"Where there is love there is life"
(sorry if its already been done, not been all way throughthe thread yet)
Join the most popular community of UK swingers now
Login
jsm1976
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 49
Forum
Hi,
Been on here for a while now, only posted in "Cafe" up to now, but things seem to have taken a downward turn
I would really like to meet up with some nice people, would ideally love to meet a "swing partner" - but one step at a time eh? - getting any interest would be a start.
My approach was to try and meet people having a bit of fun and games in the cafe, not giving it the "fancy a shag?" approach that so many singles seem to opt for.
Though now, some people seem to be unhappy about others using the forum for general chit-chat etc..
My problem is, how do you "get involved" - what is my alternative to the above two methods of trying to meet?
Anyway - my ad no is at the bottom -
Anyone willing to take a chance?
Been on here for a while now, only posted in "Cafe" up to now, but things seem to have taken a downward turn
I would really like to meet up with some nice people, would ideally love to meet a "swing partner" - but one step at a time eh? - getting any interest would be a start.
My approach was to try and meet people having a bit of fun and games in the cafe, not giving it the "fancy a shag?" approach that so many singles seem to opt for.
Though now, some people seem to be unhappy about others using the forum for general chit-chat etc..
My problem is, how do you "get involved" - what is my alternative to the above two methods of trying to meet?
Anyway - my ad no is at the bottom -
Anyone willing to take a chance?
everyones a criticQuote by truluv
i'm feeling rather yummy tonight too.
finished uni for the Christmas vacation, made a gorgeous lasagne, watched a brilliant film and had some lovely PM's.
All is well in Castle Marya. Now I'm just looking forward to a child-free weekend!
You get lovely PM's.................. I wish I got those
Me too - I am a PM virgin
Quote by cu3b4ll
Must admit, its been my first "proper" evening on here - and am impressed with all involved. Friendly and cool
Grope Hug indeed
Sorry.... how remiss of me. :welcome: to the Cafe. You may have already noticed that it's a difficult place to get out of. Not many have found the exit door
Thankyou so much
Yeah, been glued to here for ages, but also just installed i-tunes and whacked a load of disks into it - the mix makes a VERY addictive jukebox!!!
Yaaaayyy :D
If someone actually ASKS for help, then they most definately need it.
If someone needs help and doesn't ask, then things can lead on to darastic actions carried out while not stable.
What may seem like a "nothing" situation, or just a case of "it'll be right" to you - can affect different people in different ways.
Telling someone to "pull themself together" when depressed is insulting - dont you think they would if they could??
If someone needs help and doesn't ask, then things can lead on to darastic actions carried out while not stable.
What may seem like a "nothing" situation, or just a case of "it'll be right" to you - can affect different people in different ways.
Telling someone to "pull themself together" when depressed is insulting - dont you think they would if they could??
Quote by corriefem
Jesus, be a man, deal with it.
Shit happens and life aint all plain sailing - but its during these low times that you learn about yourself and you grow stronger.
Dxxx
Sure you did not mean to come over as an uncaring Dick head here Surreycouple!!!!!!!!!!!!! We all need support every now and again and saying be a man and deal with it is bollox.
Bloody well cry, moan as much as you want to and then get on ................yes of course and that I am sure is what you want right this minute if you had the choice! Sharing with others is part of the process of healing. Happy to go into pm if you want some advice - I did come out the other side
Corriexx
Here here! - And although medication should never be the first course of action, it is extremely effective when the right one is used, and in conjunction with cognative therapy. - Voice of experience and lots of investigating.
There are obvoiusly lots of caring people on here - so dont be affraid to ask for help.
Feel free to PM me also.
