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manchester_man
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 63
0 miles · Greater Manchester

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You'll not get many replies from blokes who want to join you until the footie's over!! After that - it might be celebrations or drowning of sorrows.... confused :? :?
Actually I'm in London that evening too, so if there was a plan to have a group getting together later on, I'd be interested - as long as it includes some ladies!!
I'd be up for this - diary permitting.
Despite the name I often work in London during the week,so a social after work hours sounds a good idea.
Will PM you also. - That must make 3 of us now!
lol :lol: :lol:
I'm often in London during the week and would be happy to host something in my hotel - daytime or evening.
I've sent you an invite to my Private Gallery so you'll have face pics. Do please get back in touch if you're interested - like you I'm looking fro clean NSA fun with people I can have a laugh and a chat with.
Good luck either way!
Dan
Seems to be the *teensiest* little problem with this thread - which is that all the posts so far - whilst all very keen - come from single guys (including this one)
Anyone got any idea where the lucky lady is going to come from who's going to be enjoying the pleasure of all these chaps?
I'm often in London during the week - should this become more than just fantasy-fest..... lol :lol: :lol:
I'd suggest a hotel room - arranged with guys from here. Daytimes around London area often works for me, as I travel to London most weeks and often have a free morning or afternoon.
How does that sound? I'd be happy to pay a share of the cost of the room - or if you can make it into central London, I might be able to accommodate the event in a nice hotel around Westminster / Victoria.
Dan / Manchester_Man
There's a couple of places I know in London, Rios & Ourplace4fun but not sure how they're fixed for daytimes. Pretty sure Ourplace is only evenings.
Sunset Cinema in Soho is always open daytimes though...? Details under the Clubs section.
If I'd seen your post a day or so back, I'd have loved to invite you to my hotel room, but I'm back up North now... maybe next time - I'm in London most weeks for a day or two, and often have free time during the day.
Let me know if you're interested....
Dan / Manchester_Man
:welcome: aboard mate!!
Be polite and respectful at all times, and expect to put in more than you get out for the first few weeks & months, plus spend some time on the Forum & chatrooms, and you'll have a great time and meeet some nice folks I'm sure.
I agree 100% with you NWC.... no wayI'd do that, but we shouldn't be preaching to others based on our own set of values. Otherwise there are plenty of folk out there who'd feel justified in having a go at us.
Just one tiny thing tho'......
.... you forgot to actually lock the thread !!
:giggle: :giggle: :giggle:
Are you looking for daytime or early evening fun on Friday....? If so, I'd love to join you.
6'1", straight guy, a regular at Cupids & Chams, be delighted to hear back from you....
Dan / Manchester Man
Think you'll find next Thurs is 30 AUG, not September..!
Sadly I can't make it to join you - although 30 Sept might have been a possibility... as would other dates over next few weeks!
Hope you find someone though.
Dan
Oh if ONLY I could get there on Weds,but sadly I can't this week.... sad :( :(
Seriously though - I can't believe you've had no answers to this ad yet - but from my own knowledge of Chams, I'm sure you'll have no problems getting all the fun you want on Weds. I'm just gutted that I can't be part of it.
Have a good time, and I'll be thinking of you!!
Dan
Quote by Jason1972male
hi there i think iw ill giv it a go why no one will know

If you WERE thinking of keeping it from hubby, then maybe posting on here isn't such a good idea. You're both pretty identifiable from your profile - you even have his face pic on there, so not really the best way to keep it secret....!!!!
Quote by Jassi
I am new to the swinging scene am single and have never got lucky here.

