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mr__powers1
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 56
Straight Female, 57
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Quote by kentswingers777
I am still not entirely sure how we came to be involved in the Afghanistan thing.

You will never make a history teacher!
Sometimes I think you say the things you do purely for effect.loon :grin:
Care to give us a history lesson?dunno
Quote by Smooth2
It is ridiculous. They would not pay that much in the States, there would be riots probably! I believe that the price of petrol is set by the individual filling stations for the small businesses and pegged at a level that they need in terms of the amount they sell to survive. The chains usually have better sites and therefore a higher sales volume so can sell it cheaper. Like everything else the best way is to vote with your fuel tank and get it at the best price.
Smooth2

They only pay about 40p a litre in America, only its sold in gallons out there.
Quote by Kaznkev
i hadnt considered it a risk

Yet has been stated already, you was quick enough to slag off the speeders even though you do not drive, and to give analogies of possible children being killed by speeders.
How you can consider a practice that someone does to distract other drivers not a risk to that driver and other road users, baffles me coming from someone who is quick to judge others.
IF you think about the possible risks involved, it is very obvious to anyone that it would indeed be considered a risk with possible dire consequences attatched.
Quote by Kaznkev
in the speeding thread.... " show that at their funerals ".

There are other comments you made in that thread that seem to show you as whiter than white, and yet when it suits you you say " i hadnt considered it a risk ".
Maybe those same others also did the same then? Merely an observation as to condon one and not find the other a risk, is pretty laughable to be honest.
i have never claimed to be whiter than white,i do not drive,a close friend lost a family member to a speeding driver,so i have informed myself of the danger of speeding,and the fact that most speeders believe they are doing no harm.
i am an exhibitionist,i like displaying my body and had been invited to join someone.Untill this thread the dangers had never been pointed out to me.So i have learnt.
It seems the forum would be a much better place is people came with an attitude where by they read what people said rather than pursuing personal agendas.
Hang on, are you actually pretending to be naive about this, are you saying you never realised the dangers of flashing to passing drivers until you read this thread?
FFS let it go will you, this is a question you could have taken to PM but hey why choose the simple solution.
Awayman I think your the bollocks, your an inspiration to me, Kent has nothing on you. Hugs and kisses.
Quote by awayman
An interesting debate on newsnight last night set me thinking.
It is a small c conservative view of history but for me it would be the signing of the Magna Carta.
Putting into writing the basic liberties of free men in England was revolutionary,enshrining the right to trial,to belongings and curtailing the absolute power of the monarch was centuries ahead of most European countries.

Fab text of the actual document here.
The only arguement i have against the MC is that without it we would have probably had a revolution,but then you cant have everything. lol
On newsnight there were arguements for the abolition of slavery and the 1904 Act limiting the power of the Lords.
Cameron argued for 1940,(in India,nice one Dave ):dry:
What would you argue for?

Withdrawal of the Romans in the early fifth century - without their money the Saxons could no longer be paid and the decline and pillge of Britain at the hands of the mercenaries became almost inevitable, even as the British ruling class tired to use their remaining resources to buy the Saxons off.
I bet your a real hoot at dinner parties!:sleeping:
Quote by Freckledbird
I'd find it hard to define one event as the most important.
However, if I chose one, I'd spell it correctly wink

:laughabove:
Quote by BIoke
Inspired by the 'leggings' thread wink
It got me thinking and as I've put on 3/4 stone since Christmas and my jeans and shirts are all tight I know there's stuff I just can't/shouldn't wear right now without looking like I'm about to burst out!
So in your opinion what should never be worn by who or what would you never wear?
I'll start:
- men in thongs or posing pouches (think Peter Stringfellow)
- men in crop tops
- leather fashion trousers on almost anyone (except on motorbikes and they ain't fashion ones!)
- men with pierced belly-buttons
If anyone wears or has any of the above, then good on ya - as I say, just my opinion :wink:

Is that 3 to 4 stone or 3 quarters of a stone...who ate all the pies!!
And men with pieced belly buttons, now that is so wrong!!
Quote by Kaznkev
not big and not clever.
must try harder to troll this barely reaches brucie at his worst.

