I have read this thread with much interest and have found myself sort of hicklety picklety about how i feel about it. I have decided to just write and allow you to make and draw your own conclusions.
Am i a female bi, or am i not. Right at this moment, no i'm not, if i was to go into the chatroom and a friend came in, then yes, i might be. I don't walk about the streets checking out the females cause usually i'm too interested in the males. My sexuality is forming and i hope that till the day i die, it will continue to form in whatever, shape or form.
Ideas that i initially THOUGHT repulsed me, were questioned when i was in a position to make them, not just a thought, but a reality. It then made me question the initial repulsion in the first place. If a mind is closed to a situation, or the mind shuts out possibilities to experience, of any description, not just sexual, then its quite sad really.
Not sad for the society, but sad for the individual, that they themselves have chosen to give up there own self power to the society within which it lives. A life expereince possiblity might never happen because of themselves.
Woman openly admit that they are bi, and are not chastised in any way by society, especially within the society of SH, and as some of you have said already, it is possitively encouraged. Positively encouraged by males, and agreed with by females, either bi or not.
We all have the right to be who the hell we want to be, to experience what we want, whenever we want without fear of ridicule or chastisement. That is an individuals right, not priviledge. If i want to be bi, i will be, if i don't, i won't. And because i have the above rights, i will choose when and if, i change my mind, and at what time i want.
Time never stands still, and the lives we had yesterday, are not the same as the ones we have today, so really what i am saying is, never close your minds off to anything at any time. Be as open to everything as you possibly can be.
As to those who feel that they have had to "admit" to something, i send you hugs and kisses, because your sexuality is your own business and feeling that your sharing experiences is an admission, and suggestive of a wrong doing, is just so beyond my comprehension.
I want to try everything, no boundaries. Only by being that way will i ever reach the point of knowing what i like, and what i don't. And providing I look after myself along the way, which is the responsible way of ensuring everyone's health and well being, then its my issue, and i would allow no one to intimidate or condemn me.
Condemnation is only possible from people with a closed mind, and effectively, there is no rationalising. But hey, thats cool too, that is there issue.!
Lots of love, hugs and kisses,
Little
XXX