We quite agree PL!!!!! Whilst there probably are people out there who are swinging 'cos the spark is lost from their relationship, I'm sure that's not the case for the majority.
We just found it really strange when a poor young couple were getting a touch of hassle as noone seemed to believe that such a young couple would be interested in swinging, therfor there must be some other reason (so yes the preson arguing with them was an arsehole methinks!) When we stuck up for them, it turned out it was a pretty common opinion in the chat room at the time!
Deecee- It's never been something we've come across until the other day in chat, and it's never been directed at us - we're having plenty of fun and always will have- you sexy boy!!!! :twisted:
Why don't you send them my way.....
I'll happily check out sizes etc...................................
:twisted:
size of pk's 'assests' that is!
Just wondering what everyones thoughts are on this as recently we have noticed some people getting a bit of hassle in the chat rooms for being 'too young'...
One comment we noticed was 'why would someone your age NEED to swing'
We're a youngish couple, 28 and 23, and we do find a lot of people are put off by that.
For us, its definately not a question of needing to swing, but we thought perhaps some older couples see it as something you need to do because your sex life is drying up having been with someone for so long.
We definately don't need to, as we have a fantastic sex life without swinging, we WANT to swing becasue we want to share it with everyone else, and have an even better time at that!
We also get the impression that some older couples, well particularly the girls, are suggesting that they would feel more uncomfortable in themselves with a younger couple (perhaps they think younger automatically = more attractive?)
I reckon that neither of these reasons are justified, I'm sure that a lot of couples are not swinging because they can't get what they want from each other any more, but because they are having a fantastic time with each other, so therefor age shouldn't be such an issue and It certainly shouldn't be the case that a younger couple would be more attratctive than an older coule either!
So younger swingers, have you noticed anything like this?
And the more mature, what do you think???
maz xxxxxxx
awww, we would have loved to go, but we're in Paris that weekend! :cry:
Sign us up for the next one though!!!
M&D xx
We only just saw this post as we havn't been online due to both laptops not wanting to play anymore!!!
Hope you had a great day!
Chat soon we hope!
kisses, M&D xxxxxxxxxxx
Well, just be careful folks, we signed up to swing in scotland, (different to the one you are talking about) and you had to send in pics and info about which sites you belonged to, in order to join and get info on parties - the 'site' has since dissapeared, along with our pics, and no parties to be had!
You live n learn eh?! So just be careful and don't be as stupid as us, they were posting as the 'belle baise/fever of the north'..........
Grrrr!
(we don;t get called the drunken numpties for nothing, eh?!)
M xx
Welcome back splendid!
Unfortunately we didn't miss you, cos Den's lap top also buggered up and has been sent to france, and I only just worked out how to get the net linked up on my desk top, ,y lap top STILL being buggered too! humph!
I have had severe withdrawl symptoms and this is my first POST in AGES!!!
MAZ XX
Good luck and good post hun!!! :thumbup:
We're late too, but happy bday honey! hope you had a good one! xoxoxoxo
nope, that's not it, why is my memory so bad?!
When den gets back he'll remind me! x
supraspinatus snowball i think, - off to check, there is definately one with supraspinatus in it!
(supraspinatus is one of your rotator cuff muscles in your shoulder!)