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maymarc
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 47
Straight Male, 48
0 miles · Cambridgeshire

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Dont know whether its just me but I have been a member of SH for just under 18 months and have noticed the chat rooms getting quieter. None of the normal faces see to appear on and very new faces are arriving :cry:
I am not sure whether I am the only one but as a few meets are always few and far between and I always feel awkward and nervous.
Dont know whether it could be low esteem or just whether we are just getting into the swinging.
I have also found that because of family commitments it also makes things difficult redface confused
There seems to be a few things going on in PBoro. There are a few beer festivals going on over ths week, and apparently a few good clubs and pubs in the surrounding villages
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Dont know why but at the moment when i go onto the chat room we feel as if we are being ignored. Cant understand why.
Totally off subject for SH
Play doh makes some people hungry for cookies, and makes some people feel as if they are going to be sick. :!:
Thanks Scouskev for the complement
It gets to the point that we are doubting ourselves because of the folk that mess us around. Feels as if it is us.
And really gets us down
:taz:
We have been on the chat rooms, chatted to a lot of people who are genuine lovely people who are into swinging.
We arranged a couple of meets - the first we said this is the weekend we are free because my parents were babysitting and asked the couple to email us to confirm - they didn't even bother to let us know what was happening.
The second we arranged everything and they were up for a meet and coming to us, but never turned up - found out that instead of meeting us there were on line. They had confirmed with us the works. They didn't even bother to get in contact to let us know what happened.
I know there are some genuine swingers out there but we feel seriously let down by a few. I don't know whether it is something we are doing or whether its others.
I know it seems I am turning into my mum, especially with the way I tell off my lil angel :shock:
Mrs has one on back. Carefull Discussion and lots of thought went into it.
For a man - u dont have to put up with period pains or childbirth,
Hi welcome - i occasionally set up a chatroom normally on server 2 for herts & beds people, u are more than welcome to pop in
Quote by ^Tigger^
I'm Blonde and still aint got a clue how to work most of it lol
Should have a "Blonde Section!!!!"

If u think there should be a 'blond section' who knows what kind of section for me there should be, 'Nice, but like a malteeser,' section dark on the inside, blond on the inside. Mr says that I can have those days that I just am thick
we were born in 77, both brought up with Beetles (his dad loved beetles & heavy metal) my mother Beetles and Dance / pop music. He loves Metal from most decades, me mix of everything from late 80's early 90's and some to present. Must say mavorite decade is 00's as my daughter was born in 03
if u are fed up with ordinary tacky porn try a line called Shiva. Not as bad as the other kinds. depends what u look out for
deinately go onto one of the smaller chatrooms for your area. u will get to know a few people then u guys can go fro there smile
Quote by steph
Why are you asking, do you have one or are you getting one?

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Seriously tho Arca - could be extremely dangerous if your partner has a IUD fitted - can catch the strings and on withdrawal you rip her innards out :eeek: :eeek: :eeek:
Steph
Totally agree with this. Mrs has an IUD and wouldnt want my bits to be ripped out If u dot want to risk that see whether your mrs wants her clit hood pieced. far more enjoyable for her
Hello - don't worry we're new to it to. So hello + welcome from us. :giggle:
i would come back as myself, but a few inches taller, just so it would be easier for my husband to shag me standing up
:confused: We are trying to get ito the swinging scene, after having been in the BDSM scene redface about a year ago and trying to find the right way about it. Can any one advise as we are trying to find the right couple / club / party etc in which we wouldn't feel pressured. surprisedops:
As with every person with or without tourettes, its best to take them for who they are. It doesn't matter whether they have a disability. It is best never to take offence.
I do understand where u are coming from. I was able to breast feed our child for a few weeks and them my child went onto formula as I could not keep up with her. U choose what is best for the child and u.
at least u r substansially satisfied - I'll have to find some thing to help destress now. :bounce:
to us it's only natural - what would people have done without powdered baby milk (or the ready mix formula) they would have to breast feed whether they liked it or not.
As an ex helpdesk person if I remember righly the old laptoptop won;t take this version of windows. There were trials on thie computer and it was found that the software took up to much processing space (that is if its the old gray tosh laptop)
Definately understand what u mean. our lil angels bday is weeks before christmas and she keeps asking for both her chrstmas and bday list
redface Thanks for the warm welcome. Itts also nice to see that there is one other couple in our are hoping that we will get to know a few people
Maymarc
Hi all just wanted to introduce ourselves as an open minded couple just broadening our horizons biggrin