Sorry to hear about the accident Jo n Lee. I hope Jo is better soon, Give my regards to her as soon as you can.
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better late than never wrote:
Have a read through the various sections of the Forum section, you will find an abundance of helpful info. Read especially those 'posts' that tell you about swinging for newbies. You tell us absolutely nothing about yourself, your marital status, age, whether you already have a swinging partner etc. Without such info you are unlikely to generate any interest at all.
How do you lubricate yourself into the Swinging Scene.
1. Be a Lottery winner (big bucks).
2. Inherit wealth (big bucks).
3. Be a Hollywood film star. (big bucks).
5. Be a Pop singer. (big bucks).
If you one of these, then there will be enough 'Groupies' following you around to have your pick.
:lol:
If you are not one of the above.
6. Hang around and participate in the Forum and Chatroom on a regular basis until you get known. 8)
7. Work your balls off, like everyone else on this site is doing, to make contacts. 8)
Eventually you may get lucky. It may not be this year or next year, but perceivere and eventually, you may get there.
What won't happen, is dozens of women throwing themselves at you feet begging for it.
Should it turn out that you are a journalist, you may find your past life flashing before your eyes a lot sooner than you expected. :twisted: :twisted:
Harry0
There are Old Journalists, and Bold Journalists,
But, no Old, Bold Journalists.
I am brand new to this but after having the site recommended to me by a friend I must say I wish I had found it earlier. I look forward to getting to know people on here but most of all I hope to participate in some great sex, in time anyway. At least I am honest. The reason I registered is that I love sex and everything that goes with it. I have had a good and varied sex life and if this site lives up to expectation hope to expand my horizons further. I can hope anyway cant I? Any tips to lubricate my entry into swinging?
Have a read through the various sections of the Forum section, you will find an abundance of helpful info. Read especially those 'posts' that tell you about swinging for newbies. You tell us absolutely nothing about yourself, your marital status, age, whether you already have a swinging partner etc. Without such info you are unlikely to generate any interest at all.
How do you lubricate yourself into the Swinging Scene.
1. Be a Lottery winner (big bucks).
2. Inherit wealth (big bucks).
3. Be a Hollywood film star. (big bucks).
5. Be a Pop singer. (big bucks).
If you one of these, then there will be enough 'Groupies' following you around to have your pick.
:lol: If you are not one of the above.
6. Hang around and participate in the Forum and Chatroom on a regular basis until you get known. 8)
7. Work your balls off, like everyone else on this site is doing, to make contacts. 8)
Eventually you may get lucky. It may not be this year or next year, but perceivere and eventually, you may get there.
What won't happen, is dozens of women throwing themselves at you feet begging for it.
Should it turn out that you are a journalist, you may find your past life flashing before your eyes a lot sooner than you expected. :twisted: :twisted:
Harry0
There are Old Journalists, and Bold Journalists,
But, no Old, Bold Journalists.
Orgasminator
tallnhairy wrote:
Have a look in the Lets Meet Up section of Forum tallnhairy, there's one on in Croydon on the 3 rd April. just four week away. That's got to be near you.
The Midlands Munch is a 400 mile round trip for me, but that's not going to stop me going.
Harry0
So hopefully will meet some of you at the next munch or one after that
Have a look in the Lets Meet Up section of Forum tallnhairy, there's one on in Croydon on the 3 rd April. just four week away. That's got to be near you.
The Midlands Munch is a 400 mile round trip for me, but that's not going to stop me going.
Harry0
Orgasminator
Dawn_Mids wrote:
I'm not sure I should answer this, whatever I say may land me in deep doodoo.
My face is ugly enough without anything else being shown Dawn.
ops:
I can understand you wanting "clothes" pics, though, just to check that other ladies attending are not going to be wearing the same dress, frock or suit as you at the Munch.
:sparring: :sparring:
Harry0
So you think it would be fair of me to ask for naked and clothes pics from those I have not met yet?
I'm not sure I should answer this, whatever I say may land me in deep doodoo.
My face is ugly enough without anything else being shown Dawn.
ops: I can understand you wanting "clothes" pics, though, just to check that other ladies attending are not going to be wearing the same dress, frock or suit as you at the Munch.
:sparring: :sparring:
Harry0
Orgasminator
roger743 wrote:
The Munches are simply a social meeting, where 'posters' in the various sections of the Forum and Chatroom members can get together, make new friends, meet people they have 'posted' to, or chatted to in the Chatroom. From reports of previous Munches a good time was had by all those attending.
Munches are NOT meetings prior to what no doubt, the 'Press' would consider an orgy. It may happen that friendships made between some people, will lead to other things at a future date. But not on the night of the Munch.
From current postings in the Let's Meet section of the Forum you will see that various Munches are being organised in different parts of the country, simply to let SH members meet socially.