Pot kettle black, I suggest you look at one all two of your own threads before you label people that...
If you were expecting people to agree with your comments, then what is the point of having minds of our own...when people start threads 50% of the time it will go off in another direction, when the thread "starter" gets arsey and defensive...it then goes in another direction.
Quote by Islandcpl1
Not defensive at all. The topic of this thread is Ridiculous observations.

Well in that case... my first ridiculous observation is that you're on the take under the pretense of doing something for other people when in actual fact you're making a profit and most likely having sex into the bargain and from my point of view that goes against everything that swinging is about.
My other ridiculous observation is that you conveniently ignored my question about single females so I can only assume they go free. wink
To your first accusation, we don't make a profit. To your second, please read our profile which explains why we started having parties. To your second accusation it is a rare occassion that myself or Val plays at our parties as we are to busy making sure that our guests/freinds are ok. As to your point of view, you are welcome to it. However I would ask if you had ever been to a club? To your last observation single ladies are free.
Now that I have answered your accusations can we please get back to the topic of the thread?
They were not accusations... they were my observationswhich is the topic of the thread you started, or are you pissed off because it's not going in the direction you hoped for? lol
They're your parties and your guests have a choice. It wouldn't be my choice to come to a party in someone's house and have to pay for that. None of my friends have ever asked me to pay to attend a party in their house to cover their overheads, I haven't ever actually heard of something so ridiculous. :lol: I have been to a club... they are commercial industries and that was my choice to go along. Having a party in your home, in my view, should not be a commercial event. However, your house, your party, your choice.
As you say though, that's just my opinion, to which I'm entitled. I'm never likely to go to a house party where there is a charge for entrance! My choice. :mrgreen:
And as for your comments regarding people blowing smoke up my arse... I find that offensive. I am entitled to comment on any topic on the forums as a member here just like you. My position here is a Chat Op, I deal with chat related issues. If you have a problem with me commenting in your thread then feel free to take it up with Admin.
Yet again another topic ruined by those who seem to be itent on ruining genuine topic
Really, so whats ridiculous about asking for a bit of porn to watch, or a chillout area away from the all the naked people playing? think about it...not ridiculous comments just valid feedback.
Quote by Islandcpl1
Dear brucie ,,,,, I'm leavin it there just to anoy you
Dirty ,,,,,, I had this out with a mod who when I tried to advertise our parties wanted to know cost and expenditures etc. Suffice it to say I'm giving the same answer here, we cover our costs.
Powers ,,,,,,, No where did you see me critisise anyone for any comment made to me re the subject of this thread. Nor did you read me state that they did not have the right to comment. And, what makes you think that we do not take note of any comment and try and improve our parties?
Flower411,,,,, In my opinion the naked body does not automaticaly equait to sex and is not the topic of this thread.
Kentswingers777,,,,,, You are of course welcome to your opinion but can you constructivley add to this thread,, re the topic?
Steve and a few others interested in spelling and grammer, perhaps you should open a thread of your own?

Remind me of what the title of the thread is again, are you not ridiculing these people (paying customers) in a thread you started, how do you know these people (paying customers) don't read the forums, I'd be pretty pissed off if i was one of them. It certainly isn't good advertising for your parties!
Totally agree with all of Dirtygirl's last comments...cake and eat it spring to mind!
Again, if you have nothing to add constructivley to a topic why say anything at all? I can only assume that you get satisaction from pontificating and ruining other people genuine topics. If you insist on blown smoke up Dirtygirls ass please do it somewhere else
Seems i've touched a nerve, your suppose to host parties, and cater for people's needs, its what i would expect if i'd just paid, but instead you've ridiculed comments and remarks given to you by your paying customers. You stated that you started these parties because you had been to, too many seedy clubs(as stated in your profile)...would you mind giving us your definition of "seedy"?
Quote by Islandcpl1
Not defensive at all. The topic of this thread is Ridiculous observations.

