Quote by Colts23
hate to say it as probably look a berk....but cycling at the mo !
making use of the summer at least. oh and cooking puddings for some reason
How do you cycle secretly?
Mine's dancing round to Mama Mia.

Quote by Rogue_Trader
I'm confused on the whole Ice Cream bit??? I mean what flavour? alien fish food? mars? galaxy? milky way?
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Why don't the make them out of that new biodegradable plastic? Within 6 months it'd be gone.
But anyway I'm with the majority and ewwww!
Quote by Paddy
If you are meeting a couple with a view to join him in f*cking his wife, or in my case, f*cking my wife while I watch, usually armed with a mug of coffee i might add,how do you go about making the couple feel at ease. I do understand that it must take some 'balls' to step up to the mark by you guys but this is about your approach to them. Just am asking out of curiosity.
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If you are meeting a couple with a view to join him in f*cking his wife, or in my case, f*cking my wife while I watch, usually armed with a mug of coffee i might add,how do you go about making the couple feel at ease. I do understand that it must take some 'balls' to step up to the mark by you guys but this is about your approach to them. Just am asking out of curiosity.
Quote by flower411
Just seen another odd one where a robot interrupts a couple dogging, the lady in the ad lifts her head off the guys lap and the robot finishes the chat by saying "who's the daddy?" strange but true.
Quote by Max_Million
their advances are rejected. I am always polite in response to a couple or female I might be chatting with in the chatroom when perhaps some single males might become offensive. Some people can be all nice and sweet when they think they still have a chance... but become aggressive and rude when their advances are rejected. Which makes me think that if I was part of a couple or a single female I would use this as a test to see how they react when that seemingly polite single male is told "no thanks". If they pass the test with a polite "okay, just thought I'd ask but sorry to trouble you" then they might actually be in with a chance with me
Quote by Rogue_Trader
The default position of all adult and or censored sites being blocked should be the norm. If you require access then phone up to get it released. I don't see what the hardship is.
If the knee jerk reaction is to scream nanny state / fascists /police controlling well unfortunately we have some c***s in our society who dont care what their children are exposed to so for the good of us alllets put it in place.
It will probably mean I can not access here or many other places |I visit when away from home, but its a small price to pay in my liberties for the good of the country as a whole.
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Hello!
We joined this site to obviously meet other people with the same 'interests' as us, but while we've had a few back and forth messages, we haven't had as much interaction as we would like.
To be honest we're wondering whether this website is really the best thing for us? Ideally we are looking for friends who swing rather than swingers who seem like nice people, so the non-sex/social side is really important for us. There doesn't seem to be very much in our area and those who we've tried to message haven't responded back (which is no problem - they don't have I be attracted to us after all)
Our age requirements are limiting, however we really do want to meet people our own age (which is logical given what we want out of the lifestyle). We also don't want to go to clubs as that doesn't seem to be our thing, so really we can understand that our options are reduced somewhat.
We're really unsure where the kinds of people go that we want to meet? Where do mid 20's/early 30's people go that want to explore their sex lives with other people that isn't swingers clubs or the Internet??? You would think we would just go out to vanilla clubs etc, however our social life is knackered and anyway, historically we've been hopeless at the whole pulling thing - as you can see we are a great catch hahahaha!
Does anyone have any advice at all?
Thanks in advance.
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What is a t-girl party?
I'd like to know about people's first gay experiences and how they felt about it afterwards.
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Hey folks.
I have a question I hope some of you can help with.
I consider myself straight and am married (although that isn't going all that well). Our sex life is next to none existent, I have tried to talk to her about it and other issues in our relationship and she doesn't want to know/doesnt think theres a problem so I am getting to the stage I want to go elsewhere.
Now as I said I consider myself straight but I often fantasise about having sex with men. I am always "the taker" and I often fantasise about giving and receiving oral sex. The thing is I don't fancy men, I can appreciate what women see in some blokes but I am not physically attracted to men.
I am seriously considering going dogging just to try it with another guy as I have never had a gay experience but when I have gay fantasies, as soon as I ejaculate I feel like I couldn't go through with it.
So can any of you bi guys relate to this? I don't want to go for it then regret it straight after. I think I should start with the basics, maybe a bit of masturbation to see how it goes. I have done some c2c with other guys and used toys on myself which was great but if it came to it I don't know if I could go through with it.
So, any suggestions/advice? I can't bear the though of doing anything with a fat, sweaty, hairy middle aged man so whoever it was would have to be youngish, well kept and reasonably attractive which makes me think maybe dogging isn't the answer.
Cheers.
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Very curious to know what games or approaches people use when swinging and it's time to get nekked. Do you have a favourite tool (no pun intended) that makes it a fun and sexy experience?
Please share your tips. We'd love to try some of them ourselves!
Andy and Jane xxx
Quote by DirtynSquirty
One of those tricky issues at the heart of a specific swinging setting this. People will have different but perfectly justified views, all ways.
Broadly speaking we feel a club setting is a public arena and should promote a libertarian ethos with many conventional social rules left at the door. Unfortunately many make the mistake of creating a whole new set of rules which can be somewhat stifling. They should be places where people look to escape the conventions and seek to explore beyond the inhibitions.
We have grown to enjoy being watched/observed but not so keen on being gawped at. The difference being, a connection and understanding of the moment. We love to share that moment with those that understand it. We think Xtasia have got it right of the clubs we have been to with their lockable rooms but with a discrete line of mirrors at the apex of wall and ceiling. Perfect for keeping a distance but enough to make the connection.
Must admit that fellow guests slipping into closed private rooms always strikes us as very anti-social but take the point that others might want privacy. But fundamentally feel that those people might be suited to doing their swinging in the sanctuary of their own bedroom!