The organisers have, quite rightly, vetted the applications of those wishing to attend. Those who have joined the site after the recent publicity and who are unknown to the majority of SH members are unlikely to get in, unless they are known to a Moderator or SyOp. That's hard perhaps on any genuine new member, but if they stay with this site, post regularly and/or join the the chatroom mayhem, they will be elligible to attend future events. The whole idea is simply to keep it to known and trusted members and not allow the Media to make it into something it isn't.
It would not be the first time the media has tried to turn a Mole hill into a mountain. :roll:
Harry0
Is there something "interesting" expected to happen at the midlands munch then? Because I had the impression it was going to be a mostly social affair and you might think "group of people meeting in a pub" would be a llittle too boring for even the gutter press...?
The Munches are simply a social meeting, where 'posters' in the various sections of the Forum and Chatroom members can get together, make new friends, meet people they have 'posted' to, or chatted to in the Chatroom. From reports of previous Munches a good time was had by all those attending.
Munches are NOT meetings prior to what no doubt, the 'Press' would consider an orgy. It may happen that friendships made between some people, will lead to other things at a future date. But not on the night of the Munch.
From current postings in the Let's Meet section of the Forum you will see that various Munches are being organised in different parts of the country, simply to let SH members meet socially.
The organisers have, quite rightly, vetted the applications of those wishing to attend. Those who have joined the site after the recent publicity and who are unknown to the majority of SH members are unlikely to get in, unless they are known to a Moderator or SyOp. That's hard perhaps on any genuine new member, but if they stay with this site, post regularly and/or join the the chatroom mayhem, they will be elligible to attend future events. The whole idea is simply to keep it to known and trusted members and not allow the Media to make it into something it isn't.
It would not be the first time the media has tried to turn a Mole hill into a mountain.
:roll: Harry0
Orgasminator
lucyslovely wrote:
I looked, I read. What a load of bullshit, I have lost count of the times I have been asked to stop by a woman with the excuse: " I'm getting sore"
Harry0
I'm not as good as I once was,
but I'm as good once as I ever was.
:lol: :lol:
Have a look at the sexual difference between men & women.... what dya reckon ???
I looked, I read. What a load of bullshit, I have lost count of the times I have been asked to stop by a woman with the excuse: " I'm getting sore"
Harry0
I'm not as good as I once was,
but I'm as good once as I ever was.
:lol: :lol: Orgasminator
JonahJ wrote:
Yor are correct in most of you assumptions JonahJ. It's not the first time the gutter press had had a dig at we Swingers. Every time it happens, we get an influx of newbies many of whom think they can get a 'quicky' on demand. These inevitably, fall by the wayside after a week or two, but they do cause mayhem until they realise this site is not what it is made out to be by the Media.
In the long run we do gain in the end a few genuine members who do add to the site. Having been a member ( excuse the pun) of this site since just after it's conception (shit another unintended pun) I can say we have suffered several such intrusions into our world by the 'press'. We know what will happen each time the press latch on to our site.
The community does expand and grow each time and in a way we are grateful for that. However, adverse publicity does have a bad side effect. E.G. The Midlands Munch did have a list of 130 wishing to attend. This is now down to 70 simply because the bloody press have been trying their hardest to find out about it. This is a private function to which the press are not invited and it's really pissing them off.
Swinging is a personal lifestyle which regular members enjoy, but as we are a minority group that hasn't the protection of other minorities i.e. Religious and racial groups, we are easy pickings.
The die hard regulars will not be purturbed by the press, and after the brouhaha has died down, we will soldier on until the next expose.
I often wonder how the press would like it, if others pried into their own sexual predelictions, I bet they wouldn't.
The time wasters, dickheads and wankers will be weeded out from this site over the next week or two. The gutter press who have attempted to become members will also be sorted out and removed. We don't want them in here at all.
The publicity has made a lot of work for the moderators and SyOps on this site but we will continue our work despite all the problems that have been caused. We are a community, and a strong one at that, we will survive.
Harry0
Its a bit of a watershed moment for the activity/lifestyle, as its going to attract a lot of attention whilst it remains newsworthy and in the public eye.
It appears that this site has increased re traffic since Stan was set up, which you must have expected. This brings up an interesting issue - is this what you "regulars" would have wanted? I'm not talking about the wind ups etc, but those who have become aware of say dogging and are actively, and genuinely interested. I've only been here a few days and I can see that there is a community feel to the place. The larger the site grows, and the more posters their are, the more likely such a close knit environment will disappear.
Yor are correct in most of you assumptions JonahJ. It's not the first time the gutter press had had a dig at we Swingers. Every time it happens, we get an influx of newbies many of whom think they can get a 'quicky' on demand. These inevitably, fall by the wayside after a week or two, but they do cause mayhem until they realise this site is not what it is made out to be by the Media.
