada, fight, get drunk?
or a modern, kind, sensitve man that would help with the housework and occasionally cook me tea after picking kids up from school?
Can i have a bit of both?
Oops, already have!!! Thank you Mr Grif :smitten:
Mrs G x
:high-smile: Big Birthday Wishes :high-smile:
Have a wonderful day
Mrs Grif xx
mmmm curry :lickface: love em,
and just as good cold the following morning, although not sure i could wash it down with lager like Mr Grif does!
Would love to try yours Katie.....curry that is :rascal:
Mrs G x
wave Hello Gothic,
Will be sure to say hi if we see you silently loitering in the chatrooms.
Mrs Grif xx
Thanks Ian, but just checked and have the most recent adobe flash, all working fine???
:censored: all getting too technical for me now
Flower, thanks trying that as we speak!
Can anyone with a little pc knowledge help me?
Had problems with my laptop recently, running slow, webpages timing out when loading etc, but thought i had sorted it. Now, the only problem i have is with the chatrooms. Is it just us, in that case its our laptop, or is it a common problem?
Can get the screen 'loading interface' but goes nowhere from there, soo bloody frustrating!
Any ideas???
Mr & Mrs Grif
Needed an excuse recently for an afternoon meet. Told mother we were going to a parents consultation at our childrens school.
Worked for us! but obviously cant be used that often :giggle:
Mr & mrs Grif xx
naughty wigan couple, did you have to do that, 1 or 2 I could handle, but all together .......... :shock:
Now Mr Grif is gonna get it!!!!!! blast
:twisted: bolt
Hi Redal,
You've made a start and looked for help in the forum, the people in here are generally friendly and full of advice, but Kiss is right, you need to put more info on your profile. We have found the chatrooms a great help too and it gives us the chance to check out others profiles and make contact if we like the look of it.
Well hope things get better from here for you.
Mrs Grif x
for us tom, neither have a problem with kissing but I have found that it differs with each guy. With some the kissing becomes an important part of the foreplay, and we both get something out of it, others, it just doesnt happen. Dont suppose that really helps much. Guess what im trying to say is if you have boundries thats great, but its all about individuality. Each encounter is so different! dunno
You may have just convinced us to take the plunge and put our names down for our first munch too.
Great to hear these comments, so glad you enjoyed yourselves....
.....a fab site.......and fab people (mad but fab) :inlove:
Mrs Grif x
my confession
having spent far too long in the chatrooms before work, i confess to getting much too excited and wearing a little sex toy to work...
....and spend much of my time finding excuses to run up and down the stairs :giggle:
Quote by davej
...whether body size should be discriminated

