Quote by Thomo11
oh right...
I have given three in one very long night, that is my best so far.
3 in a very long night ????
/me walks away shiking his head in disbelief as he thinks back to the ladies who have orgasmed 20 times in 3 hours
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at the minute, I am talking with a lady who lives a few miles away, we talk about almost ever subject known to man or woman, about sexual tatse and habits, about likes and dislikes in food clothing, people, films, . We are both so relaxed with each other now that we know when we meet it will be an anticlimax as we have left very little out, about the only thing left is to see what we both look like as so far no pics have been exchanged. Innitially we met up thru a adult site aimed at finding sex, 4 months down the line and still talking and thanks to a screwup with mobile numbers still not met. But I feel comfortable with her, she says its the same for her, she feels comfortable with me. I know that we both like each other, we know our tatstes both in and out of bed, when we do meet its going to be good, no, great.
I reckon what I am sayiong is, talking with prospectives is needed, learning about them, I am a single guy, according to popular theory I should be jumping into the bed of any woman that opens her llegs. I cant tho, it just dont happen for me. I have had several meets thru this site, all have been highly enjoyable, in only 1 I have not spent time using IM to get to know the person beforehand, instead as we both were at the same fiunction we had a chance to learn about each other in a more open setting. I liked the person, she liked me, we had fun. But we had spent several hours talking before hand
I dont know if I am just a rarity, I like to think not, but talking and getting to know somebody beforehand to me is important, nowdays if I dont like a persons personality, even if they are gagging for it and are drop dead gorgeous, its a no no to me ( ok, if they was gagging for it and drop dead gorgeous they wouldnt be looking at me anyways as I am the ugliest muddafecka around :P ) I wish I had been this mature in my younger years
I reckon what I am sayiong is, talking with prospectives is needed, learning about them, I am a single guy, according to popular theory I should be jumping into the bed of any woman that opens her llegs. I cant tho, it just dont happen for me. I have had several meets thru this site, all have been highly enjoyable, in only 1 I have not spent time using IM to get to know the person beforehand, instead as we both were at the same fiunction we had a chance to learn about each other in a more open setting. I liked the person, she liked me, we had fun. But we had spent several hours talking before hand
I dont know if I am just a rarity, I like to think not, but talking and getting to know somebody beforehand to me is important, nowdays if I dont like a persons personality, even if they are gagging for it and are drop dead gorgeous, its a no no to me ( ok, if they was gagging for it and drop dead gorgeous they wouldnt be looking at me anyways as I am the ugliest muddafecka around :P ) I wish I had been this mature in my younger years
Quote by Night_shiftYES THATS WHAT I THOUGHT. SHOULDNT HAVE TO RELY ON OUTSIDERS FOR FOR A FUCK.
Swinging should enhance what you've already got with your partner.. not substitute for something thats missing.. Thats how problems start.
You make it sound as though you're not getting fucked at all Lucy - that's a serious problem and isn't likely to be solved by swinging. Talking might be a good start
Have to agree Night Shift
Quote by lucyweebaps
I feel extremely exhausted just now ..want to sleep all the time not sure if the virus is the cause of this?
Also not looking forward to work tomorrow
totally drained - Lucy xxx
ps .sorry folks- end of feeling sorry for myself post
sorry hun
a coldsore is in fact a good sign that your body is well run down at that point, they only seem to show up on me anyway when I am really run down. icon_
I dont think there is anyway in truth to combat the bloody things, zovirax is fine IF you feel the tingle ( which I never do ).
Its just a case of suffer icon_
I would volunteer to come give you a long massage to revitalise you hun, except like you I feel like shite myself atm
Quote by MISSCHIEF
Can I open this subject up a bit wider ............. cos I really am curious to peoples answers on it.
Ok - everyone has families, but how many people have told their families that they're into the swinging lifestyle? For instance, I know that my children would be devastated if they found out. Many others on here are in the same situation - I can't see how that makes us any different to a guy playing away from home? We are hiding a part of our lives away from the most important people to us .......... yes it's for their protection and security - but isn't that just like why a married guy doesn't tell his wife, who has absolutely no interest in sex, that he swings.
well my family on the whole know, my ex knows, ok the kids dont, but seeing as the eldest is just 9 thats something that woiuld be wrong to shove in their faces now. I wont hide what I am, but I wont thrust my ways onto somebody else either
Misschief I understand your question, hell, I probly recieved more flac in a day than most others because of my flaming of cheaters, but yes I will agree that not all families and friends are as open and understanding as mine.
I cannot condone, but in some circumstances I might understand non disclosure.
Now I know darn well I am missing something here, something thats trying to be said, but I am tired, I keep trying to sleep and failing and end up back here, so tommorrow I will look again probly and try to decide what it is I missed
Quote by gailen
I dont think anyone on here would bother!!!!
