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:thumbup: If you find a room where I am you will find motor sport added to the list of topics as well :giggle:
Nice one, should we start a sport fetish room
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Over 90 days ago
Gay Female, 46
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!!Dolly, I think I have chatted with Rammy recently and I think that our chat involved the footy and all manner of other things. I had a discussion with someone about architecture in Sheffield recently and can honestly say the number of sex-related chats I have had are minimal.
I take the chat rooms for what they are, places to chat in. Although this is a swingers site a lot of the forum posts and chat topics are not sexually charged and that is the nice thing about this site. It gives a social, balanced perspective on swinging etc and I don't think its at all out of place to talk about anything as long as it is interesting, whatever that may be.
I am mainly found in the Yorks and BBW rooms and I have got to know a few people in both in the short time I have been here but I honestly think that it has been worth it.
I take the chat rooms for what they are, places to chat in. Although this is a swingers site a lot of the forum posts and chat topics are not sexually charged and that is the nice thing about this site. It gives a social, balanced perspective on swinging etc and I don't think its at all out of place to talk about anything as long as it is interesting, whatever that may be.
I am mainly found in the Yorks and BBW rooms and I have got to know a few people in both in the short time I have been here but I honestly think that it has been worth it.
What do you like to nibble on?
Chocolate is number one always
Camembert baked with garlic - omg mmmmmmmmmmm
Proper baked potatoes
Pretty much anything involving pasta
Has anyone eaten anything unusual?
Ostrich - which was very pleasant, like the leg meat of a turkey
Any food peculiarities?
Cold cabbage sarnies - blame my paddy dad for that one!
Does anyone like the whole '9 and a 1/2 weeks' scenario?
Not really, the 'feeding each other' scenario is ok but i can't stand that sticky feeling on my skin where chocolate body paint or ice cream etc has been, does nothing for me at all
And is it time to bring back fondues? - Nah, chocolate fountains are the new fondue!!
Chocolate is number one always
Camembert baked with garlic - omg mmmmmmmmmmm
Proper baked potatoes
Pretty much anything involving pasta
Has anyone eaten anything unusual?
Ostrich - which was very pleasant, like the leg meat of a turkey
Any food peculiarities?
Cold cabbage sarnies - blame my paddy dad for that one!
Does anyone like the whole '9 and a 1/2 weeks' scenario?
Not really, the 'feeding each other' scenario is ok but i can't stand that sticky feeling on my skin where chocolate body paint or ice cream etc has been, does nothing for me at all
And is it time to bring back fondues? - Nah, chocolate fountains are the new fondue!!
Speaking from experience, the babes and horny stuff is first class, and i really do mean that! We bought a dildo and harness from them in Manchester, they have a stall at most of the big gay pride events and you can try the harnesses on and have a feel of all the dildos so it might be worth. Although they are pricey, they are worth every penny and we are bbw and have found the harness a comfy (adjustable) fit and up to vigorous activity, even the cheapest harness ( - go to harnesses and look at Euphoria) which is the one we have and have never needed another.
A slightly cheaper alternative is the feeldoe/thrill dil (depending on which brand you buy) - see here: which requires no harness but I do wonder if its going to be comfortable for the wearer if things get a bit rough/energetic/etc.
A useful attachment is the dual tool see here: which allows you to strap a further dildo on to the leg straps of the harness to enable the wearer to have a dildo inside them too. The other advantage of is that their dildos come in a wide choice of colours but can (almost) all be made to include a vibrator in them too.
Anyway, I hope this helps, any further info you need just ask!
Lava x
Professor in Dildology :twisted:
A slightly cheaper alternative is the feeldoe/thrill dil (depending on which brand you buy) - see here: which requires no harness but I do wonder if its going to be comfortable for the wearer if things get a bit rough/energetic/etc.
A useful attachment is the dual tool see here: which allows you to strap a further dildo on to the leg straps of the harness to enable the wearer to have a dildo inside them too. The other advantage of is that their dildos come in a wide choice of colours but can (almost) all be made to include a vibrator in them too.
Anyway, I hope this helps, any further info you need just ask!
Lava x
Professor in Dildology :twisted:
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Alt Gr we got wot the hell does that do??????????????