In the long run we do gain in the end a few genuine members who do add to the site. Having been a member ( excuse the pun) of this site since just after it's conception (shit another unintended pun) I can say we have suffered several such intrusions into our world by the 'press'. We know what will happen each time the press latch on to our site.
The community does expand and grow each time and in a way we are grateful for that. However, adverse publicity does have a bad side effect. E.G. The Midlands Munch did have a list of 130 wishing to attend. This is now down to 70 simply because the bloody press have been trying their hardest to find out about it. This is a private function to which the press are not invited and it's really pissing them off.
Swinging is a personal lifestyle which regular members enjoy, but as we are a minority group that hasn't the protection of other minorities i.e. Religious and racial groups, we are easy pickings.
The die hard regulars will not be purturbed by the press, and after the brouhaha has died down, we will soldier on until the next expose.
I often wonder how the press would like it, if others pried into their own sexual predelictions, I bet they wouldn't.
The time wasters, dickheads and wankers will be weeded out from this site over the next week or two. The gutter press who have attempted to become members will also be sorted out and removed. We don't want them in here at all.
The publicity has made a lot of work for the moderators and SyOps on this site but we will continue our work despite all the problems that have been caused. We are a community, and a strong one at that, we will survive.
Harry0
Orgasminator
It's got to be that day feared by all males, when a female dressed on white drags you to a church or Registry Office to get married. Possibly with her father in attendance carrying a loaded shotgun. :lol:
How does that song go "And another one bites the dust" :roll:
Harry0
Been there, done that, and got the divorce certificate to prove it.
:lol: How does that song go "And another one bites the dust"
:roll: Harry0
Been there, done that, and got the divorce certificate to prove it.
Orgasminator
My 'Nick' has nothing whatsoever to do with the 1970's TV Detective Harry Orwell.
Harry is simply my first name, and the '0' comes from a foreplay technique that a lot of ladies say I'm very good at doing. ops:
Harry0
________________________
If that doesn't get a reply to add no 55283, nothing will.
:roll:
Harry is simply my first name, and the '0' comes from a foreplay technique that a lot of ladies say I'm very good at doing.
ops:Harry0
________________________
If that doesn't get a reply to add no 55283, nothing will.
:roll: Orgasminator
Bluexxx wrote:
:doh: Good Grief, I suppose all the Dogging Sites will now be cluttered up with Rolls Royce's. Bentley's, Jaguars and Beamer series 7's now. Where the hell am I going to park.
On the other hand, all those posh cars might just make the local plods think twice before barging in with blue lights flashing.
:rotflmao:
Harry0
Well, the Observer is a step up from The Sun I suppose
:doh: Good Grief, I suppose all the Dogging Sites will now be cluttered up with Rolls Royce's. Bentley's, Jaguars and Beamer series 7's now. Where the hell am I going to park.
On the other hand, all those posh cars might just make the local plods think twice before barging in with blue lights flashing.
:rotflmao: Harry0
Orgasminator
Alexandra wrote:
I couldn't agree more Alexandra. In my humble opinion the Tabloid 'journalists' are lower than the bottom man on a Red Indian Totem Pole. (Apologies to MissChief if she reads this)
:rotflmao:
roger743 wrote:
That's a fair point Roger743, but the Chatroom is currently an open public Chatroom accessible at present by anyone with access to the Internet. Where as The Forum can only be accessed for 'Posting' by registered Swinging Heaven members. However moves are afoot to change access to the Chatroom which will cut out the occasional 'drop in' visitor. A lot of work has been going on recently in the background by Mark the site operator and the SysOps to change that. Hopefully, this will solve a lot of the problems encountered in the Chatroom in recent months and return it to what it once was, i.e. A very pleasant place to visit. 8)
Harry0
________________________
System Op, with sore fingers from typing out warnings, and
worn out boots from kicking miscreants out of the Chatroom. :roll:
Harry - not only responsible adults, the vast majority are far better educated and far nicer people than those so called 'journalists' - I used the term loosely.
I couldn't agree more Alexandra. In my humble opinion the Tabloid 'journalists' are lower than the bottom man on a Red Indian Totem Pole. (Apologies to MissChief if she reads this)
:rotflmao:roger743 wrote:
To be fair, in my experience the chatroom was full of that type of stuff even before the current hullabaloo.
That's a fair point Roger743, but the Chatroom is currently an open public Chatroom accessible at present by anyone with access to the Internet. Where as The Forum can only be accessed for 'Posting' by registered Swinging Heaven members. However moves are afoot to change access to the Chatroom which will cut out the occasional 'drop in' visitor. A lot of work has been going on recently in the background by Mark the site operator and the SysOps to change that. Hopefully, this will solve a lot of the problems encountered in the Chatroom in recent months and return it to what it once was, i.e. A very pleasant place to visit. 8)
Harry0
________________________
System Op, with sore fingers from typing out warnings, and
worn out boots from kicking miscreants out of the Chatroom.
