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makingcocoa
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 42
UK
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It's all been said before - but there really are relatively few single bi fems here, compared to the number of couples looking at them. Which means that they can pick and choose. You also have to bear in mind that this is all a bit scarier and potentially more dangerous for women on their own, so we tend to be very, very careful about who we meet.
Personally, I only ever meet couples who I've met first socially at a munch, and 'clicked' with. It's not worth the risk or the hassle for me, to meet couples who I don't know or even to get to know them online - I meet so many lovely people at munches.
Keep persevering - there are single bi girls out here, and we do meet people, it does happen! One meet since you've been here really isn't a bad average, you're doing better than many. My best tip would be to come along to a munch sometime - it really is so much easier to 'click' with people when you meet them face-to-face in a no-presure environment like a munch.
Personally, I only ever meet couples who I've met first socially at a munch, and 'clicked' with. It's not worth the risk or the hassle for me, to meet couples who I don't know or even to get to know them online - I meet so many lovely people at munches.
Keep persevering - there are single bi girls out here, and we do meet people, it does happen! One meet since you've been here really isn't a bad average, you're doing better than many. My best tip would be to come along to a munch sometime - it really is so much easier to 'click' with people when you meet them face-to-face in a no-presure environment like a munch.
Great thread - each 'snog description' I've read has made me remember one just like it, and I've been thinking 'Oh yes, those are the best ones.... or no, maybe those ones?' till I'm sitting here wondering who I can ring to come round for a snogging session and try them again and see! 
What about airport / train station snogs... when you're waiting to see someone you've been missing for ages, and then you see them walk out, and they see you, and you smile and smile and push through the crowd to get to each other. Clinging to each other, kissing and grinning and mumbling through your kisses 'Oh God it's good to see you' and touching them all over to convince yourself they really are there, and ignoring the crowds around you because just for a minute nothing else exists except how happy you are to see them.
I've had some very memorable kisses since I've been here... Laird, I know what you mean about that I've-gone-all-tingly feeling! Some kisses are so good that even getting a PM or a text from that person ages later makes you go tingly all over again.
Cocoa x (wishing everyone she'd like to be kissing didn't live so bloody far away!)
What about airport / train station snogs... when you're waiting to see someone you've been missing for ages, and then you see them walk out, and they see you, and you smile and smile and push through the crowd to get to each other. Clinging to each other, kissing and grinning and mumbling through your kisses 'Oh God it's good to see you' and touching them all over to convince yourself they really are there, and ignoring the crowds around you because just for a minute nothing else exists except how happy you are to see them.
I've had some very memorable kisses since I've been here... Laird, I know what you mean about that I've-gone-all-tingly feeling! Some kisses are so good that even getting a PM or a text from that person ages later makes you go tingly all over again.
Cocoa x (wishing everyone she'd like to be kissing didn't live so bloody far away!)
Somewhere with a quiet beach and lots of sunshine, where I could get up in the morning and go down for a swim. A big bleached-wood deck where I could have parties and BBQs, and lots of spare bedrooms for all my friends to come and stay. A huge library and no TV, and a sunny room to sit and write in. A friendly town within walking distance to wander in, chat to a few people and do some shopping. And an airport nearby so I could pop off to Rome or London or Geneva when I felt like a bit of city buzz.
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You're so right, Dark.
Dehydration is also a factor! I remember one time when the person I was with had a quick go, and said 'No, you haven't been drinking enough water tonight, it's not going to happen!'
now who on earth would have said something like to a woman like you?
Oi, ya fool, I was being discreet
I'm used to sleeping alone and I love it - love being able to snuggle under the covers or stretch out or fall asleep with books all over the bed and not have anyone complain!
I do love the occasional treat of sleeping with someone else, though. Especially if they're a cuddler... I love falling asleep with someone's breath on the back of my neck and their arm around my waist, and I love that kind of slow awakening you get when there are two of you. On my own I go from asleep to awake pretty much instantly, but when you wake up with someone else you kind of wake each other up by stirring gently - I like that. I like having someone to say 'good morning' to. I like morning sex.
When I was living with my ex I used to find it really hard to get to sleep when he was away. Until we started the gradual process of splitting up, that is... once we finally broke up it was a total relief to be sleeping on my own again, and not lying there wide awake next to him, seething and analysing!
In conclusion, I think I'd rather sleep with someone I like than alone, but I'd rather sleep alone than with someone I don't like :lol:
I do love the occasional treat of sleeping with someone else, though. Especially if they're a cuddler... I love falling asleep with someone's breath on the back of my neck and their arm around my waist, and I love that kind of slow awakening you get when there are two of you. On my own I go from asleep to awake pretty much instantly, but when you wake up with someone else you kind of wake each other up by stirring gently - I like that.
I like having someone to say 'good morning' to. I like morning sex. When I was living with my ex I used to find it really hard to get to sleep when he was away. Until we started the gradual process of splitting up, that is... once we finally broke up it was a total relief to be sleeping on my own again, and not lying there wide awake next to him, seething and analysing!
In conclusion, I think I'd rather sleep with someone I like than alone, but I'd rather sleep alone than with someone I don't like :lol:
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Well I vote we go with the boys to let it be known that those hunky lads are coming home to us lot... then get them to buy us a couple of bottles of wine which we then take home and devour without them while having a shed load of fun til they arrive home. At which point we all pack our horns away and make them work for their shags! ;)
Strip tease style! :rascal:
Gem. x
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Isn't she wonderful?
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erm . . . i could always take him for a pint while you and gem get upto whatever you girlies get upto? i think she'd like that ((( i'm in sooooo much trouble!
see, nothing if not helpful me eh? ;)
neill x x x ;)
Ooooooh, that's a much better suggestion than mine. Right, get Nellie to take him to the pub and you, Gem and I can have a girly evening
:twisted: Thanks Dammy and HLB and everyone else who helped organise last night, it was fantastic to see lots of old friends and meet some new people.
Thanks to everyone I chatted to and danced with and snogged, you're all great!
as ever to the sexy DJ.
FA, Roger, Earthchild, Feklar, Celestria, Vix, Reese, Dizzytart - thankyou
Cocoa x
Thanks to everyone I chatted to and danced with and snogged, you're all great!
as ever to the sexy DJ.FA, Roger, Earthchild, Feklar, Celestria, Vix, Reese, Dizzytart - thankyou
Cocoa x
ops:An extremely dignified response, Sheddy!
My most memorable vehicular experience is probably the time I was staying in a hostel in Australia - was shagging a guy I'd met at the hostel, but as we were all in 10-bed dorms privacy could be difficult. Luckily he was travelling around Oz in a camper van which was parked outside the hostel, so we used to shag in there.
Only problem was, the van tended to rock around a bit once we really got going (and I'm not known for being particularly quiet once I get going
)... one memorable night we finished off amid screams and shouts and a good attack on the van's suspension, only to hear an amused crowd outside... they'd been walking into the hostel and seen the van rocking, and when we poked our heads out the window there were twenty or so people stood there giggling away! 
:lol: So much for trying to keep our activities private.Months later, I found a bumper sticker in a shop that said 'Don't come knocking when the van's a-rocking'. It's still hanging on my wall as a reminder of that trip :lol:
