Only thing I'd add to Little Gem's sound advice would be perhaps to check out the jacuzzi. It's a good place to chat and get to know people, but also to get something going if you're in the mood....
I've been going to clubs like this for years, but last Tues I took a lady to Chams who'd never been before and was nervous and excited at the prospect. After a couple of drinks in the bar area and a chance to calm her nerves, we had a wander round to show her the lie of the land, then went in the jacuzzi.
First time it loosened her up, and we went off to a room, where we invited another guy to join us. After that we went back in the water, and she ended up getting shagged in the water by a very vigouous and enthusiastic young man, as I played with her. She still has the smile on her face nearly a week later, and can't wait to go back.
The staff are great - if you want any tips just have a word. After all - it's in their interests as well as yours for you to enjoy it.
MM
Perhaps you need to specify... did you mean swingers clubs or just your usual "clubbing" clubs...?
Either way, you have an answer above - if it's the former, I always find Cupids good fun and very friendly. Thursday is often a pretty good night. 'fraid I'll not be there this week though as work takes me to London on Thurs & Friday. If it's the latter, then I'm too old to offer any meaningful advice.....
MM
.... and after all that the poor guy is still no closer to finding anyone to take up his invitation! :violin:
Aw.. shame - I was maybe thinking of going, but I've already agreed to take a new single lady from Brum to Chameleons that night instead.... maybe see you in Cupids another time?
Dan in Manchester
Liz & Paul,
Just to say a huge THANKS for a marvellous afternoon - sorry I could only stay for the first half - but great fun had by me & I hope the others too.
Next time tho' ..... if it's in the middle of a heatwave - can you book a hotel room with aircon??!!
Dan
Might very well be available for that.... 14th is the Monday right? You thinking of daytime or evening... or both??!!
I live in Manchester - 6'1" straight guy, medium build, brown hair & eyes. I'm 44. Don't have photos posted on here (you never know who's browsing & I have to be a bit careful) but happy to send pics to a mobile phone.
Was actually at a hotel meet in Chester today - the first one I've been to off the site, and it was great fun! Been going to clubs - mainly Cupids - for years though.
Let me know if you think you might be interested?
I'd go for Cupids too.... although I realise it's too late for tonight (so perhaps I should be asking where did you go & how was it...?)
Of course it can be quiet on a night like Weds (Mon is the other night it can be pretty slow), but there's always guys in there and sometimes a quiet night in terms of numbers means less hassle & pressure, so if you DO want to have some fun, then it can be very easy-going.
I've had a couple of my best nights on a Mon or Wed - with just a handful of couples in and just enough guys so we can all share the goodies on offer!
Let me know next time you're going to be in & I'd try to join you (if only to see that fabulous looking chest in the flesh,,,, as it were!)
Hi Liz & Paul,
Hope I'm in time to still find find space on your list.... I've sent you a PM.
Hi - 6'1" straight normal guy, 44, in Manchester unexpectedly free this pm and wondering if there's any cpls or ladies who fancy a bit of NSA fun this afternoon? Maybe we could go to Cupids, or else just find our own place to have fun....?
Will check for replies at lunchtime if anyone fancies it? Seems too nice a day to spend it on mundane stuff like work....!
Cupids used to do a "couples only" session on a Sunday pm, but it never really caught on, so they canned it. Still open (to couples & singles) Sunday evening though....
Errrr. I believe it's actually called - with the predictability you might expect of us Northerners - "The Airport"
Suggest you go Tuesday rather than Mon if you've never been before...
Usually a busier and better night... Mon can sometimes be a bit quiet.
Good luck!