Well in that case... my first ridiculous observation is that you're on the take under the pretense of doing something for other people when in actual fact you're making a profit and most likely having sex into the bargain and from my point of view that goes against everything that swinging is about.
My other ridiculous observation is that you conveniently ignored my question about single females so I can only assume they go free. wink
To your first accusation, we don't make a profit. To your second, please read our profile which explains why we started having parties. To your second accusation it is a rare occassion that myself or Val plays at our parties as we are to busy making sure that our guests/freinds are ok. As to your point of view, you are welcome to it. However I would ask if you had ever been to a club? To your last observation single ladies are free.
Now that I have answered your accusations can we please get back to the topic of the thread?
Do you charge your friends?
Quote by Islandcpl1
Dear brucie ,,,,, I'm leavin it there just to anoy you
Dirty ,,,,,, I had this out with a mod who when I tried to advertise our parties wanted to know cost and expenditures etc. Suffice it to say I'm giving the same answer here, we cover our costs.
Powers ,,,,,,, No where did you see me critisise anyone for any comment made to me re the subject of this thread. Nor did you read me state that they did not have the right to comment. And, what makes you think that we do not take note of any comment and try and improve our parties?
Flower411,,,,, In my opinion the naked body does not automaticaly equait to sex and is not the topic of this thread.
Kentswingers777,,,,,, You are of course welcome to your opinion but can you constructivley add to this thread,, re the topic?
Steve and a few others interested in spelling and grammer, perhaps you should open a thread of your own?

Remind me of what the title of the thread is again, are you not ridiculing these people (paying customers) in a thread you started, how do you know these people (paying customers) don't read the forums, I'd be pretty pissed off if i was one of them. It certainly isn't good advertising for your parties!
Totally agree with all of Dirtygirl's last comments...cake and eat it spring to mind!
Quote by Islandcpl1
We have been throwing regular house parties for over 2 years now and have had some pretty good feedback, but one or two people have made some very startling observations. For instance one couple wrote back to us saying that "there were far too many naked people at your party". While another couple commented that "you can't have a swingers party without showing porn". Now I know we can’t please all of the people all of the time but these comments strike me as verging on the ridiculous.
I’m wondering how many other ridiculous comments or observations people have seen or heard

Do you charge for your parties?
Yes we do charge but only enough to cover our overheads.
The fact that you charge, does give people a right to make observations and complaints, it would be in your interest to take that feedback and try and figure out what you could do to improve the parties you host, rather than critisize the remarks given to you...I'm curious how much you charge, and what overheads?? i assume its in your own home, your not getting other people to pay your mortgage are you?
Quote by Islandcpl1
We have been throwing regular house parties for over 2 years now and have had some pretty good feedback, but one or two people have made some very startling observations. For instance one couple wrote back to us saying that "there were far too many naked people at your party". While another couple commented that "you can't have a swingers party without showing porn". Now I know we can’t please all of the people all of the time but these comments strike me as verging on the ridiculous.
I’m wondering how many other ridiculous comments or observations people have seen or heard

Do you charge for your parties?
Quote by awayman
You really need to learn to be a bit more thick skinned on here, you also ( unlike you )missed my other religious comment regarding Jesus and one of the things he said on the cross ( allegedly ).

"Hey...i can see my house from up here!"
A joke from catholic primary school,how trangressive :dry:
I preferred 'Mother, stop looking up my toga...'
:doh: Being funny..... not exactly your strongest point is it?
Quote by kentswingers777
You really need to learn to be a bit more thick skinned on here, you also ( unlike you )missed my other religious comment regarding Jesus and one of the things he said on the cross ( allegedly ).

