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manchester_man
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Sadly I couldn't make it this past Tuesday, as I was abroad with work and only landed back at M'cr airport about or so. I could perhaps have turned up about or so, but i thought that would be pushing it...
But Tuesday is often a good night. Maybe next time?? :-)
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manchester_man
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I've ben many times during the week... daytimes and evenings - and there is usually some fun to be had somewhere!
Good luck!! lol :lol: :lol:
Let us know how you get / got on.
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manchester_man
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Quote by Gentle_lover
Thanks for all the replies. Working on sorting out the lady(ies) and a good venue.

I don't live in London but am quite often down in a nice hotel for work during the week. (Less often on a Friday evening, though).
Happy to offer the use of my clean, upmarket & very discreet hotel room in the Westminster / Pimlico area, in return for an invitation, if the dates worked out!
(I'm in Meggo's NW group and can vouch for the quality of the events he puts on up there...)
Dan / Manc_Man
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manchester_man
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I'm hoping to pop along on the 8th, as I think I'll be in London that night...
Anyone else from here planning to go? Come and say "hi" to me, if you see me! lol :lol:
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manchester_man
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Think you may have posted this in the wrong place.... Difficult to know who your message is aimed at! lol :lol:
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manchester_man
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Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
But again, this club enforces the dress down rule. We tried it once and as you go in, you are directed to the changing area to get your clothes off, as a result of this, we have not been since and stick with Partners where you do have a choice.
Also, Adam & Eves (and I understand is the same at Cupids) there is no where safe to leave vaulables or the clothes you have taken off. You do have an area to hang them and I have never heard of anyone having anything taken, but they dont provide lockers for your clothes etc (however, the owners will provide an envelope for you to seal any small valuables and those are kept safely behind the bar).

Can't comment on Adam & Eves, but at Cupids they give you a decent-sized plastic box for valuables (ice cream tub size) which is big enough for a big purse or wallet, keys, phones, cash, etc. This is kept securely behind the bar and you have to exchange your wristband to get it back during the night or as you leave. Works well. Yes, clothes need to be hung up in the changing room, but they have many "open locker" type spaces for these, so you keep your clothes separate from other peoples' and shoes, etc go in there as well. I've never heard that the last person to leave ends up going home in someone else's clobber!! lol :lol:
As for the dress down rule... I've seen some men in shorts sometimes, rather than just a towel, and plenty of ladies will chose to wear a bikini or s sexy outfit of some sort, as opposed to just underwear or nothing... at least to begin with!!
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manchester_man
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Quote by YoungCouple990
Hi Guys,
we are also in the same boat, we are a young 20's couple looking to try out a no pressure club. We have never done anything like this before or had a meet but the prospect excites us both.
We are in Manchester end of this month and were considering trying out Cupid's ?? does anybody have any feedback on that club ?
As mentioned above we would like to go to a club which is relaxed has a social aspect where we can ease ourselves into if when the mood catches us.
any help or advice much appreciated...

I'm guessing you might mean the end of Feb,when you say "end of this month", since there's only a couple of hours of January left??!! lol :lol:
I would recommend Cupids - I've been going there for over 10 years now and it stays good. Under new management recently too, and quite a few changes being made & some money being spent to spruce the place up.
Some nights are busier than others, obviously, but you maybe don't want the place packed to the rafters on your first night.
I can promise no pressure - the rule (as in all clubs) is that the ladies are in charge and if they don't want something to happen, then it simply doesn't happen. No further questions, your honour!
But if you DO want to play, or to get close to the action when someone else is playing, so you can enjoy the view, that's fine and you will be warmly welcomed, I'm sure!
I'd be happy to let you have more info (I've taken a few people along there over the years, who had not been anywhere like this before). Also happy to arrange to come along with you when you go, if that would help... show you the ropes & all that... (although the staff will give you a tour when you arrive).
But above all, I'd say - go for it and give it a go. Don't die wondering!! :lol: :lol: :lol:
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manchester_man
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You seem to have a lot of ladies in tow...
Your profile mentions a Gemma and a Lucy - and now we have Vicki...!! lol :lol:
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manchester_man
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No posts on here for a couple of weeks,but there was plenty of interest - including a couple of ladies expressing an interest.
So - is it going to happen, we're all wondering...? lol
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manchester_man
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Quote by funlovin-cpl-nw
full list now look out for next time xxxx funlovin

Sorry I won't be joining you this time - but hope you have a load of fun!!
Maybe next time...
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manchester_man
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I'm interested in being on the list for this group if it takes off.
Let me know how you get on. I live in Manchester, travel all over with work and am an experienced swinger.
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manchester_man
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Damn.... didn't come on here yesterday but would have been too late anyway, I guess.
Maybe next time.... I might be calling in Thurs night. wink
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manchester_man
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Usually pretty good any night of the week. Always couples in and you can be assured of fun to watch somewhere, even if you're not lucky enough to join in...
Go expecting just a chilled time, sauna and a jaccuzi and anything else will be a bonus!
Have fun!
:-)
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manchester_man
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Quote by Ian_Hart
Hi
I guess we are just kinda putting the "feelers" out so to speak............
Not too sure of a date or time yet, probably early February.
Ian & Jo x
:bounce:

Thanks for the update... let us know on this thread when you have more details - eg, is it likely to be weekday or weekend, daytime or evening, or maybe it will last for several days..??!!
Oh - and I quite like the idea of Jo putting her "feelers" out... Would she mind mine in return??!! wink
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manchester_man
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Likewise - I'd be very interested to learn more.
Very nice profile & videos... I'm in the NW, and would love to know more about your planned meet. First important bit of info is some idea of date & time, so I (and others) can know if we're available or not.
Hope to hear more soon... wink
But in the meantime - Happy New Year,and I hope you find plenty of fun!
Dan / Manchester_Man
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manchester_man
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Suggest you be a bit less specific about eactly WHICH hotel you're in... SOme hotels are not really crying out for publicity like this!
lol
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manchester_man
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I suggest you re-post this a bit nearer the time - or at least edit the title so it's clear you're talking about a meet 3 months from now.
Not everyone plans ahead as far as you lol :lol:
Two other thoughts:
- Your profile shows you as a couple. Are you both going to be staying in March?
- And the hotel in question might prefer you to be a bit less specific about exactly WHERE you'll be staying...
Good luck!
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manchester_man
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Mmmmm... Sounds like fun. I've got something else on in the evening, but could maybe go for the afternoon. What time will you be there?
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manchester_man
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Suggest you try Chameleons on the Tus night (Mon is their bi night...)
Worth a go,and it's not far from there! lol
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manchester_man
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Suggest you read the club reviews (click on "clubs" in the left hand side menu.)
You will find them all rated there and descriptions, reviews & links to websites.
Based where you are - my suggestion would be a trip up the M5 to Chameleons near Walsall, just N of Birmingham... always plenty of people in there & a nice relaxed atmosphere. Feel free to message me for more info.
And - most importantly - good luck & have fun!!
lol :lol: :lol:
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manchester_man
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Damn... just seen this.
Don't know if you found anyone for last Friday - but if the urge should strike again, please let me know. I work not far from Preston and could usually make it around that sort of time.
The more notice you can give, the better, and the more chance of me reading the message in time. If you want to get my mobile number to make things easier, let me know...
Happy to answer any questions etc in advance. I'm not a time-waster. regular and long-time member at Cupids, Chameleons, etc, so not some saucer-eyed kid who will promise the earth then let you down!
Have fun!
Dan /Manchester_Man
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manchester_man
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Hi... sorry I missed this for last night, but if you'd like someone to escort you to a club like Cupids anytime, just let me know.
I know I'm older than that age range you're looking for, but happy to help get you in there, and feeling comfortable so you can have whatever fun you want with whoever you want.
Weekday evenings best for me...
Dan / Manchester_man
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manchester_man
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Quote by Elliemaecouple
Hi we go to Cupids a lot and we like single guys to talk to us there is nothing worse than when hubby gos to get a drink some single guy comes and asks if i want to go into a a couple we both need to be comfortable with a single guy , Ellie x

Hi Ellie,
Not sure if we've met, but please do say "Hi" next time you and your other half see me in Cupids. Like you - always happy to chat, even if that's all I end up doing.
Manchester_Man
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manchester_man
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Just seen this thread... sorry for not replying before.
UKmale has given some brilliant advice, and i could not have put it better myself. So maybe just a couple of things to add... I'm basing my advice on Cupids in Swinton, as that's the place i've been going to for 10+ years.
Go in the evening, not the afternoon. Sure some people go in the afternoon, but it's much more hit&miss than an evening. At Cupids Tuesday is usually a good, busy-ish evening as well as Fri & Sat.
I know you will have expectations, but try to see your first trip as a fact-finding mission... to suss out how it al works, what the different rooms are, etc. If you have no expectations, you can't be too disappointed & can only be pleasantly surprised!
When you arrive, make sure you get a tour of the club. Cupids always do this - and I'm sure others do too.
If you find it hard to make conversation at the bar, or in the lounge, go in the sauna or jaccuzzi - even if on your own. You may find a couple join you & that's a good chance to chat. Also - if you don't want to leap into conversation with couple at the bar, chat to the staff. Others will join in and you'll soon find you're talking to the woman with the huge norks who you you were really fancying!! lol :lol:
If you're watching a couple playing,and not sure if you can join in... either let someone else make the first move, of if it's just you, move closer slowly & quietly... then maybe just gently touch the lady's arm or leg. She may move your hand away, or she may let you carry on - but nothing is so off-putting as an unwanted guy leaping straight in & being told where to go!
Above all - be yourself, be ready to join in, but remember you have not paid for sex, you've paid to get into club, and you still need to flirt, charm or impress your way to encourage a lady to allow anything more.
HAVE FUN!! and let us know how it goes...
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manchester_man
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Hi,
I've been a few times during the daytime - and it's variable, but you'll always find a few people in, and there's fun to be had if you want it... If you're looking for guys, you'll find more of those, but usually one or two couples in the daytime too.
If you say that you are definitely going to be there (at a certain time) and say what kind of people you're looking for, that may help, as people may go specially. (Maybe if you are particularly turned on by guys from Manchester, for instance, hint, hint... lol :lolsmile
Or you can just chill in the jaccuzzi, get a sauna, steam room, etc and see if anything takes your fancy!
Hope you have fun, anyhow... Come back on here and let us know.
Manchester_Man
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