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mazandden
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 43
Straight Male, 48
UK

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i was at the funeral today of my beautiful friend who killed herself- she suffered from depression.....
Go Adebayor!!
Den fights his way back to the top, but its super close now with 2 to go!
Good luck everyone, except the 3 directly behind me evil
Den
i made it! eventually! still a bit slow on the old facebook malarky!hehehe
I think we should make a private group like fabs suggests (but with a v innocent title!!!)
I quite like faceboook!- i'm a convert!
I also reluctantly joined- i'm a member of them all,
myspace under my burlesque pseudonym, mainly for networking and also bebo through the gymnastics team, which tends to be used by the younger girls in the team who've not long left school.
Facebook seems to be the best, it was a while before i finally gave in to another site and signed up, and took a wee while to get in the swing of!
It's great for finding old friends or friends of friends, someone mentioned that if they didn't have someones contact details, it would be for a reason, but sometimes you do just loose touch and it's nice to catch up again.
It's also funny to see what a small world it is and how some of your friends know your other friends!
I think the best part of it is the photo sharing, i have hundreds up, it's so quick to upload and its great to be able to access your friends photos easily.
I think it's one of the safer sites as you can only see certain peoples profiles, and noone can see yours unless you give them access.
I hate all the applications that people send- 'which sex and the city character are you' whats your porn star name' etc etc- i ignore most of them, although 'dope wars' amuses me! hehehe
I'm going to hunt you all out now!
maz xx
I don't think bullying is a term used too lightly.
It depends on the person who is experiencing it.
We're all made differently and we would all have different reactions to the same experience.
What one child might be able to shrug off, may be enough to push another over the edge.
Also, what may seem trivial to an adult (experience/hindsight?), may be a massive emotional strain to a child.
I think that if a child is expressing that they feel bullied or victamised, no matter how trivial it might seem to someone else, it should be taken very seriously.
I think it all boils down to what coping strategies we each have, some might be better able to cope with stressors than others.
I suppose its a similar reason as to what might drive someone to suicide, perhaps one person would see something like work stress and deadline pressures as a bit of a bugger, but to someone else it could seem like the end of the world- very difficult for anyone with a 'rational' mind to understand.
Having said all that, I remember getting accused of bullying when i was at school!!
I had absolutely no idea that the girl in question felt she was being bullied by me and my friends, until her mother phoned mine.
My mums was in tears asking me how i'd feel if i had my food thrown at me, and my school bag thrown in the mud. I actually thought that this might be something happening to my sister, not even an inclination that it was me she was talking about! (bullying was definately not 'hardcore in my school wink )
The 'incidents' in question were all a bit of playground fun to me and my friends- food fights involving everyone in the class- so much fun, and everyone hiding each others school bags.
Nothing in anyway was targeted at anyone, yet this girl felt it was, i was also a recipient- I also had my schoolbag hidden and lunch thrown at me, which we all seemed to find quite amusing at the time.
It just goes to show that some people are really overly sensitive, but it was enough to make this poor girl feel frightened to come to school and quiet wee me to be accused of being a bully! :shock:
Howdy folks!
I love reading, I just never seem to have enough time!
I'm always too tired by the time I get to bed!
I always have 3 or 4 books on the go at once, and when we go on holiday i'm always right up at the baggage allowance becuase of the number i read.
I used to hate reading at school, I suppose I didn't know the kind of books I liked!
Maz xx
I was top by a mile for a couple of weeks there, but my bubble seems to have well and truly burst, as i have been pushed down into second spot, however, i could regain it tonight! fingers crossed!
Den
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A kilt was part of my school uniform- we could wear any tartan we wanted.
Not so sure about the boots though!....

