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mazandden
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 43
Straight Male, 48
UK

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Then he asked for your bank details and now your account is empty?

They have to do that first silly, so that there is enough space cleared in the bank for all that new money!!!!!!
Doh!
didn't know gillette did cut throats.....
awww now I've gone and got 'the best a man can get' stuck in my head!
grr mad
Quote by sheddy
I just need a damn hug. Please don't laugh at me but I am very attached to animals ( hell, I prefer them to most people )

I won't laugh as I can see your point, PK has a rabbit well she has 2 really but one is of the fluffy four legged variety and of late he has become my mate. When I first started coming up here he used to go all jealous and bounch round his cage in a protective manor. But sincce I've been living and working up here and as I'm on nights he is the first living thing I see when I get up in the afternoons as PK is at work. I chat with him, feed him even let him out for a run round and a chew of anything he can get his teeth on lol Hell I even found my self in Tescos the other day looking for rabbity treats for him redface
Now when he see's me he bounces round in happiness I came back tonight after a long shift (Glasgow and back) and even PK pointed out that he was begging for my attention biggrin
Hijack>>>>>>>>>>
You were in Glasgow and you didn't tell me??
Bad Sheddy!
<<<<<<<Hijack over
so sorry to hear that abs, when that happened to my wee cat it was v hard, he was like my wee baby brother :-(
hugs, maz xx
lol
I'm laughing cos i came on here to write the exact same story as den has, I just didn't realise he had posted! and yes, lil sis STILL refuses to talk about it, she does the old 'fingers in ears, la la la' trick any time we bring it up!
Another pretty bad one was leaving my phone lying around at a party, which some 'mate' decided to text all the important people, eg mum, dad, granny etc .... I got a text the next day from my dad saying,
'no, I certainly will not DO that to you, and we need to have a serious chat...'
oh dear !! maz xx
Quote by mazandden
very embarrasing moment when me and maz were staying at her sisters house. We were sleeping in the living room and had came home before her sister. we were indulging in a little bit of role play that involved me being not very nice to maz!!! We were so caught up in it we didnt even notice her sister had came home and opened the living room door, only to run back out in disgust and fear probably.
she told maz the following day that she had walked in, and when you bring it up even now in a joky way she refuses to speak about it!! had to make sure maz informed her it was just roleplay, and that i am not the worst most evil boyfriend in the world!!!!!
The Shame!!!!!!!!! redface
well in that case gorgeous i will forgive you ! How exactly you warming it up?
he wasnt the last poster, you are meant to flirt with me you naughty girl!!!
very embarrasing moment when me and maz were staying at her sisters house. We were sleeping in the living room and had came home before her sister. we were indulging in a little bit of role play that involved me being not very nice to maz!!! We were so caught up in it we didnt even notice her sister had came home and opened the living room door, only to run back out in disgust and fear probably.
she told maz the following day that she had walked in, and when you bring it up even now in a joky way she refuses to speak about it!! had to make sure maz informed her it was just roleplay, and that i am not the worst most evil boyfriend in the world!!!!!
The Shame!!!!!!!!! redface
Could a female please reply to that post, i want to flirt but maz is away out, and im not really into flirting with guys, even if he is quite hot, ahem.
Wow! Hx, that avatar is hot hot HOT!!!!!!!
But it looks like you might need a hand untying it, why don't I cum on over and give you helping hand.......................
m xxxx
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on another swinging site there is a kind of feedback system, is there no way that this could be looked at ?
of course i think it would be better if a mod or op was appointed to look at he feedbacks and poss discuss issues with people.
i think feedback would be good for the site.

think it has been looked at several times hun! search button is your friend............
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I think there are a couple of issues here.
1. The locked room is called the forum room, which gives the impression that we're being elitist (however you spell it) which I personally don't think we are. Maybe calling it something else may solve this problem?
2. Having an open room that we feel comfortable going on cam where we're not going to get the numpty 'get your tits out' brigade is ging to be hard to run, might I suggest implying in the name that there's nothing to see and folks are just there to socialise, "No Action, Just Chat" maybe - or something along those lines.
3. There seems to be the feeling that there is a divide between the forum users and the chat room users. I use another room in the chat room, where I've spent some time getting to know people and the regulars are a great bunch, but if I were to go into another room, not knowing anyone, it would seem cliquey - you just have to spend the time to get to know people. The same can be said of the forum. There are idiots, but they are evenly spread over the site biggrin The more people say there is a divide the more likely on will be to grow - a bit of patience and tolerance for the newbie or cross-over in both camps maybe?
4. This is supposed TO BE FUN biggrin
Just my tuppenceworth
H.x
:thumbup: well said hun, just what we think!
i feel comfy in that room, den is happy to chat in the scots room, which feels a bit 'cliquey' to me, and the forum room feels a bit 'cliquey' to him .
It's just as if you went up to a group of people chatting in a pub, you wouldn't settle in to chat staright away and if it was a new group of friends you yourself to, it would take time to get into the swing of things and pick up on 'in jokes' etc, i think a lot of the rooms in chat all have cliques and it isn't just a forum thing!
why is bedford soooo far away from me?!
sssshhhhhhhh!! don't tell den i said that :twisted:
well, didn't think my chances were too high anyway so was over the moon about the final 10 part!
there's always pizza hut......................
oops, what if they catch you now?!
Yes a lot of people come here just to chat, perhaps they used to swing in the past but have stayed for the friends and community.....................

again, prehaps they're having a gang bang -athon every week without your knowledge..... lol only kidding :;-)
ach well, i just found out i didn't get the job i went for the other day- came in the top ten in interview, but it was down to the sheer numbers of applicants- 256 applicants and 64 interviewed.
I'm putting it down to me not doing anything wrong, but someone else just being that bit better than me!
Well, i'm trying to tell myslef that one lol
I don't think it could be down to your weight, more just that someone else had that little extra something
Sometimes the more knock-backs you get, the harder it is to stay positive, but unfortunately staying positive is the one thing you need to do!
Have you chatted to a careers advisor etc?
M xx
(Mod feel free to lock this - not trying to open a can of worms again, just making a suggestion)
Why don't we open a passworded room ( along the lines of the posh shed or lizard lounge like it used to be) for the group of friends who like to chat in the comfort of a passworded room, and a separate forum room to introduce unfamiliar chat users to the forum.
I think most people who would use the passworded room would still use other chat and it was save any arguments over cliques and groups etc.
Mwah!
maz xx
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I find that it can be fabulous foreplay, especially when you can call your lover at work and they can't answer you, then you go on to tell them what you have planned or what is expected of them! biggrin

Yes I know someone who does that to me. I'm afraid I spend to much time thinking of cryptic answers to listen to hard.
that one wasn't very cryptic was it though?!
lol
buzzing etc - the ones before were harder to work out hun - your standards are slipping!
hehheheeh :P
Exactly!!! mines black, no sugar- get to it boy!!!!!
Hurry up , i can feel my hair turning grey as I wait..........
lol
Quote by mazandden
Guys!!!!! :shock:
Again! For the final time!
We don't have any problems being a young couple, we have no problems meeting other couples and have never found our age an issue! (and as we said, we do have an age bracket as such for couples we like to meet)
We are comfortable and at ease with our swinging and we've said that - it's not what the post was about!!!
We simply came across another young couple in the chat room who were getting hassled as someone said they couldn't be 'real' swingers because they were too young to 'need' to be doing anything like that, which kinda shocked us as it was never something that had ever crossed our minds before.!
Thats alls!!!!
phew!

Everyones advice is fabby and exactly what we already think! I think i should have posted a tad more clearly in the first question!
Guys!!!!! :shock:
Again! For the final time!
We don't have any problems being a young couple, we have no problems meeting other couples and have never found our age an issue!
We are comfortable and at ease with our swinging and we've said that - it's not what the post was about!!!
We simply came across another young in the chat room who were getting hassled as someone said they couldn't be swingers as they were too young to be swingers!
Thats alls!!!!
phew!
:thumbup: I knew it was just a bit of banter in your last one!
Think some wires got crossed along the way!
Anyhoo, fraid we can't help on the B&B front as I don't even know where aylsbury is, but I'm sure someone will be helpful today!
Enjoy!
xx
OK Ok OK!!!!
Just to clarify- we weren't worried about anything at all to do with our age or other peoples, just wanted to know everyones thoughts!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
redface biggrin