1 - Are you male/female/couple? Female.
2 - How many munches have you attended? 4
3 - What is the typical/average time lapse between the munches you have attended? A month.
4 - After attending your first munch (not including people you already knew or have had sex with or people you have already arranged to meet at an after party) how many new people did you arrange to have sexual encounters with as a direct result of attending the munch?
5 - As a result of attending a subsequent munch (not including people you had already met at a previous munch/socially or already have had sex with or arranged to meet at an after party) how many new people did you arrange to have sexual encounters with directly as a result of attending that munch?
6 - What do you estimate to be the typical number of attendees at the munches you have attended? 100 or so
7 - What would you estimate to be the typical % of attendees you get to know at a munch? Say hi to at least half, really chat to about 10%
8 - Do you ever arranged to meet a person/people who you have not met at a munch? Not since I started going to munches.
9 - How many munches would you estimate you will be attending this year? 10-15
10 - What is your primary reason for attending a munch? Seeing old friends, putting faces to names of people I already 'know' online.
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makingcocoa
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 42
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So sorry, but due to having massively overbooked myself in May and June, and not having nearly as much time or money as I'd need to go to everything I'm signed up for - I'm going to have to take my name off this list. :cry:
Marc hun, you have a PM...
Hope you all have fun guys, I really hate to miss this but I'm just having to force myself to be sensible!
xxx
Marc hun, you have a PM...
Hope you all have fun guys, I really hate to miss this but I'm just having to force myself to be sensible!
xxx
Hiya
There are plenty of Scots on here - a browse through the last few pages of LMU will show you that. The best advice I can offer you is what us forum crowd always suggest to newbies - get yourself known on the forums, come into the Cafe and join in with the banter, get yourself invited to a Scottish munch or social (there was one in Glasgow quite recently, sure there'll be one again sometime soon-ish) and take it from there. Alternatively, spend some time working on your ad - at the moment it doesn't tell anyone very much about you. Stick some good photos in there - talk about you, your sense of humour, your taste in music, anything that makes you stand out. There are thousands of men seeking couples, and the one thing they all have in common is 'looking for NSA adult fun', so you really need to say a bit more than that if you're going to have much luck.
Good luck, hope it works out for you!
Cocoa x
There are plenty of Scots on here - a browse through the last few pages of LMU will show you that. The best advice I can offer you is what us forum crowd always suggest to newbies - get yourself known on the forums, come into the Cafe and join in with the banter, get yourself invited to a Scottish munch or social (there was one in Glasgow quite recently, sure there'll be one again sometime soon-ish) and take it from there. Alternatively, spend some time working on your ad - at the moment it doesn't tell anyone very much about you. Stick some good photos in there - talk about you, your sense of humour, your taste in music, anything that makes you stand out. There are thousands of men seeking couples, and the one thing they all have in common is 'looking for NSA adult fun', so you really need to say a bit more than that if you're going to have much luck.
Good luck, hope it works out for you!
Cocoa x
Quote by Hillfolk
We would like to be considered for the Manchester Munch please.
love
Dawn and Mark
Guys -
Have a read of the thread before you post at the end of it - if you went back just one page you would see Vicky saying that THE LIST IS FULL AND CLOSED, and has been for a long time.
Keep watching the forums for the next munch you could make it to, and get in early to ask for an invite! In the meantime, get posting on the forums and get yourselves known, as you'll be unlikely to get an invite to a munch anyway when you're complete newbies.
Good luck
Cocoa xxx
A couple of mine -
On a hotel balcony in Corfu, leaning over the railing - while occasionally chatting to passers-by in the street below.
In the swimming pool next to the dance floor at an open-air nightclub in Bali - but to be fair, we weren't the only ones! (wonders if it was actually a swingers club, and innocent 18-year-old Cocoa just didn't know about that sort of thing in those days...
)
On the back seat, top deck of a bus on the way home one night - all fine and dandy until you get off the bus, see the driver sniggering and realise they have those periscope thingies and can see what's happening upstairs....
:lol:
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On a hotel balcony in Corfu, leaning over the railing - while occasionally chatting to passers-by in the street below.