mmmm..........that's given me a nice mental image smile You still go it?
or actually I've just thought.....is this Maz or Den posting dunno :lol2:
Den in a kilt and fuck me boots :shock: rotflmao
Maz & kate on the other hand sillyhwoar:
lol , it was me posting, but Den does look pretty hot in a kilt if I do say so myself....
A kilt was part of my school uniform- we could wear any tartan we wanted.
Not so sure about the boots though!....
Hi folks, sorry we haven't replied to this sooner!
We've got a virus on the comp so loggin on takes forever, we've been all quiet on the SH front for a while now!
We're not going to be able to make this onee as although den is off work, he has his xmas do- a weekend away (after xmas?- go figure!)
Anyhoo, hope you all have a fab time without us and we'll hear all the goss no doubt!
And HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!
m xxx
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Is there space for an ickle one please smile I've not got a nasty sore throat to add to this stinking cold I've got sad evil

Me too :-(
And I've got to be at work all weekend too - booooooooooo
Yes i am concerned.
Concerned that someone can be worried by someones religion.
How about we ensure no "papists" ever get a position of power in any organisation ever again. Lest they force you to do something they believe in.
Now, the reason they do this is as follows.
The film is on a big reel that runs through a machine, they have to start the reel because someone could buy a ticket during the 20 mins of adverts. Then once the reel has started you need to run it right through to get back to the start, there is no rewind button!
Ok, just been on the phone to my mate, who is a cinema manager.
Yes, they play the film even if no one is there.
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Updated and hotel lists sent to those that have asked. If anyone else needs one just let me know. :bounce:

We do! unless someone has a better idea?!?! :twisted:
cranium is quite good- it has a bit of everything, pictionary, charades, singing, clay modelling, word puzzles, questions etc etc, we played it for hours the other night!!!!
Trivial pursuit is my fave though!
m xx
let's get the vino and the forum chat opened- i'm in on my lonesome tonight and also in need of distraction!!!!!!!
OI! It's also for the girls!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :shock:
They seemed to forget about the previous line of the song where he sings:
'you're an old slut on junk, lying there almost dead on a drip in that bed' !
If faggot is offensive, why is that not? If i had children, I'd rather they went around singing maggot and cheap lousy faggot rather than slut!
However, for me, I don't find it offensive at all, I have always absolutely loved this song.
I find that radio 1 have far too many blatant references to sex from the presenters, never mind song lyrics.
In fact, recently they had a presenter poll on: 'which of the male presenters would you have gay sex with'
I find this more wrong than the use of one word.
I'm not saying I find the above poll offensive, I found it quite funny, but I wouldn't have found it funny trying to explain the poll to young children (be it gay sex/straight sex/ any kind of sex)
I think this reeks of double standards!
Anyway, my favourite Christmas song of all!
M xx
Ok, at the mo I wear a 34/36 D
If I go by that measurement, and measure around my chest I come up with 34- perfect- but why the hell do you have to add on 4 inches to that measurement?
38?!?!?!?!
It makes my bra size a 38 E!!!!!!! There is no way!
I'm going to find another site!.......
M xx
I wished I could have gone just to see Dita von Tease!
:inlove: :inlove:
M xx
You know we'll be there!
Den says he can do sparkles and fairy outfits.....
wink xxxxx
I've never organised a munch/social, and if I am attending one, I like looking through the lists set out that way to know who's who, without haven't to go look at hundreds of profiles! so much easier!
If I just saw the name, I would probably struggle to remember who a lot of people were, if I see it linked to couple/single male etc, it helps to jog my memory. I certainly wouldn't bother clicking through everyones profiles to see!
If it was down as hair colour, then that would be no help, as it wouldn't help me work out who anyone is! wink lol
M xx
I don't think it matters in the slightest, I don't think it's trying to 'put you in a box', that's already been done by having a 'status' on the site anyway.
It makes it so much easier to know who people are when you look through the lists. End of!
m xx
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Hi all,
I love giving ladies anal but have never done double penitraition. Have any lady's tried double vaginal penetraition ? Again would require male's who were not shy with each other but I have an old girlfriendwho had done it and she say it was the best sex she had experienced !
Best wishes Alan

:shock: I've just had an "ouch" moment!! would this be physically possible??
I've never tried double penetration, I don't think it would be me sad
Did you clench your pelvic floor muscles as you read it? lol I did!
We've tried DP with one in each orifice but I wouldn't attempt to get two cocks in my pussy :shock:
It is indeed possible