Now I really DO understand what you mean - in the same way that:
"I'm always in the shit - it's just the depth that varies"
....by whoever you are trying to meet.
As a single guy, I take that to be a couple, single female, group, single male, whatever.
e.g. A couple wish to meet a single guy.
If there are 1000 couples and 300,000 single males, and all of the single males are considered equal, then they have a 1 in 3000 chance of being 'picked'.
Now but using whatever 'selection criteria' (read 'acceptance') they may choose from a pool of 50 males.
That's a BIG difference ! (600 times different).
That's the point I'm making.
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Oh well, that's me told then isn't it !
Genuine, hmmm.
There are a few people who are fairly normal, open about what they do, yes.
And for every one of them, there are a thousand who have never swung, been dogging, or maybe even ventured past the missionary position. For a site of over 400k people, the majority of the forum posts and adverts some from a small minority.
Frankly, as a single guy, it's damnedx near impossible to gain acceptance into a group of truly genuine swingers / doggers or any other 'specialist' group, because they don't know who you are, and therefore cannot trust you. I speak from experience.
Sure there seem to be a few decent people here, but in reality, the chances of you meeting someone for a shag are marginal UNLESS you are willing to be vetted by whatever means the group you are trying to join stipulates.
It's tough, the odds are crap, and it's a buyers market - good luck (you'll need it !)
Tony
PS. Don't give up if you are really looking for something though ....... it took Colonel Sanders 2 years and 2000 visits before someone bought his KFC recipe. It might take you just as long !
If you're genuine, PM me and I'll give you some help.
I don't really know you both, but it's still good news !
Congratulations both.
Tony
Shoot - he's just annoying (and very wrinkly now too)
Tony Blair hahahaha
Err..... I'm a lady ..... and so is my wife !
If you really want a giggle, if you are visiting the one that says "All your way", ask them for a plain burger.
That's it.
Just a burger.
No bun !
They'll do it as well (we tried it for a laugh). They even wrap it for you - hahaha
I must have too much time on my hands, as I have just scrolled back as far as the previous threads go to see which was the earliest - and this was it.
Even more amazing, I recognize one of the nixks in the postings !
However you may develop a strange taste in wooden garden structures !
English cream or English strawberries ?
Owwww !!!!!!!
I hadn't 'spoken' for 18 years until this forum came along .......
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Sorry if I seem to be in a particularly sarcastic mood today - it's because I am.
Some days one just cannot tolerate fools, and I guess this is one of those days for me.
So if I seem to have lost my sense of humour (however strange it may be) that's the reason why.
For anyone else having a crap day - feel free to rant, moan, scream or whatever in here.
You should be able to find what you are looking for here .....
Is that what you meant ?
Yeah,
A coffee and a chat would be nice.
Plus, if you're going my way, a lift would be just great !
