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lyns
3 weeks ago
Bi-curious Female, 44
Bi-curious Male, 48
0 miles · Bristol
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about bluddy time 
Quote by noladreams30
You're allowed:
One actor Vin Diesel
One actress Angelina Jolie
A musician Robbie Williams
A politician ummmmm
A sports person David Beckham
Another celebrity of your choice Morgan Freeman
And no more than three SH members
Freckledbird (so she could share David Beckham ;) ) Nola and Dirtygirly.
My second cousins grew up in South Africa. The girl came back to the UK with her mum when I was about 8 but her brother stayed out there with their dad till about 5 years ago when he decided to move back to the UK. He met (in a nightclub) fell in love and married my very good friends younger sister.
Myself and Mr Lyns used to live three streets apart when we were younger and attended the same nursery but a few years apart. We both moved away from the area and met up many years later.
Myself and Mr Lyns used to live three streets apart when we were younger and attended the same nursery but a few years apart. We both moved away from the area and met up many years later.
Being a parent is the hardest job there is no doubt about that.
If you hit a child, that is your anger and your frustration that you are trying to dispell. It has nothing to do with diciplining the child. As soon as you smack, hit, whack (insert whichever here) a child you have lost the control.
I don't believe me having a smack or two as a child has done me any lasting harm on the other hand it didn't teach me anything either.
I'm not a perfect parent and I have smacked my eldest child but have always felt instant regret and I have instantly known that I have lost control.
I don't yet know which dicipline technique is most effective for my children but I do know that hitting them isn't going to have the desired effect.
If you hit a child, that is your anger and your frustration that you are trying to dispell. It has nothing to do with diciplining the child. As soon as you smack, hit, whack (insert whichever here) a child you have lost the control.
I don't believe me having a smack or two as a child has done me any lasting harm on the other hand it didn't teach me anything either.
I'm not a perfect parent and I have smacked my eldest child but have always felt instant regret and I have instantly known that I have lost control.
I don't yet know which dicipline technique is most effective for my children but I do know that hitting them isn't going to have the desired effect.
I was christened as a child as was my sister.
My husband and I married in a church and he has never been christened.
I would allow my children to make their own choices regarding religion as I/we do not particulary believe in god.
Our eldest attends a C of E school so knows a little of religion and has Father John come into school to take assembly once a week. The whole school attend church a few times a year.
Flower I think you are right in that your daughter is now to old for you to make the decision for her and inly you and her mum will know if she is mature enough to make the decision for herself.
My husband and I married in a church and he has never been christened.
I would allow my children to make their own choices regarding religion as I/we do not particulary believe in god.
Our eldest attends a C of E school so knows a little of religion and has Father John come into school to take assembly once a week. The whole school attend church a few times a year.
Flower I think you are right in that your daughter is now to old for you to make the decision for her and inly you and her mum will know if she is mature enough to make the decision for herself.
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Isn't this the moment when Fabio pops in saying this has been done before, and provides links?
has it... oh blast..........
i seem to have split the chatroom i was in on the subject of jaffa cakes..... I can't believe there are people out there who don't like em......
:shock: how can you not like jaffa cakes??
Oh I love marmite
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"Does having more than 2 kids contribute to the decline of the planet environmentally?"
All humans contribute to the decline of the planet, no matter how environmentally concious they may be. What concerns me, is the cost to the country and the lack of social responsibility shown by or required of "habitual breeders". This article is taken from the Guardian in 2004.
Basically, it says that the cost of raising a child to the age of 21 in the UK has risen to £153,620.
£153 620!!!
And that was 5 years ago! How many people have suffered through lack of money to buy dialysis machines, cancer treatments, CTI scanners etc etc etc etc etc. But those who continually pump out multiple children don't care - someone else will pay for your kids, won't they? You won't have to worry about the financial costs, because someone else will. You don't have to worry about how many suffer through the lack of funds to the NHS, education etc. because someone else will, won't they?
In my opinion, 2 children should be the maximum and 1 child the optimum.
so what would happen in a case like mine I had one child and went for another, ended up naturally falling for twins, would you suggest terminating one at early pregnacy or both and start again?
Are twins common in your family group? If so, I think you were irresponsible in trying for more after your first child. If not, well then mistakes happen - that's why pencils have erasers. Your extra children are causing suffering and death because of the money they cost. That's something you'll just have to live with. Bear it in mind next time you hear of any children suffering because of the lack of funds for essential services. Watch the Great Ormond Street Hospital charity advert and ask yourself the question- "why do we need a charity to look after our children?".
:shock: :gagged:
I think your comments are unjust, and unless you you have some evidence to back up your claims then you are talking utter bollox.
And as for "thats why pencils have erasers" WTF wow. You really are an endearing person....
none yet. Strange thing is tho my friend who lives about 2 miles away has had some....Interesting replies! Of course what people call each other in the privacy of their bedrooms is no one elses business. It is also everyones right to have the user name of their choice and good luck to cockslut and slutwife. BUT I don't see any males with derogatory user might suit some or even totalprick. :happy:
Of course all said with tongue in cheek but am still trying to figure out what the "p" word is? I'm so naive ... is it pinny or picnic or even prawn?
Sorry DG
Panties...
Of course all said with tongue in cheek but am still trying to figure out what the "p" word is? I'm so naive ... is it pinny or picnic or even prawn?
Sorry DG
Panties...
I watched this last night, I have never cried so much to a tv program :cry: :cry: :cry: .
The scary thing is this could happen to any of us and I for one would not like to live a life where I have no quality of life at all. I would want to spare my family the pain and the burdun of caring for me. I am pro euthanisia and would support any of my family if it was also their wish to die a digified death.
The scary thing is this could happen to any of us and I for one would not like to live a life where I have no quality of life at all. I would want to spare my family the pain and the burdun of caring for me. I am pro euthanisia and would support any of my family if it was also their wish to die a digified death.
