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I want to taste the finer side of swinging. Black or mixed race wanted to share very hot time with 30yr old M x
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lovedagirls
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 45
0 miles · Sunderland
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30yr old male. I've swung a couple of times but never experienced a black or mixed race female. I want to taste and experience the finer side of swinging. Get in touch if you would like to help me out. All wants satisfied 
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30year old, clean genuine guy with great soh. I met a couple off here last year and we had a realy good time and wanted to experience it again. Would also like single F as like to give undivided attention . Anyone wanting to chat or more please get in touch. All boundaires repected but more imporantly all wishes granted lol
. Anyone wanting to chat or more please get in touch. All boundaires repected but more imporantly all wishes granted lol
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There's always time but what about the opportunities? I've gone past the days of pulling down the town and having easy one night stands with (don't want to offend) sacks of spuds and now I want some real fun with some real people if you get my meaning
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Thanks for the advice guys. I'm just an impatient git lol. I suppose getting advice on these forums is like making love to a beautiful woman (ala fast show). Take it slow, hit all the right buttons and reap the rewards 
. No doubt you'll see me aroundn a bit now
. No doubt you'll see me aroundn a bit now
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Quote by northeastcoupleukOh the clique again grrr ,clique look under marya lol
Guess there's no-one out there wants to talk. Do you have to be already in the clique to get a reply on these boards?
Not sure what you mean by marya?
Guess you're right Cherry, mustn't be anyone interested in chatting. Seems to be a hard thing to get in to this! :cry:
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Guess there's no-one out there wants to talk. Do you have to be already in the clique to get a reply on these boards?
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Hi guys
Youngish, genuine lad who just wants to have a chat about the local swinging scene with a female in the north east. Will do this in any way you want (pm, email, phone or in person). I know this might sound a bit weird but I was on this site some time ago and became a little disillusioned but thought I would give it another shot.
BTW not looking to smooth talk you into bed lol just want to know the banter in the area - only requested female as feel more comfortable.
Cheers
Youngish, genuine lad who just wants to have a chat about the local swinging scene with a female in the north east. Will do this in any way you want (pm, email, phone or in person). I know this might sound a bit weird but I was on this site some time ago and became a little disillusioned but thought I would give it another shot.
BTW not looking to smooth talk you into bed lol just want to know the banter in the area - only requested female as feel more comfortable.
Cheers
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Would she have deserved it if she wasn't "respectable", well off, very intelligent or your mate though? If you want to practice what you preach, you have to apply it equally.
Perhaps what your friends need to realise is that women do not need approval or permission from them to have sex and that one day it will be someone like them standing in a pub calling their sister/daughter a slag for having a sex life.
P.S. If you don't want replies, you can PM yourself y'know
The other names which I didn't mention like tramp etc is what I was referring to when mentioning her qualities not just her sexual preferences but I understand what you're saying. pm myself - love that one though lol :giggle:
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Sorry if this is something that's been talked about in the past (which no doubt it has) but I'm starting to get sick of my mates referring to certain girls as slags (to use much better terminology than them as they used sp**k buckets etc) when they try and get a shag every weekend. This is something which most of my mates and myself try to do every other weekend but "it's ok for lads". This only especially annoyed me recently as one of the girls they were referring to was a good friend of mine and fine this has been the case for years and no doubt many femanists have said the same for years but is this right? I know this used to be the norm in my early school days when things were a bit more prudish but aren't we in 2007 now? OK she might enjoy having sex but she's a totally respectable girl, well off and very intellegent and doesn't deserve being slagged off like that as I said in a round about way when falling out with a mate on Wednesday.
Not really wanting any replies to this or any chat but I just needed to vent myself. Sorry to polute your board with my rantings.
Not really wanting any replies to this or any chat but I just needed to vent myself. Sorry to polute your board with my rantings.
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On looking around I can already see what you are referring to. Many "young studs" may think they are in for an easy shag due to the age of someswingers and I do agree that they should be told that this is a community and not a brothel. :cheers: :thumbup:
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I accept your olive branch with grattitude Ste and admir you holding your hands up. I know I got a little judgemental myself but I guess I also might be wrong this time
I actually respect the way you stick up for the site as I can only imagine (as I am still a newbie) how much people can ruin what is an already established, and quite comfortable community.
Hope to talk or do battle again in the future sometime :wink:
I actually respect the way you stick up for the site as I can only imagine (as I am still a newbie) how much people can ruin what is an already established, and quite comfortable community.
Hope to talk or do battle again in the future sometime :wink:
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Just thought I would put my penny worth into this post. Although you didn't want to directly name the person due to protocol etc (although you did sadly enough tell people how to find out), I am the "idiot" who posted what you have talked about. As I explained in my reply, I was referring to my experience of the whole swinging scene in the north east rather than your assumption that it was this site or that post. I think when quoting people and ratifying someone who wich you know absolutely nothing about you really should get your facts right instead of twisting them to sound worse than they were.
I'm presuming it's your Psychology PHD is making you jump to assumptions and pigeon holing people you know nothing about which is what a lot of Psychologists do. Another example is saying to easyease "I'm sure you're not a simpleton". I think what you are wanting is to live in a world where everyone thinks the same as you and agrees to your idealistic opinions. We live in a world of fact not fiction. I am actually a very intellegent, youngish guy with 2 degrees of my own, a lot of friends and without saying I'm the best looking guy in the world, don't need this site for a quick shag as I could get one quite easily somewhere else. It's people like you who deter (or even intimidate weaker) newbies and give the impression that you have to be in the "click" to fit in on this site. You already stated on the post what you thought of it but still thought you had to bring more attention to it. To me it looks like you were either a school yard bully or were bully and you are wanting to seek retribution. This is by far my longest post but it's just dissappointing that I had to spend it trying to defend myself to someone on a higher pedastal. I really could go on for ages but will end me rant now as I would rather liaise with more decent folk who do not judge, jump to assumptions and can speak to people humanely.
I'm presuming it's your Psychology PHD is making you jump to assumptions and pigeon holing people you know nothing about which is what a lot of Psychologists do. Another example is saying to easyease "I'm sure you're not a simpleton". I think what you are wanting is to live in a world where everyone thinks the same as you and agrees to your idealistic opinions. We live in a world of fact not fiction. I am actually a very intellegent, youngish guy with 2 degrees of my own, a lot of friends and without saying I'm the best looking guy in the world, don't need this site for a quick shag as I could get one quite easily somewhere else. It's people like you who deter (or even intimidate weaker) newbies and give the impression that you have to be in the "click" to fit in on this site. You already stated on the post what you thought of it but still thought you had to bring more attention to it. To me it looks like you were either a school yard bully or were bully and you are wanting to seek retribution. This is by far my longest post but it's just dissappointing that I had to spend it trying to defend myself to someone on a higher pedastal. I really could go on for ages but will end me rant now as I would rather liaise with more decent folk who do not judge, jump to assumptions and can speak to people humanely.
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I'll keep an eye out for this Fabio. I would love to say I would help but I really am a newbie to the scene. Let me know if there is anything I could do though.
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I know there has been some meets up in the north east - one arranged by your very own grooverider if I remember rightly. I work away a lot so might have missed some of them. Did know about Grooveriders but didn't post on it as I knew I would be away then. I didn't mean that i wasn't getting any 
off this site but just in general in the scene. It seems to be very hush in the north east as far as I'm aware which is what I was trying to say. Apologies if it came across wrong but don't shout at me - I'm only little :cry:
off this site but just in general in the scene. It seems to be very hush in the north east as far as I'm aware which is what I was trying to say. Apologies if it came across wrong but don't shout at me - I'm only little :cry:
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Sorry about changing the subject for a sec northeast couple but as a fellow Sunderland fan I feel your pain.
Deep Deep Down - East 17
I'll get me coat
Has to be shaft. Absolute classic with perfect music
Deep Deep Down - East 17
I'll get me coatHas to be shaft. Absolute classic with perfect music
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Does your phone get turned on by this 
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Sorry but what can you expect
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: Sorry but what can you expect
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Yes we are, no we're not, yes we are, no we're not
Single male but just offering help
Single male but just offering help
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If you find out let me know. Don't know if you're just talking about couples or not but there doesn't seem to be much up in the North East. More of this 
than this Good luck folks
than this Good luck folks
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Not hard to find mate. Would be best to say why. Not being cheeky but just trying to help
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why not us single men :banghead: :banghead:
Hope you get what you're looking for. Would also be good to say what it is you want
:banghead: :banghead: Hope you get what you're looking for. Would also be good to say what it is you want
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Quote by Debbiewebs
I ........... solemnly declare ........that from this day forward ......I will continue to take the piss keep my humour.... hold my head up high..... and fight on the seas and oceans to defend are swinging heaven what ever the cost maybe (but still within my budget)........ I shell never surrender!
Said my bit (obviously with a little alteration).
love it but i think ya forgot to put ya name in...... come here come on shhhhhh it should go after the ISorry Debbie
I Jimmy solemnly declare ........that from this day forward ......I will continue to take the piss keep my humour.... hold my head up high..... and fight on the seas and oceans to defend are swinging heaven what ever the cost maybe (but still within my budget)........ I shell never surrender!
Better :mrgreen:
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I think it may be time to relocate to the west midlands. Thanks for your help guys.
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Where's this? No means no 
simple but logical. Thanks for your help naughtynymphos. I guess her wishes might come tru this Christmas
simple but logical. Thanks for your help naughtynymphos. I guess her wishes might come tru this Christmas
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Do you follow them around on the street? :huh:
Bit cold at the moment but hell why not?
Bit cold at the moment but hell why not?
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I ........... solemnly declare ........that from this day forward ......I will continue to take the piss keep my humour.... hold my head up high..... and fight on the seas and oceans to defend are swinging heaven what ever the cost maybe (but still within my budget)........ I shell never surrender!
Said my bit (obviously with a little alteration).
Said my bit (obviously with a little alteration).