:roll: Orgasminator
JonahJ wrote:
If you re read my post JonahJ I was not tarring all newbies with the same brush but wrote:
This is not an all inclusive term. The word many does not mean all.
But have a look at what the Moderators in both the Forum and Charoom have had to put up with during the last few days, and I think you might agree that there are a lot of newbies who do fit my 'Sad demented fool' comment.
Sadly many people do not appreciate what Swinging is, and dive into the water without taking the temperature first. Some get their balls burnt off, others will freeze to death waiting for something, that in all probability, will not happen.
Swinging is a lifestyle. What it is not, is a simple method for some people to get their end away. Unfortunately that's the impression that the 'Press' and other 'Media' give out.
If you are genuinely interested in the Swinging life style you are very welcome here, but as a single male, you may have a long while to wait, before making contact. However, if your girlfriend is also interested in Swinging, you may well be off to a good start. Couples always find other couples much easier to contact, than single men do. Have fun.
Harry0
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The first doggers used to arrive in horse drawn cabs. lol
Think you're being a bit harsh Harry. I'm not expecting an "easy lay" and don't believe taking an interest makes me a "sad, demented fool".
If you re read my post JonahJ I was not tarring all newbies with the same brush but wrote:
many are probably young men, who having read, The Sun, think they can get an easy 'lay' by simply joining this site. (Sad demented fools).
This is not an all inclusive term. The word many does not mean all.
But have a look at what the Moderators in both the Forum and Charoom have had to put up with during the last few days, and I think you might agree that there are a lot of newbies who do fit my 'Sad demented fool' comment.
Sadly many people do not appreciate what Swinging is, and dive into the water without taking the temperature first. Some get their balls burnt off, others will freeze to death waiting for something, that in all probability, will not happen.
Swinging is a lifestyle. What it is not, is a simple method for some people to get their end away. Unfortunately that's the impression that the 'Press' and other 'Media' give out.
If you are genuinely interested in the Swinging life style you are very welcome here, but as a single male, you may have a long while to wait, before making contact. However, if your girlfriend is also interested in Swinging, you may well be off to a good start. Couples always find other couples much easier to contact, than single men do. Have fun.
Harry0
____________________________
The first doggers used to arrive in horse drawn cabs. lol
Orgasminator
krissxxx wrote:
Checking the site members register shows that 350 new people have joined up since the 2nd March. From the number of posts put up since that date, it is obvious that a great many have had this site brought to their notice by various articles in The Sun, Sport, radio and TV all since Collymore hit the headlines. :(
Some of these newbies, are probably genuine swingers, many are probably young men, who having read, The Sun, think they can get an easy 'lay' by simply joining this site. (Sad demented fools). A few have been trouble makers. This latter group have already been removed from this site permanently. If you read some of the locked threads in various sections of The Forum, you will see why. Finally there have been several journalists looking for news stories (Sad gits). :roll:
The Chatroom has gone from an average of 60 or so members at a time to over 160 at peak times. Again nearly all newbies, who haven't a clue how to behave in a chatroom at all. Very few, if any, have read the rules concerning conduct and chatroom proceedure and consequently get kicked out by the room SysOps or Moderators. I mean can you really expect a message saying, "25yr old Essex male, well hung, into all forms of sex PVT me now" is even going to get a single reply. I don't think so. But that's what is happening.
:x :x
Many newcomers to the chatroom have pretended to be, or have used a nickname suggesting they are, Collymore, not any longer though, as virtually all permutations of his name are on 'autokick' so these 'wannabees' can't enter and stay, and are booted out immediately. :lol:
It has been a very frantic week for all the Forum and Chatroom Moderators and despite all of us being fairly laid back and easy going, many of us are now burning on a very short fuse.
:evil:
Swingers and Doggers are a Minority Lifestyle Group in Britain, and therefore fair game for the 'gutter press' when 'real news' is slow. Their 'Headlines' are augmented by articles from various 'Agony Aunts' along with TV and Radio programmes who's presenters, simply haven't a clue what they are talking about. :shock: :shock:
All this media rubbish gives the general public the false idea that Swingers are a degenerate group. Nothing could be further from the truth. We are, with very few exceptions, very responsible adults. But trying to convince the media of that is impossible.
Harry0
:taz: Rant over.
but i was just wondering, how high has the interest in this site been boosted since the stan collymore incident etc??
Checking the site members register shows that 350 new people have joined up since the 2nd March. From the number of posts put up since that date, it is obvious that a great many have had this site brought to their notice by various articles in The Sun, Sport, radio and TV all since Collymore hit the headlines.