Might I suggest that making your first post after being a member for more than 6 months, might just be connected to never having "got lucky"? Remember that you're only going to "get lucky" when someone decides that you're worth the time and effort for them to meet up with you. So you need to do a little to show yourself in the best light - join the chatrooms (to CHAT - not just to show your knob on cam), post in the forums, get to know people a little.
Sad (for us guys at least) fact is that it's a "couples & fems" market out there - they can pick and choose, so you need to make them want to pick you.
I'm not trying to be negative - just suggesting you see the world from the perspective of the couples and ladies who you're hoping to meet.... All very well to say you're "good looking" but we all have different tastes. Post a pic (in Private Gallery if you like) so the ladies can see who they might be meeting. Likewise take the advice of Essexbicpl - knowing where you are is kinda important if you're hoping people might be meeting up with you....
Good luck!
And let us know if your fortunes improve... wink
Two tips....
If you go on Monday I think that's the "Bi only" night - which may or may not be what you want?
And check with the club first that you can simply turn up and join, if this is your first time. Chams is such a popular club that they often have to operate a waiting list for single guys.
In terms of what you'll find there - the club reviews section tells you plenty!
Good luck.
Yes - they do happen..... but helps if people know what they're coming to - esp if travelling a distance. I note you have no pics on your profile, so adding some (even if only available on your private gallery) might help?
I could do the night of Sun 19th and would be interested to know more....
Sadly there ARE a lot of timewasters about - and not just the guys who say they'll turn up and don't. More than once I've kept a date free for a long-promised meet, only to find that there is no contact back from the couple as the day draws near....
Good luck anyhow...!!!
Dan / Manchester Man
I trust that they'remembers of Swinging Heaven...?
If not - you're breaking the site AUP.....
If so - how come they not advertising for themselves? confused :?
Great night - really good to meet some of you off here after seeing names on Forum & in Chatroom for so long.
Hope you enjoyed your birthday Sue - and the hour immediately following it! And I hope that some other ladies have saved some energy for Weds afternoon.... wink :wink: :wink:
I'll be there.....
Looking forward to meeting you Sue, plus Ginger Jo & Lee and maybe some other folks off here, whose names I know but haven't had the pleasure of meeting in person.
Sounds like it should be a fun evening....
Manchester Man
Hoping I might just be able to make this one.... If you can put me on the list, I'll be sure to let you know if there's any problem (like if work intervenes!!).
Would be great to meet you at last - as I said I was gutted to miss this week's fun.
Here's hoping......
wink :wink: :wink:
I'd suggest Cupids..... not far from you (Swinton) and a very friendly club where there's bound to be plenty going on.
You can decide whether to watch or join in..... but you'll get no hassle either way.
sadly I won't be in tomorrow night as I have a (non-swingers) party to go to in the Lakes
Just make sure you come back on here and tell us how you got on!! wink :wink:
Check out the clubs listing, but Chameleons Nr Walsall (deservedly) gets excellent ratings.
Glad you all had a good time.... I was gutted not to be able to come along. In fact, as it turned out, I might as well have cancelled my business trip to London and come joined you, as I really couldn't concentrate at all Weds pm thinking of the fun I was missing.
So worst of all worlds for me.... sad :( :(
Hope I might make it along to the next one wink (although the places are sure to be snapped up quickly!)
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I think your problem here is it's not clear what's "in it" for the couple - you've not said which club you fancy, and I'm not even sure there ARE any in Bolton, so why would a couple who were going somewhere decide to "adopt" you for the evening? They also might feel you were after something....
Suggest instead you head on your own to Cupids in Manchester - the staff wil make you welcome & show you round, and there's always a good crowd in there.
Hang around the bar and they'll get chatting to you - or else go for a look around & you may find you don't need conversation that much wink :wink:
Good luck....!

not all couples only help people if theres something 'in it' for them lol i'm more than happy to take new people to clubs without expoecting anything in return and have on a number of occasions gone in with single guys so they can have a look round without having to pay out costly membership fees b4 they even know if they like the place, however i'm not in manchester so no that wasnt a offer lol
Sorry Naughty - didn't mean to imply that there were no couples who might offer to help out. (Pleased to hear that generosity is alive & well in yam-yamland as it is elsewhere :wink: .) Simply making the point that it's a couples' market on here - they are generally the ones who can pick and choose their company from the motley selection of blokes who'd like to meet them! So the more that it can be a "win-win" the more likely SuperDave is to find willing volunteers to take him along to a club.
I wish both you and him the best of luck...
I think your problem here is it's not clear what's "in it" for the couple - you've not said which club you fancy, and I'm not even sure there ARE any in Bolton, so why would a couple who were going somewhere decide to "adopt" you for the evening? They also might feel you were after something....
Suggest instead you head on your own to Cupids in Manchester - the staff wil make you welcome & show you round, and there's always a good crowd in there.
Hang around the bar and they'll get chatting to you - or else go for a look around & you may find you don't need conversation that much wink :wink:
Good luck....!
Gutted..... broadband connection was down all last week and only got fixed at the weekend (another thing screwed up by the weather - I think my phone line had rusted through ). If I'd known about this beforehand I might have been able to come, but as it is I'm in London now all day Weds. sad :( :(
Would love to meet you sometime Jo (and Susie too!) - hope we can make it happen sometime.
Are you planning to go to Cupids next Tues (17th) - seem to be a few from here going then, and I'm planning to be one of them.
Have a great time on Weds.... I'll be thinking of you for sure.... wink
Quote by Sexysue68
Manchester_man not sure how you will recognise me but i do have a tattoo of a devil on my left boob so if it pops out of my towel im sure you will see it, not having a cake but hope to be having lots of fun.
sue68
x

Hope it's not too small (the tattoo that is....!) A man can get a lot of funny looks (and the odd punch in the face) going around squinting at every woman's left tit! wink :wink:
At the moment I'm free that night, so I'll plan to come along - sounds fun!
If you tell me how I'll know you I'll come along and say hi - or you can find me?
Will you be having a big cake with candles and stuff..... or just lots of sex??!! lol :lol: :lol: