Nice post, thanks. Really interesting. I met am aspiring ladyboy when I was volunteering in Thailand and till now didn't know anything about the background. I remember watching New Year fireworks on the beach he with is arms around me and me not sure whether he was in male or female role at the time. Whatever, I enjoyed it.
Jezzay.
I don't know how to behave!!! I have a second date tomorrow night with someone from a 'straight' dating site and he's really nice and I no longer know what to do. I can't say 'Let's go back to mine' etc etc. I can't tell him whatever he wants to do in the bedroom is fine by me. I have to be proper.
Do I?
How long do I have to be 'proper'?
When do I tell him about SH?
Can I ever go back to the vanilla world?
Jezzay.
Verging on a hijack cos it's not food but this week I got the definite tingles through - wait for it - accupuncture.
I'm having my lower back treated so was lying face down and it isn't comfortable when the needles go in but quite quickly - wow!!!
Just wondered if anybody else had a similar experience???????
Jezzay
... as he was signing my copy of his autobiography!
He's so lovely!!! We discussed 'Stop thinking, start living' which I read while travelling and which has his recommendation on it and which stops you being depressed. Ever. And oh I dunno - loads of stuff. I tell you that 30 seconds just passed in no time.
I just wanted to kidnap him and bring him home with me. (I hadn't worked out precisely how I was going to manage that on a bicycle.)
Wouldn't it be nice if he were a swinger :silly: :silly:
Jezzay
Roger, you might not like this.
As you know I wanted to go to your non-Munch get-together in a pub and was really disappointed when I couldn't because back problems prevented me making the journey.
However, when I later read the posts and read the 'Pished in Peterborough' thread I thought 'Thank god I didn't go'.
Because I wanted to meet up and chat - I really did - I want to at every Munch but I can't. Either because the music is to loud or because people don't talk to me.
But I didn't want to be part of a crowd that attracted attention - I didn't want to flash my tits in public. I love the action behind closed doors as you well know. But I may never go to another SH social function because of what happens.
Jezzay.
You guys - Glastonbury is so 20th century.
Anybody else going to WOMAD?
Jezzay.
The forum's the place. But not for adverts. It's about conversation and questions and debates and fallings-out and get-togethers and eventually parties so I am sure you could be succesful.
But for what you are and not what you advertise. Relax and enjoy.
Jezzay
I once viewed a house - in the days when I hadn't completely come to terms with my own sexuality - and over the double bed was a H-U-G-E erotic painting. I was put off because I felt there's no way I will ever be that sexual/sensual therefore it is not the home for me. Illogical maybe but I suggest putting your gear in storage and doing the fresh-flowers-real coffee-home-baked-cakes-thing.
Jezzay.
If you really are 'Mature' swingers then the time of the month thing will soon not be an issue and all your problems will be resolved.
Jezzay.
No no not again. Enough!!
Single guys are wonderful. I love them. Please don't exclude them, slander them, charge them twice the admission fee. They're OK. We nEEEEEd them. And mostly they're really cute.
Jezzay.
But you missed one out.
"By how many goals are Norwich City going to beat Manchester United?"
Jezzay.
Thanks Harry,
Makes me feel better that the single guy wasn't going to hanging around anyway. Wouldn't have wanted to go all that way and miss out!
Also went out locally and saw a most amazing lady singer - Emiliana Torrini. Such beautiful songs. (She's done stuff on the Lord of the Rings films apparently.)
Yes - I have high hopes for an East Anglian get-together. I have always bottled out of organising one myself.
Mmnnn.. perhaps this should have been a PM. Never mind.
Jezzay.
I'm sorry all but I can't make it tonight.
Roger knows I've been struggling with a painful back for months now which has completely knackered my partying. And oh was I ready for some fun! But I can't even contemplate sitting on the train for an hour and a half.
I feel bad because there aren't very many single girls around but I can't help it. Have a great time. I'm off to wallow in a large pool of self-pity. And it's raining.
Jezzay.
You had to be there.
Those of us pathetic enough to be home on a Friday night (thank you, best mate, can't you be tired on a Tuesday?) were watching TV and on BBC2 there is Outlaws which is a legal drama and it opened with the arrest of a boy-racer who had hassled two doggers. A couple, namely Silk and Satin where Silk was a girl wearing black stockings and Satin was a guy also wearing black stockings. The boy-racer, originally intent on taking the pi**, decides to join in but gets rejected so gets violent. However - is there anybody out there still awake? - turns out Satin does martial arts (Oh Satin - I've visited your web-site) and boyracer comes off worst.
So come on author - I know you're in here.....
Jezzay.
Yup - you're right. Very right.
But in the meantime, while I'm waiting, (and it could be a long wait), I'll settle for two men, maybe three.
Jezzay.
Funny though - does anybody else agree - I think it's the same in real life? At the Munches there is - contradict me please - a visible gap between the Cafe and the Chatroom attendees. Sometimes I've felt that there are two Swinging Heavens. (But then, life couldn't be that good. Could it?)
Jezzay.
And it was a boy-racer who decided to join in and got rejected because he was "too small" who got beaten up but was still in the wrong because he hadn't been invited to join in and... then it got complicated.
Anyway - I am so-o-o-o-o hoping the writer of "Outlaws" is a visitor to this site because it's the best piece of British comic/drama I've seen in ages. And the Ska/Specials soundtrack is pretty cool too.
Jezzay.
I swear - it's on the tele right now. "Outlaws".
Satin's the one with black stockings and hairy legs....
Jezzay.
Ooh yes please! Thanks guys.
Jezzay.
Oh cummon - it's all bollocks, isn't it. I'm a Geordie honestly (Wallsend born - when they launched a ship the back-draft took the ornaments off the mantlepiece - so they tell me).
But I've lived in Wales, Mexico and Norwich. And it isn't the geography or the accent. People in the NE can be warm and can be rude and exclusive.
People in North Wales don't talk Welsh to piss you off but because it's easier for them, especially after a couple of pints.
People in East Anglia may know their cousins rather better than they ought but, I tell ya, the chat and the fun on the local buses is unrivalled.
And so to sex. I have enjoyed time with men from seven countries let alone different regions of England and believe me, geography doesn't enter into it!!!!!!!!!
Don't EVER let anyone make you feel different, inadequate or inferior because of where you came from.
Jezzay.