:( Some of these newbies, are probably genuine swingers, many are probably young men, who having read, The Sun, think they can get an easy 'lay' by simply joining this site. (Sad demented fools). A few have been trouble makers. This latter group have already been removed from this site permanently. If you read some of the locked threads in various sections of The Forum, you will see why. Finally there have been several journalists looking for news stories (Sad gits).
:roll: The Chatroom has gone from an average of 60 or so members at a time to over 160 at peak times. Again nearly all newbies, who haven't a clue how to behave in a chatroom at all. Very few, if any, have read the rules concerning conduct and chatroom proceedure and consequently get kicked out by the room SysOps or Moderators. I mean can you really expect a message saying, "25yr old Essex male, well hung, into all forms of sex PVT me now" is even going to get a single reply. I don't think so. But that's what is happening.
:x :x Many newcomers to the chatroom have pretended to be, or have used a nickname suggesting they are, Collymore, not any longer though, as virtually all permutations of his name are on 'autokick' so these 'wannabees' can't enter and stay, and are booted out immediately.
:lol: It has been a very frantic week for all the Forum and Chatroom Moderators and despite all of us being fairly laid back and easy going, many of us are now burning on a very short fuse.
:evil: Swingers and Doggers are a Minority Lifestyle Group in Britain, and therefore fair game for the 'gutter press' when 'real news' is slow. Their 'Headlines' are augmented by articles from various 'Agony Aunts' along with TV and Radio programmes who's presenters, simply haven't a clue what they are talking about. :shock: :shock:
All this media rubbish gives the general public the false idea that Swingers are a degenerate group. Nothing could be further from the truth. We are, with very few exceptions, very responsible adults. But trying to convince the media of that is impossible.
Harry0
:taz: Rant over.
Orgasminator
WannaSwing,
Please read my post further up this page about swinging. In addition have a look in the Photo Adds section, males looking for females, and females looking for men. Do the math,
your chances are so slim a bookie would give very good odds that you won't be successful.
Most swingers are couples who want to meet other couples, so the chances for a single male meeting up with a couple are very slender indeed.
Place an advert by all means, but don't hold your breath waiting for a reply. Ignore totally how many people have looked at your advert in a few days time, there might be 10 or 500 but if you haven't had an email from any one of them, they are not interested.
Even getting an Email doesn't mean your in, people will want to meet you on neutral ground first, to check you out, if they have any doubts or qualms at all, you've lost out, all you will just get is a polite, No thank you, or Your not what we are looking for.
To sum it all up: It's a very long, hard and bumpy road from setting out in here to getting into someone elses bed, many drop by the wayside in the attempt.
Harry0
I have been Swinging since the days adds were placed in
underground newspapers and magazines. A time when the
abbacus was the only computer available to the masses.
Please read my post further up this page about swinging. In addition have a look in the Photo Adds section, males looking for females, and females looking for men. Do the math,
your chances are so slim a bookie would give very good odds that you won't be successful.
Most swingers are couples who want to meet other couples, so the chances for a single male meeting up with a couple are very slender indeed.
Place an advert by all means, but don't hold your breath waiting for a reply. Ignore totally how many people have looked at your advert in a few days time, there might be 10 or 500 but if you haven't had an email from any one of them, they are not interested.
Even getting an Email doesn't mean your in, people will want to meet you on neutral ground first, to check you out, if they have any doubts or qualms at all, you've lost out, all you will just get is a polite, No thank you, or Your not what we are looking for.
To sum it all up: It's a very long, hard and bumpy road from setting out in here to getting into someone elses bed, many drop by the wayside in the attempt.
Harry0
I have been Swinging since the days adds were placed in
underground newspapers and magazines. A time when the
abbacus was the only computer available to the masses.
Orgasminator
Motorjohn wrote:
I'm afraid there is a large number of people like you around, who have just heard of this site, through the 'Press', Radio, and TV. They pop here in expecting to be able to select a group they would like to join for 'Instant Sex'. :twisted: :twisted:
Unfortunately it doesn't work like that. It takes time to get known to other members of this site, and they have got to get to know you. This can take quite a long period of time. :cry: :cry:
Look at it from their point of view. They do not know you, what you are like physically, what your sexual preferences are, what your abilities are, or anything else about you.
For all they know at present, you could be a member of the media, just looking for a story.
:x
Before you can get involved in either 1 on 1, or group sex you have to get yourself known to others on this site. This can be done by putting up 'Posts' in the forum, or answering other 'posts' places by other members. Going to a few of The Munches held around the country will also get you known. Munches are social events, where other members get to know each other, not for sexual persuits. The Chatroom may also be of help but with upto 160+ people in at any one time, you have to be a speed reader and typist just to keep up. :(
You could place an add in the Photo adds section, but don't expect a quick reply, there are thousands of others advertising in there. If you place an add, you have to be very honest, if someone replies to your add and you don't fit the description of yourself, you wont get any further than the front door.
