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1 week ago
Bi-curious Female, 43
Bi-curious Male, 47
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Quote by fluff_n_stuff
I chose my avatar because when I saw it I couldn't look at it without feeling my eyes were doing backflips, yet kept getting drawn back. It is fascinating how the addition of a set of eyes and a mouth make you feel dizzy/drunk when you look at it. Maybe that is a reflection of me, you'd have to ask someone who knows me.
Unfortunately yours makes me feel queezy so I can't really read anything that you write
.Mine is me.
My best friend married four years ago after nine years and three children together. She has never changed her name she still calls herself Miss. She is the only one with a different surname in their house.
I changed my name when I married last year as I wanted our family to all have the same surname. I know its not a big issue to everyone but I wanted our family to be seen as a unit.
I changed my name when I married last year as I wanted our family to all have the same surname. I know its not a big issue to everyone but I wanted our family to be seen as a unit.
I think it is the fear for alot of people. Especially if you have children as you will always have a connection with that person you can't just disapeer forever.
When I was growing up my dad used to hit my mum. I wonder if in some strange way my sister thought it was the norm to be beaten by your partner
When I was growing up my dad used to hit my mum. I wonder if in some strange way my sister thought it was the norm to be beaten by your partner
My sister was beaten by her then boyfriend for all the time that sh was with him. Why did she stay? she loved him and he made her believe it was her fault. It wore on her self esteem and then felt worthless.
As a family we all knew what was happening and short of locking her away forever we were powerless to stop it. She rang my pops one night screaming for help, when my dad got there she begged him not to hit the boyfriend. My dad said to this day he doesn't know how he left her there but what choice did he have, he didn't want her to completly alienate her self from us all so he did as she asked.
It took him smashing her head into a wall and knocking her front tooth out and bruising her eye from her eyebrow to the bottom of her cheekbone whilsh their 6 week old baby was sleeping in the other room before she finally had the courage to leave him. He was charged and had to pay her over a grand in compensation.
The bigger picture tho as a family we were able to sleep again at night and not worry we were going to have the police at the door saying she was dead.
Unless you have been in the situation I think its really difficult to say what you would do.
Did you know domestic violence often starts of worsens during pregnancy?
For anyone that needs it
As a family we all knew what was happening and short of locking her away forever we were powerless to stop it. She rang my pops one night screaming for help, when my dad got there she begged him not to hit the boyfriend. My dad said to this day he doesn't know how he left her there but what choice did he have, he didn't want her to completly alienate her self from us all so he did as she asked.
It took him smashing her head into a wall and knocking her front tooth out and bruising her eye from her eyebrow to the bottom of her cheekbone whilsh their 6 week old baby was sleeping in the other room before she finally had the courage to leave him. He was charged and had to pay her over a grand in compensation.
The bigger picture tho as a family we were able to sleep again at night and not worry we were going to have the police at the door saying she was dead.
Unless you have been in the situation I think its really difficult to say what you would do.
Did you know domestic violence often starts of worsens during pregnancy?
For anyone that needs it
Quote by Cherrytree
Well, it looks like I'm not as out of kilter as I was lead to believe! Has no one on this site had them done?
Thanks all for your replies :thumbup:
My stepmum had all of her girls ears pierced between the ages of 6 and 12 weeks :shock:.
Her children have gone on to do the same :shock:.
I really don't get it. To me its like child abuse, what sane parent would willingly want to inflict pain on their baby/young child ?
My girls haven't even noticed and if they have they haven't asked about it. But i'm sure the eldest will as she is very inquisitive. I will explain it to her the best I can as i'm unsure as to why the lady in question has half her arm missing.
I can't believe that people would be so narrow minded to complain.
I can't believe that people would be so narrow minded to complain.
Quote by bouncy332
If Jade Goody gets her finger out we can have a national day of mourning.
Oh dear the tast-o-meter of this site just went down a rung or two.
I think that's just about the most tasteless thing I've seen on SH.
Ben - if you decide to edit out your original post I'll happily delete this quote.
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one persons tasteless is another persons funny
freedom of speech n all that old boy
I find nothing funny about a 27 year old mother of two dying and leaving her children regardless of their place in society.
Your post is as bad as his. You should be ashamed.
in your opinion!
Yep :thumbup:
Quote by jaymar
Like DG I like freedom of speech, when it's in it's right place.
I find jokes about urging someone one to die very distasteful indeed, someone tell me where's the humour in that??
I'm on the wrong planet, clearly.
Me and you both sweet.
first spaceship out of here ok??Yep don't forget the rum...
Quote by bouncy332
If Jade Goody gets her finger out we can have a national day of mourning.
Oh dear the tast-o-meter of this site just went down a rung or two.
I think that's just about the most tasteless thing I've seen on SH.
Ben - if you decide to edit out your original post I'll happily delete this quote.
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one persons tasteless is another persons funny
freedom of speech n all that old boy
I find nothing funny about a 27 year old mother of two dying and leaving her children regardless of their place in society.
Your post is as bad as his. You should be ashamed.