*and please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! im only trying to make a point - not having "a GO" at anyone in particular!*
this is a extract from my add
210173 Newly freed man seeking fun - kristof leicester,leicestershire,midlands Yes
of a sexual nature I am a newly single guy, was married but after living apart for 3 years we have called it a day Before you read on, please be aware, I do not approve of cheating or playing away from home, so if you are looking for that, look elsewhere. I would sooner lose out on great sex than be a part of the cheats scene I am 43, about 5'7" and average 6" cock, my pic shows that I am a little soft around the waist for which I make no excuses. I am clean shaven head face cock and balls. Clean in hygene if not in m
and I know I am not alone in this view
Quote by zepsix
just a thought what about the married women on here who go behind there partners back and get a pat on the is that okay then:
Quote by MQ
I am VERY open minded, as some other forum members will vouch, but I draw the line at having sex with married men. My reason is because my ex husband hurt me very badly by shagging behind my back and I am very unwilling to be the 'other woman', especially if/when the wife finds out! It is immoral and unethical and can hurt a lot of people, it doesn't matter how discreet you are, you will get found out in the end and I don't want to be in the crossfire.
Of course if that married man is at a party with his wife and they both consent to sharing each other then that is a completely different matter.
not my faverate topic because I have strong beliefs here
married men OR women who play away from home are in the wrong, if their partner knows and says it is OK, no problems.
I was the guy whose wife was cheating, it hurt me,it hurt my family, it definatly hurt my kids who lost their dad through it all
I look at who gets hurt, usually its the innocents. That pisses me off.
I wont say anymore except this.... please think before playing away from home
Quick thread HiJack for a minit here
hehh steph, for you its the lasses, for me the fellas, only mines been creepin up on me for 20 years and its only now that I am single that I can honestly start looking at it in depth, and realising just how scarey it can be trying to look inside at your sexuality and wondering if you have been so wrong for so long
/b] Thread HiJack completed, sorry Sean for the hijack, thanks for letting me run with it
Quote by Sexysteph
Sean Honey Single straight fems have it hard too (if you will forgive the pun) You have seen it in the chatroom - How many times do you see a couple asking for a straight fem to come and join them?
Sure I can get the offers from the single guys in there but when You keep getting pmmed by couples asking if I am bi - I sometimes wonder why the hell not - they seem to be having all the fun! Before anyone says anything I have been developing quite a curiousity about women lately so I reckon its a watch this space on that score.
But are single guys lepers - I don't think so. Well not for me personally anyway.
hehh steph, for you its the lasses, for me the fellas, only mines been creepin up on me for 20 years and its only now that I am single that I can honestly start looking at it in depth, and realising just how scarey it can be trying to look inside at your sexuality and wondering if you have been so wrong for so long
/b] Thread HiJack completed, sorry Sean for the hijack, thanks for letting me run with it
Quote by lil_miz_naughty_0204
Hi all...
I've just registered so I thought Id pop in and say hi. Incase you cant tell from the name I'm lil_miz_naughty's worse half
She's away having her tea so I thought Id grab a few minutes to register. Hope to chat to some of you soon.
Stu
I'll be having my tea at the computer desk next time ya bugger
You should have just said if you wanted to come on for a wee while
I would have said no
heheheheee, what a sweet :welcome: to our humble corner of :swingingchair: dom
Quote by JudyTV
Hiand welcome. I'm sure you will have fun here its almost mandatory.
Judy
indeed it is, and being the better or worse side to lil miss, well it can only mean more fun for all.....or is that free for all ??
ust a word to the wise, been out there a few times in last week, there is a blue mondeo M or N reg, driven by a real nice blonde haired bbw, watch out for the 4 fellas as are usually in or hidden close to the car, they seem to be dogger hunters
just a load of verbal so far, tonights the 1st time I approached after the car kept signalling to me. Lucky i had my work gear on and I blagged I was lost on my way to leicester from a job icon_ they fell for it too icon_
just a load of verbal so far, tonights the 1st time I approached after the car kept signalling to me. Lucky i had my work gear on and I blagged I was lost on my way to leicester from a job icon_ they fell for it too icon_
Quote by Debbiewebs
think of this you have just won a £5oo to spend on a out fit what would it be
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Umm - still a pair of jeans and an easly unbutonned shirt?
Nice thong and sexy bra :dunno:
right ok what about ya socks and shoes and purse!.......mack up .perfume!......... ect!...hair do!...razers ect!...fack tan!................. tatoose!.............. :doh:
shoes from Giovani, he makes real nice hand made stuff, cost £175 for a pair of nice loafers
shirt and suit in raw silk from Tams of Kowloon, or a suit in a heavyweight cotton again from Tams
colonge by Dolce Gabbane the £30 or so left over will do for the taxi home
Quote by foxylady 123
I was wondering if the girls have similar thoughts while they are driving?
Do you ladies see a guy in a car and have "fantasy" type thoughts?
Yes , of course we me its everytime i see a fire eingine or pull along sided White Van Man esoecially if he has a yellow safety helmet on the dashboard!!
Think ill pass on causing the accident though to get his name and address!!
/me calls his mate to borrow the white tranny, digs around in the garage to find his yellow hard hat.....whats next.......................................................................
Quote by Badger
How to impress a woman:
Compliment her,
cuddle her,
kiss her,
caress her,
love her,
stroke her,
tease her,
comfort her,
protect her,
hug her,
hold her,
spend money on her,
wine and dine her,
buy things for her,
listen to her,
care for her,
stand by her,
support her,
buy flowers for her,
go to the ends of the earth for her...
How to impress a man:
Show up naked.
Bring beer.:D
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