You say you are young, most Swingers are in their 30's or older and far more sexually experienced than any young person, so youth is not necessarily an advantage to you, in fact in many cases, youth is a disadvantage. Toy Boys are mainly for aging 'Celebs'.
Sorry if it seems that I am a 'wet blanket' but as I said at the beginning of this post nothing is instant on this site. If you want quick 'sex' your chances are much better if you go to a city centre pub or club and try to pick up someone there.
If you are prepared to join in the various sections of Swinging Heaven you may after some weeks or months, get lucky. However, with so many to compete against there is also the possibility, you may never get lucky. That's life. It's up to you to decide.
Harry0
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I was swinging before they invented the pendulum.
Hi Iam high sex drive young lad after some strigh group sex in north west.
I would like as soon as you can
I'm afraid there is a large number of people like you around, who have just heard of this site, through the 'Press', Radio, and TV. They pop here in expecting to be able to select a group they would like to join for 'Instant Sex'. :twisted: :twisted:
Unfortunately it doesn't work like that. It takes time to get known to other members of this site, and they have got to get to know you. This can take quite a long period of time. :cry: :cry:
Look at it from their point of view. They do not know you, what you are like physically, what your sexual preferences are, what your abilities are, or anything else about you.
For all they know at present, you could be a member of the media, just looking for a story.
:x Before you can get involved in either 1 on 1, or group sex you have to get yourself known to others on this site. This can be done by putting up 'Posts' in the forum, or answering other 'posts' places by other members. Going to a few of The Munches held around the country will also get you known. Munches are social events, where other members get to know each other, not for sexual persuits. The Chatroom may also be of help but with upto 160+ people in at any one time, you have to be a speed reader and typist just to keep up.
:( You could place an add in the Photo adds section, but don't expect a quick reply, there are thousands of others advertising in there. If you place an add, you have to be very honest, if someone replies to your add and you don't fit the description of yourself, you wont get any further than the front door.
You say you are young, most Swingers are in their 30's or older and far more sexually experienced than any young person, so youth is not necessarily an advantage to you, in fact in many cases, youth is a disadvantage. Toy Boys are mainly for aging 'Celebs'.
Sorry if it seems that I am a 'wet blanket' but as I said at the beginning of this post nothing is instant on this site. If you want quick 'sex' your chances are much better if you go to a city centre pub or club and try to pick up someone there.
If you are prepared to join in the various sections of Swinging Heaven you may after some weeks or months, get lucky. However, with so many to compete against there is also the possibility, you may never get lucky. That's life. It's up to you to decide.
Harry0
________________________
I was swinging before they invented the pendulum.
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curious_karrie wrote
Are you sure your accessing them properly Karrie?
To access, double click on the Pm box on the top line of the Forum page. This should open your PM's window. Then scroll down a little and you should find a box listing all your PMs. Double click on each one to open them.
Give it a go and enjoy reading.
Harry0
Sorry there isn't one from me.
Is anybody else having trouble collecting their pm's? Or is it just me? I can see them piling up, i'm so excited, but i can't get to read them!
Are you sure your accessing them properly Karrie?
To access, double click on the Pm box on the top line of the Forum page. This should open your PM's window. Then scroll down a little and you should find a box listing all your PMs. Double click on each one to open them.
Give it a go and enjoy reading.
Harry0
Sorry there isn't one from me.
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Bobo wrote:
Not a good suggestion about the camera bobo, especially after the pics in the 'Press' this never know they may well have a camera of their own
Harry0
Think sex, think safe sex, think 'Press'. Condoms will not save you there.
hi we are out tonight looking for a couple or bi male to watch us and take some pics of us with our cam
Not a good suggestion about the camera bobo, especially after the pics in the 'Press' this never know they may well have a camera of their own
Harry0
Think sex, think safe sex, think 'Press'. Condoms will not save you there.
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Mark wrote:
Not quite sure what your referring to there Mark. Was it to the years I spent on night shift shaking door handles? Or that occasion when I had a meeting with a single female, who had not previously met me, and who ran for her life when she saw my face. :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Harry0
And as for your posts towards harry0, I will just say that he's one of the good guys, so please, don't take it out on him if you're pissed off and angry about your local policing situation. He knows what he's talking about - I'm sure he won't mind me saying that he's been round the block a few times himself
Not quite sure what your referring to there Mark. Was it to the years I spent on night shift shaking door handles?
Or that occasion when I had a meeting with a single female, who had not previously met me, and who ran for her life when she saw my face. :rotflmao: :rotflmao:Harry0
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steveg_nw wrote:
Problem solved steve, wearing my steel armour that night, I doubt if bluexxx will have a tin opener with her. You'll still get your pint, bye the way, I hope you don't dance like your emoticon/avitar of yours.
