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herts_darlings1
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 56
Bisexual Male, 64
0 miles · Hertfordshire

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This is the Mr side of herts here. As a bi male, I have in the past chatted to guys who have thought they might be bi. I have met some with the understanding (on my part) that it is for a drink and a chat. If we get on and things go further then fine but that is not what we are meeting for.
Not sure if this approach will work with a bi female (not my area of expertise really) but at least there would be no expectations and no pressure. Who knows, if you just became friend it would not be a bad thing.
Cant lock the lock the door coz its elf and safety mate! cobblers. We use a popular club that has lockable rooms and actually has panic buttons in them. So it's your choice. They work too as we found out be accident one Saturday evening. Surely the point is you do what you want, with whom you want and were you want! if that is in public view then fine, if in private fine. Irony is, if it the club I am thinking it is, we were once told to "get a room" as a bit of a joke. What's the bloody point when they ain't got locks on the doors.
We attended our first such event last weekend, yes they do exist and yes it was great fun! Interaction with the guys was important though. We both ended up covered in goo and horny which all went well for when we were on our own and in the shower.
We will go again for sure.
We can concure with MidsCouple24 about Vanilla Alternative! it has a hotel on the site and a great atmosphere. If you want to just chill it has a great jacuzzi or if you want to strutt your stuff the dry area is fab too. If you add up membership, entry and room it can be a bit pricey though.
Not been to too many other clubs with the same atmosphere! but it can also depend on when you go and the crowd that are there as well.
Hope you find what you are looking for and enjoy it, good luck.
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Quote by jips66
I have been an electrician for many years and do a lot of work in poeples houses. I would just love if some one a lady or cpl would like while i am up my steps someone would put their hand between my legs for some fun. Its never happened not yet, do any of you swingers ever fancied doing that with a guy working in the house. How do u read the signs?

I am a plumber and it did happen to me once whilst I was working under a ladies sink!
Sorry to disapoint you all but it frightened the life out of me!The only thing I could think about was I am in a strange house, on my own with a stranger who may or may not have a psyciatric problem!
It did nothing for me creep me out!
Hi,
We have just booked a hotel room on 22nd December 2012 close to Vanilla. Any couples want to meet up for a quick drink before heading off to Vanilla or back to ours if we all get on, drop us a line.
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Quote by Axor69
Now that a barrier has been installed at the other car park, i was wondering where everybody goes now.

Shame, we like to go there and eat chips!
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Hi there,
We have been members on SH for about 8 months. Not super active/logged in, but even when we are, we seem to attract HARDCORE swingers, we have limitation on our profile and not looking for guys or someone with 30 years experience or aged 60.
Is this website a waste of time and only good for Hardcore swingers????
We haven't done anything yet as per issue above. We normal with normal play ideas.

Kind of agree with other comments, Social gatherings are a good place to start, also if you do go in the chat rooms you can start building friendships, swap emails and get to know another couple who have the same outlook as you two do. Yes the "I only live 5 mins away" crowd will pester you but ignore them, you didn't invite them to whisper so dont feel bad not replying to people you dont want to. We have only been on the site a few months but have made some good friends we are never going to even meet but enjoy chatting to. It is a swinging site but it is not all about sex (if that makes sense)
Hope we are free, we really enjoyed the last one. It was our first event and have made some great friends from it. Please count us in sexy!
J&V
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Hi,
We are visiting Rio's Saturday 9th June from about till late. Love to meet friendly people for flirting, seduction and fun.
J&V
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