According to microsoft:
The ALT GR key is on the right side of the keyboard on some non-U.S. keyboard layouts. ALT GR is equivalent to the CTRL+ALT key combination, and you can use it with other keys to enter additional characters as shown in the following list of keyboard languages. Microsoft Word can differentiate between the left and right ALT keys so that you can use CTRL+ALT and ALT GR key combinations.
Hope this helps
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Hope this makes sense to you as this is my longest post by a long way and i kept moving backwards and forwards and moving text etc
When i first joined the site befor Christmass my first thoughts were to use the chatrooms and arrange meets through their thinking it wouldnt take long to get a meet. No doubt that that does happen on here but having joined at a time when there are probably hundreds of single men to a single fem i started to change my view.
Lots of single men on here think of this as a sex site and make complete asses of themselves in the chatrooms directing etc. and thus forced me into a re-think. Since then i started using the forums (The best thing new people can do when they join) and learnt a lot more about how this site works ans how the people think.
So my thoughts now on how things should progress are based along the lines of getting to know people first via. PM's, the forum, chat and or MSN/ etc.
So basicly just see what happens and not to push things. Though not having had any meets this may be wrong.
Your post was really interesting goose, and the way in which a perception of the site can change so quick is interesting too. Having just joined we haven't had any meets but know that to find the right people is going to take time, its just a shame that other members aren't always so patient!!
It depends on what you want from the experience I suppose, we would like to meet genuine people for regular fun rather than people for a one off, and the forum and socials seem like a much better place for it than the chat and ads!
ops: :oops: :oops: Sorry hun... I am in a playful mood tonight :giggle:
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followed by :giveup: followed by :smug: You are quite right - I work in a law firm and they had a real job on writing the AUP to make it enforceable, although sometimes I do wonder whether or not it would stand up if tested 
Ours is worded so that even if you hit a porn pop up you are personally responsible for it and they log reaction times as to when it was opened and closed. I don't think they have keystroke stuff installed, just hitting an obscene site would be gross misconduct as far as our AUP and contracts are concerned. They even log what we are searching for on in terms of telephone numbers and the route planners we use when on home visits.
Anyone would think that we would abuse the privilege of net connection if these measures weren't in place
Ours is worded so that even if you hit a porn pop up you are personally responsible for it and they log reaction times as to when it was opened and closed. I don't think they have keystroke stuff installed, just hitting an obscene site would be gross misconduct as far as our AUP and contracts are concerned. They even log what we are searching for on in terms of telephone numbers and the route planners we use when on home visits.
Anyone would think that we would abuse the privilege of net connection if these measures weren't in place
Don't mean to point out the obvious peeps but if you are all looking for dogging and there seems to be loads of you in or around warrington, why don't you check each others profiles and pm each other to arrange a meet up........ might be easier than waiting to hear where the latest hot spot is!!
Just a thought - please don't bite me
Just a thought - please don't bite me
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also isn't such monitoring activity illegal unless notice of it is written into your contract and/or the company informs you it's being done. Unless a suitable court order has been issued ?
They should issue you with an AUP - acceptable use policy and ensure that you sign it, most firms who have AUP's usually withold net access until you sign one.
The easiest way to assess whether or not you should be on a site at work is whether or not you would let (your) kids look at it at home - if its not that innocent then should you be risking viewing it at work?????
The area around Division Street is ok too in Sheffield, avoid Yates's and the rest are pretty much ok. There are also some real ale pubs nearby if that's your bag.
The cheapest chain hotel is probably the Ibis but its not in the best part of town, the Hilton is nice but again, gotta pass through the scummy bit to get there - ok if you get a taxi back to it - be about £3.
There are plenty of nice places to eat, Wetherspoons pubs are present for cheap pub grub but all the Chinese restaruants are nice, the No1 Oriental Buffet is the best value but a bit canteen-y feeling.
Like all the others, any other questions, just holler!!
The cheapest chain hotel is probably the Ibis but its not in the best part of town, the Hilton is nice but again, gotta pass through the scummy bit to get there - ok if you get a taxi back to it - be about £3.
There are plenty of nice places to eat, Wetherspoons pubs are present for cheap pub grub but all the Chinese restaruants are nice, the No1 Oriental Buffet is the best value but a bit canteen-y feeling.
Like all the others, any other questions, just holler!!