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Harry0
COWARD!!!
It's not gonna be waitress service ya know. You're gonna have to move away from the wall to buy that drink you promised me. :twisted:
Problem solved steve, wearing my steel armour that night, I doubt if bluexxx will have a tin opener with her. You'll still get your pint, bye the way, I hope you don't dance like your emoticon/avitar of yours.
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: Harry0
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Bluexxx wrote:
You will have no problem finding me Bluexxx, I'll be the guy with his back firmly against the wall all night. :roll: :roll:
Harry0
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Note to self: Must remember to pack strap on when going to Mids munch
:twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
And you think I'm kidding
:twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
You will have no problem finding me Bluexxx, I'll be the guy with his back firmly against the wall all night.
:roll: :roll: Harry0
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: Orgasminator
horny_brum_cple wrote:
No one pulls my strings horny_brum_cple.I'm my own man, and I make my own decisions.
If 'outing myself' means, do I support the rule of Law and Order? the answer is: Yes I do, but not necessarily the way all the laws are enforced.
Having a moan in the pages of The Forum may make you feel better, but it won't do a thing for cutting crime in your area, you will have to take your moan to those who can do something about it.
In case your wondering I have been both Dogged and been a Dogger for over 30 years.
Harry0
wonders .............'Who pulls your strings' HarryO ???
fair play to ya m8...for 'outting' yaself....at least 'we know' 'whose side of the fence u sit on' !!!!!
No one pulls my strings horny_brum_cple.I'm my own man, and I make my own decisions.
If 'outing myself' means, do I support the rule of Law and Order? the answer is: Yes I do, but not necessarily the way all the laws are enforced.
Having a moan in the pages of The Forum may make you feel better, but it won't do a thing for cutting crime in your area, you will have to take your moan to those who can do something about it.
In case your wondering I have been both Dogged and been a Dogger for over 30 years.
Harry0
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horny_brum_cple wrote:
Why the whinge horny_brum_cple?
At least he has put forward some useful suggestions. If you have a problem in your area take it up with your local Chief Constable in person.
Policing policies differ around the country, many are driven by local polititians who like nothing more than to get themselves noticed by the press. Hence the number of policemen visiting dogging sites in various areas around the country.
The current Police Commissioner in the Met was, before his appointment, the best Chief Constable Northumbria ever had, and his policies, apparently, do not include the persuit of Doggers by his officers. If they were, Sgt Mckee would be hauled over the coals for sending that Email to Mark and probably demoted as well.
Seeing as Birmingham is well outside the Metropolitan area his policies have no effect where you live, so as I said, take it up with your own Chief Constable.
It would seem from your 'post' that there are a lot of crime problems where you live. If you get no response from your own Chief Constable then take your complaints to your own MP. With a General Election in the near future, he may get off his backside and put pressure onto the criminal elements by making complaints himself to the Chief Constable.
Harry0
Ask 'Sgt Mckee' ....WHY THE FUCK SHOULD WE LISTEN TO HIS SHITE. ???
Why the whinge horny_brum_cple?
At least he has put forward some useful suggestions. If you have a problem in your area take it up with your local Chief Constable in person.
Policing policies differ around the country, many are driven by local polititians who like nothing more than to get themselves noticed by the press. Hence the number of policemen visiting dogging sites in various areas around the country.
The current Police Commissioner in the Met was, before his appointment, the best Chief Constable Northumbria ever had, and his policies, apparently, do not include the persuit of Doggers by his officers. If they were, Sgt Mckee would be hauled over the coals for sending that Email to Mark and probably demoted as well.
Seeing as Birmingham is well outside the Metropolitan area his policies have no effect where you live, so as I said, take it up with your own Chief Constable.
It would seem from your 'post' that there are a lot of crime problems where you live. If you get no response from your own Chief Constable then take your complaints to your own MP. With a General Election in the near future, he may get off his backside and put pressure onto the criminal elements by making complaints himself to the Chief Constable.
Harry0
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KitKat wrote:
What's the betting that those footballers now in custody in Spain blame SH for corrupting them. pmsl. The snag with all this free advertising is it brings a lot of 'prats' in, as well as those genuinely interested in Swinging
Harry0
A little press interest is never a bad thing, free advertising and all that, but with the Sun, the Mirror, Radio 4 and Radio 2 all discussing the issue within 48 hours, that is quite a heftly chunk of advertising!
What's the betting that those footballers now in custody in Spain blame SH for corrupting them. pmsl. The snag with all this free advertising is it brings a lot of 'prats' in, as well as those genuinely interested in Swinging
Harry0
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Please don't forget the Chatroom System Ops. We have been having problems as well.
160+ in the chatroom last night at one time and over 80 in this morning, just after 10am. :roll:
The Chatroom Rules are being ignored by so many newbies that we SyOps have at times been forced to work on a Zero Tolerance. i.e. No Warnings.
The number of claims to be Stan Collimore exceed those made by people pretending to be Spartacus. :x
Several of the SyOps are also Moderators in this Forum, so have a double workload. Please don't make life any harder for them.
Will Forum members who visit the Chatroom for the first time please read the room rules first. It will save us kicking you out.
Harry0
160+ in the chatroom last night at one time and over 80 in this morning, just after 10am.
:roll: The Chatroom Rules are being ignored by so many newbies that we SyOps have at times been forced to work on a Zero Tolerance. i.e. No Warnings.
The number of claims to be Stan Collimore exceed those made by people pretending to be Spartacus.
:x Several of the SyOps are also Moderators in this Forum, so have a double workload. Please don't make life any harder for them.
Will Forum members who visit the Chatroom for the first time please read the room rules first. It will save us kicking you out.
Harry0
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vodka_babe22uk wrote:
Hi Vodka
If you go to the SH Chatroom page there is a small 'how to' print it out and follow the guide, but you will have to register your nickname with mIRC first.
It takes most people a couple of tries to do it correctly,
Don't give up we miss you in the chatroom.
Harry0
Is there a kind person out there who can help me been trying for days to get into chat room and i still cant i download mirc but still canr make it in
im missing out on all the fun n cuddles
Hi Vodka
If you go to the SH Chatroom page there is a small 'how to' print it out and follow the guide, but you will have to register your nickname with mIRC first.
It takes most people a couple of tries to do it correctly,
Don't give up we miss you in the chatroom.
Harry0
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Another ' Heads Up' People
Pesky Netsky Virus Swamps the Net
Netsky.D relies on curious users to open the email it travels in and click on the attachment
A destructive new computer virus is spreading by email at an unprecedented rate.
The Netsky.D virus, the fourth version of an email worm that scours networks seeking new addresses to send itself to, appeared for the first time on Monday, but since then has spawned seven variants worldwide.
Netsky.D can infect machines running Windows 95, 98, 2000, ME and XP.
Like many other recent Windows viruses Netsky.D relies on curious users to open the email it travels in and click on the attachment it carries to launch the malicious program.
Carol Theriault, security consultant at anti-virus company Sophos, said the virus was "clogging up e-mail communication".
She said: "Its main problem is it's spreading quite wildly. Even if you have anti-virus protection it's clogging up email communication and slowing everything down.
"There's so much traffic, it's like 10,000 people trying to get into Harrods at the same time."
The virus disguises itself using a number of subject lines and names for the attachment.
But users can spot it because all the attachments bear the same .pif suffix. They can then delete it before it causes harm.
Netsky.D avoids sending itself to anti-virus firms and Microsoft in a bid to maximise the time it gets to spread.
Ms Theriault said she didn't believe Netsky.D would be as bad as last year's Sobig and Blaster viruses, but that would depend on how people reacted.
"Companies can block all programme files coming in from e-mail - this will protect them from this virus and all future viruses," she said.
She advised users to be wary of messages they were not expecting that arrived bearing attachments.
"Users should not click on attachments if they do not know what they contain," she added.
Source AOL.
Update your anti-virus software as soon as possible folks.
Harry0
Pesky Netsky Virus Swamps the Net
Netsky.D relies on curious users to open the email it travels in and click on the attachment
A destructive new computer virus is spreading by email at an unprecedented rate.
The Netsky.D virus, the fourth version of an email worm that scours networks seeking new addresses to send itself to, appeared for the first time on Monday, but since then has spawned seven variants worldwide.
Netsky.D can infect machines running Windows 95, 98, 2000, ME and XP.
Like many other recent Windows viruses Netsky.D relies on curious users to open the email it travels in and click on the attachment it carries to launch the malicious program.
Carol Theriault, security consultant at anti-virus company Sophos, said the virus was "clogging up e-mail communication".
She said: "Its main problem is it's spreading quite wildly. Even if you have anti-virus protection it's clogging up email communication and slowing everything down.
"There's so much traffic, it's like 10,000 people trying to get into Harrods at the same time."
The virus disguises itself using a number of subject lines and names for the attachment.
But users can spot it because all the attachments bear the same .pif suffix. They can then delete it before it causes harm.
Netsky.D avoids sending itself to anti-virus firms and Microsoft in a bid to maximise the time it gets to spread.
Ms Theriault said she didn't believe Netsky.D would be as bad as last year's Sobig and Blaster viruses, but that would depend on how people reacted.
"Companies can block all programme files coming in from e-mail - this will protect them from this virus and all future viruses," she said.
She advised users to be wary of messages they were not expecting that arrived bearing attachments.
"Users should not click on attachments if they do not know what they contain," she added.
Source AOL.
Update your anti-virus software as soon as possible folks.
Harry0