No they shouldnt make the seats larger and No they shouldnt discriminate! confused
...but i do think that if a company/business loses profits, ie. airlines, because they have to accomodate larger people then they should be the people responsible for the extra costs
either way someone is gonna be discriminated against dunno
Wow!
Congratulations to you both
:cheers: heres to plenty more
Mr & Mrs Grif xxxxxxxx
The intention of this thread is definately a worthy one and we should all remember the advice at ALL times of the year, but lets not lose sight people - it really is worth going out and having fun, its Christmas after all!!!
So a 'safe' and Merry Christmas to you all :cheers: xxx
Just gonna post an email I recieved today, originally sent from a police officer. Guess these arseholes will try anything for personal gain, anytime of the year!!!
ALL CAR OWNERS AND CAR DRIVERS PLEASE READ
Warning!!!! Be aware of new car-jacking scheme.
You walk across the car park, unlock your car and get inside. Then you
lock all your doors, start the engine and shift or put into reverse. You
look into the rear-view mirror to back out of your parking space and you
notice a piece of paper stuck to the middle of the rear window.
So, you shift the gear stick back into park or neutral, unlock your doors
and jump out of your car to remove that paper or whatever it is that is
obstructing your view. When you reach the back of your car that is when
the car-jackers appear out of nowhere, jump into your car and take off!!
Your engine was running, you would have left your purse in the car and
they practically mow you down as they speed off in your car.
BE AWARE OF THIS NEW SCHEME THAT IS NOW BEING USED IN GLASGOW AND
MANCHESTER AND IS MAKING ITS WAY ACROSS THE COUNTRY!!!!!!!!
Just drive away and remove the paper later! It is stuck to your window and
be thankful that you read this email. I hope you will forward this to
friends and family especially to women! A purse contains all
identification, and you certainly do NOT want someone getting your home
address. They already HAVE your keys!!!
JUST BE AWARE AND TAKE CARE IT WILL PROBABLY SOON ARRIVE IN YOUR AREA
:wave2: bigblklondonguy
a very welcoming crowd here, so jump straight in and have fun ! Ooops, had to edit must have been focused on Bux redface
Good on you girl, this is as obvious as it is common sense but unfortunately too many of us ignore our own personal safety.
Having worked in the pub industry for a good few years i've been on 1 or 2 courses just aimed at reminding us how to be aware of our own surrounding and I have 1 tip that id like to pass on. I very often walk to my car late at night, rarely alone but if I am I always carry my car keys in my hand pointing away from me. This is a valuable weapon that can cause a fair bit of damage if you are approached by an 'undesirable' person. Unfortunately situations such as this are often turned around and the attacker then believes he/she (dont want to be sexist) becomes the victim of an assault, the cheek!!!
From the police's point of view, the car keys are not a weapon just something you happened to have hold of and your case for self defence stands.
Unbelievable that it has to be thought of this way but if someone wants to have a go at me, I'll be ready mad
Thanks again Classykatie
Mrs Grif x
helped on the sat morning delivery round for my local baker, starts, didnt last long!
Full-time job in the local magistrates court, didnt last long either, i seemed to know too many of the local criminals and it didnt help when i printed my own warrant for non payment of poll tax ooops!! innocent was that really mine
Mrs Grif
Just seen a window cleaner hanging around, ladder an all!
Better go and check all me windows are locked. Had to open the windows, got a bit steamy in here last night :giggle:
Thanks Mallock kiss Merry Xmas
Mrs Grif x
Hi Classykatie,
:welcome: to the forum, hope I find something to say that makes ya smile!
More of a lurker than a poster at present but gaining in coinfidence so who knows what rubbish i may post! innocent
Mrs Grif xxx
36, im with you on this one.
Having spent many nights alone because of my husbands unsocialbe work hours I found myself longing for some male company/attention. Id often feel guilty if i found myself thinking seriously hot steamy thoughts about guys id meet, while out.
Quote by 36openminded
I think what's I'm trying to say is some people when they find themselves between a rock and a hard place choose whatever option that allows them to survive.
36 x

I could have been unfaithful behind his back, left him because I felt he wasnt fulfilling his commitments to me as a partner or be honest about how i felt and both try to resolve the issue.
Fortunately for me, my husband had always had an interest in swinging and we were able to venture into this together.
Now im able to chat to a guy when out, even take things further if i choose because my husband and I are always completely honest with each other. We even seem to find that little extra bit of time for each other now :P
Im not saying that this is the way forward for everyone, but im a believer in honesty and it obviously worked for me.
Guess im the lucky one, now I get plenty of human contact!!! lol
Are we suppose to focus on the tattoo or arse?? blink Great tatt Lissa!
Im a huge fan. Its obviously a very personal thing but they can be soo sexy.
Mr Grif was quite brave and has now started to cover his chest, painful, expensive, but from where i stand its all good!!! I have 2 of my own on my back and when i find the right design would love something on my thigh. That addictive though, will i stop there??? :P
Mrs G x
Quote by Lissa
You can't stop now you've started wink

lol One of my favorite sayings. Guess you'll be seeing me around!
Thanks guys :thumbup:
Mrs Grif xx
Quote by Lissa
Maybe some of you non-posters could take the plunge today and tell me what puts you off about posting. I, at least, promise not to flame you. biggrin

Ok Lissa, well here goes this lurkers first post!
Have so enjoyed reading many threads, replies and responses and have had many a giggle, guess its a confidence thing with me, and maybe a lack of pc experience???
Anyhow, the plunge has been taken and if i dont get flamed maybe i'll be back, hopefully with some worth while comments
Mrs Grif x
Quote by Lissa
Maybe some of you non-posters could take the plunge today and tell me what puts you off about posting. I, at least, promise not to flame you. biggrin

Ok Lissa, well here goes this lurkers first post!
Have so enjoyed reading many threads, replies and responses and have had many a giggle, guess its a confidence thing with me, and maybe a lack of pc experience???
Anyhow, the plunge has been taken and if i dont get flamed maybe i'll be back, hopefully with some worth while comments
Mrs Grif x
I have to say, my husband was already shaved when we met, and what a shock that was! :shock: Now, its one of the first things i like to find out when i meet a guy.
For goodness sake guys what are the benefits of all that fuzz? ...nope cant think of any here, whereas on the other hand....no more tickled noses, flossing, and it does the guys egos good cause it does make the whole package look larger! hehe