In the swimming pool next to the dance floor at an open-air nightclub in Bali - but to be fair, we weren't the only ones! (wonders if it was actually a swingers club, and innocent 18-year-old Cocoa just didn't know about that sort of thing in those days...
)On the back seat, top deck of a bus on the way home one night - all fine and dandy until you get off the bus, see the driver sniggering and realise they have those periscope thingies and can see what's happening upstairs....
:lol: x
Quote by Marcuso
He He He
It's not like you to miss a party weekend eh babes?
I remember you coming to mine as your first ever social. Very shy and quiet. Totally different to the party animal that you are now eh?? :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
You're on the list
Thanks hun
Yep, I remember - shaking like a leaf and heading straight for the vodka! How things change.... erm.... well, some things. I don't shake so much these days
xxx
Loving this thread. 
I've been here for about a year and a half, but didn't really start joining in until just before the changes - so I'm not classing myself as an 'old member'! Lots of names on this thread I recognise from my 'lurking' days though, and it's really nice to see you're all still around.
Cocoa x (having a warm fuzzy moment)
I've been here for about a year and a half, but didn't really start joining in until just before the changes - so I'm not classing myself as an 'old member'! Lots of names on this thread I recognise from my 'lurking' days though, and it's really nice to see you're all still around.
Cocoa x (having a warm fuzzy moment)
for not coming onto the thread and defending me first! Quote by Fallen Angel
You gave me a badge but it's looking a bit dog-eared because it got a bit squashed from all the snogging and it's a bit smudged because I dropped wine on it too
But I still have itand Cocoa has one too :D and we treasure them. New long-lasting ones would be great :D
And can I be an official groupie too? :high-smile:
FA
What she said, except it's vodka on mine and not wine :D Please save a pretty plasticked one for me!
Cocoa x
Sounds like an exciting development, Spongebob!
All I can think of to say is take it slowly. Talk about it plenty - doesn't have to be a big sit-down discussion, discuss it in bed! But make sure you both know what the other wants from the experience, what your limits are, etc etc. Do this before you even place an ad. Write the ad together, and make sure it says what you both want it to say. Go through every stage of the experience as a team - I don't think it's ever a good idea for one person to 'arrange' it as a treat for the other.
Saying this as a currently single bi fem who does meet couples, the most important thing about your ad is that it makes it very clear that you are BOTH very up for this, and has photos and descriptions and a bit of personality from both of you.
When you make contact with someone, don't hurry things - swap a few emails, chat on the phone, meet up for a drink. Your first experience will be a lot more comfortable if you know the person a little. Plus, it shows a bit of sensitivity for her situation, the safety issue is very important to a lot of single women. Make sure you BOTH click with her. I don't know that the other woman's experience or lack of it counts as much as how well you get on.
In the actual event, make sure you stick to your limits, make sure the other woman knows those limits and is ok with them and you know hers, make sure you don't make her feel left out by being too couply, but also make sure you and your partner have a moment either during or after to make eye contact and remember how much you love each other.
Good luck and enjoy!
Cocoa x
All I can think of to say is take it slowly. Talk about it plenty - doesn't have to be a big sit-down discussion, discuss it in bed! But make sure you both know what the other wants from the experience, what your limits are, etc etc. Do this before you even place an ad. Write the ad together, and make sure it says what you both want it to say. Go through every stage of the experience as a team - I don't think it's ever a good idea for one person to 'arrange' it as a treat for the other.
Saying this as a currently single bi fem who does meet couples, the most important thing about your ad is that it makes it very clear that you are BOTH very up for this, and has photos and descriptions and a bit of personality from both of you.
When you make contact with someone, don't hurry things - swap a few emails, chat on the phone, meet up for a drink. Your first experience will be a lot more comfortable if you know the person a little. Plus, it shows a bit of sensitivity for her situation, the safety issue is very important to a lot of single women. Make sure you BOTH click with her. I don't know that the other woman's experience or lack of it counts as much as how well you get on.
In the actual event, make sure you stick to your limits, make sure the other woman knows those limits and is ok with them and you know hers, make sure you don't make her feel left out by being too couply, but also make sure you and your partner have a moment either during or after to make eye contact and remember how much you love each other.
Good luck and enjoy!
Cocoa x
The reason post counts matter is that - well, I don't know if everyone does this, but I tend to take people more seriously, read threads they've started or replied to, etc if they have a bar beside their name. Of course, most of them are names I recognise - to genuinely get your post count that high, you've got to be someone that everyone sees around anyway! But it can be deceptive when someone has a high post count, you sort of think 'oh, well he must have been around for ages so I shouldn't take offense / offer advice / ask him what the fluck he's on about' - and actually it can turn out that they've just posted 1000 one-liners in the GFZ or the word association thread or something.
I know it's not THAT important, because really people earn their place here by the quality and not the quantity of what they post. And (getting to the point!) I always liked the GFZ - I haven't been around here much lately so haven't been to one for ages, but I'll pop in this afternoon if it's open!
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I know it's not THAT important, because really people earn their place here by the quality and not the quantity of what they post. And (getting to the point!) I always liked the GFZ - I haven't been around here much lately so haven't been to one for ages, but I'll pop in this afternoon if it's open!
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I see your point, NN! I've often wondered whether there are, in fact, a whole group of SHers who are completely successful with their one-liners, and all those posts in LMU get answered by someone in PM and everyone shags happily ever after, and we just don't hear about it because we're all here offering helpful advice and trying to 'make friends' There could be a whole successful 'quick shag' element to SH that we just don't know anything about.
It's entirely possible.
On the other hand, the number of 'I've been here ten whole minutes and no-one will shag me' style posts suggest that while it may be working for some people, it isn't working for all of them. And the only advice us forum lot can offer is what has worked for us - a bit of a circular situation really, because the nature of people from the forum is to join in and not look for a quick shag, so if you ask for advice on the forum that's all you'll be told!
There could be a whole successful 'quick shag' element to SH that we just don't know anything about.It's entirely possible.
On the other hand, the number of 'I've been here ten whole minutes and no-one will shag me' style posts suggest that while it may be working for some people, it isn't working for all of them. And the only advice us forum lot can offer is what has worked for us - a bit of a circular situation really, because the nature of people from the forum is to join in and not look for a quick shag, so if you ask for advice on the forum that's all you'll be told!
Personally, I don't usually fancy Asian men.
Nor do I usually fancy men who are shorter than me.
Nor do I usually fancy men who are more than twice my age.
Nor do I usually fancy TVs.
Nor do I usually fancy skinny women.
Everyone's entitled to personal preferences, and all that means is that none of us is going to shag everyone on the site. But isn't it lucky that there are so many people on this site that there's someone for everyone? Playing the racist card is completely unnecessary, and certainly isn't going to help you get laid. Instead, why not try putting some time and effort into joining in with the site, getting yourself known, coming to a munch, making some friends without trying to shag them, writing a really good ad.... and then see how many people fancy you?
Nor do I usually fancy men who are shorter than me.
Nor do I usually fancy men who are more than twice my age.
Nor do I usually fancy TVs.
Nor do I usually fancy skinny women.
Everyone's entitled to personal preferences, and all that means is that none of us is going to shag everyone on the site. But isn't it lucky that there are so many people on this site that there's someone for everyone? Playing the racist card is completely unnecessary, and certainly isn't going to help you get laid. Instead, why not try putting some time and effort into joining in with the site, getting yourself known, coming to a munch, making some friends without trying to shag them, writing a really good ad.... and then see how many people fancy you?
I got all sidetracked at Asda today and ended up buying a double airbed!
So I know what I'm bringing to the next Room 405.... oh bloody hell, now I really AM going to need a trolley. Or a porter of some description.... oh, Meeeeeeat-y! :giggle:
(flutters eyelashes beguilingly in attempt to distract potential porter-type people from size / number of bags)
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So I know what I'm bringing to the next Room 405.... oh bloody hell, now I really AM going to need a trolley. Or a porter of some description.... oh, Meeeeeeat-y! :giggle:
(flutters eyelashes beguilingly in attempt to distract potential porter-type people from size / number of bags)
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