"Hey...i can see my house from up here!"
Quote by kentswingers777
Instead of showing compassion for a man who is a murderer, a thug and a drug dealer, show a bit of compassion for the addicts he sold his drugs too, or the man he shot dead in cold blood. Also whilst we are at it a fecking lot of compassion for the police officer who was blinded and will never see his kids grow up.
Compassion for Moat...save it for the people that really matter in all of this, and he is certainly not one of them.
And people ask why so many people left tributes on a Facebook page for him loon

I'm sorry, but those words coming from you...don't quote me but i'm sure you've said drug addicts are a waste of space at some point of another, now you've got yourself saying they're victims! rotflmao
Quote by gagmaster
christ i now know what you girls go through when giving facials . just had a eye test where they blow air into your eyes. i knew the puff of air was comming and each time i pulled my head away and pulled a face just like you girls,so iam now a modern guy in touch with my Feminie side.. dont you think.. ps im off to abfabs tonight going to camp in the dark room with a chip pan full of cold used cooking guessing they wont let me in with it so il have to chuck it over the wall and hope that no female is lying there would nt want her cover in it , drinking it is another matter hope you have a good night on this site .. and im now thinking of giving a sex tip each day 4 a week .to help you couples improve you sex lives..let me know what you think..lots of love to the girls and men hugs to to guys..your loyal GAGMASTER ..XXX

Note to self...Missus and me ,not to do AbFabs on Fridays anymore!
Quote by kentswingers777
As a thought....stop worrying about this tosser and concentrate on his ex girlfriend who was shot in the stomach and nearly died.
Think about the dead new boyfriend, killed for nothing and think about an innocent Police officer also shot and seriously injured.
Don't waste your energy thinking about the man whose only decent thing was to blow his own head off, instead of facing punishment. Coward and a killer..

But will you be just as quick to judge them if the media has dirt on them?
There are some people on here, who should be fucking ashamed of themselves, did any of you know this man, its all quite easy to say he was a nutter, he got what was coming to him, saved the taxpayer a few quid...you have judged him by what you have read in the gutter press...even the Sun was running a fucking picture of him aged two months "even at two months he had clenched fists" FFS...aswell a small penis sideline.
If he or the taxi driver could go out on a killing spree then anyone of us is capable...i'll be listening out next time for nutjob printer goes on killing spree in Bexleyheath or bus driver flips, kills passengers and himself because passenger didn't have correct change!
Quote by Bluefish2009
Is racisim another word for opinion?

Only to a racist.
So to have an opinion is racist now?banghead
Do you really believe that left wing tosh?
Come on......do you really? If so then there are a fecking LARGE ammount of racists out there, oh and btw....from BOTH sides not just whites.
I think the word is often overused and used by some groups as a form of attack rather than deffence, not all are like that but some are.
I can remember watching a "police stop" style program on TV. where they were using PNC/ANPR technology (numberplate recognition) to detect drivers with no tax, and insurance. Sorry I can not remember where in the country they were but it was a Large City.
The Police had several people pulled into a lay-by who had been identified by the computer as driving without insurance or tax. A coloured lady who was pushing a pushchair past suddenly started shouting at the police for being racist's as all the person's who had been pulled in were not white skinned. She went on so much she was almost arrested her self.
Of coarse the police could not be held responsible for who they had pulled in, as that was down to the computer, and the driver's who happened to be using that road on that particular day.
I'm usually accused of being a racist daily at work in one way or the other, its a bit of the norm now as i now the only reason black and asian "clients" do this, is to scare me into saying yes to their demands. I just make a log of it every time it happens, just to cover my own arse.
Quote by Dave__Notts

add the £30`000+ per year to keep this man in prison for the next 25 years

I don't know where you get your figures from but that is vastly underestimated Rob.
The stats that can be found from googling just gives the basic cost but there are a lot of unreported costs that are not accounted for when looking at this type of criminal.
An example I can give here is if the prisoner leaves the cell at any point, due to his prisoner category, he will have to have a five man escort. This adds greatly to the cost rather than just his food, board, heating, lighting, etc.
I would say that you need to have £30,000+++++++++++++++++ to be more accurate.
Anyway, it would have cost a lot of money.
Dave_Notts
No he wouldn't, well not for leaving his cell...if you mean being escorted out of the prison for a hospital appointment, someone as high profile as Moats would have a 3 officer and a senior officer escort,at the most. But over time that would drop down to a two man escort as his catergory changes.
Quote by brucie
Hi
Me and my girlfriend have been together for 6 years, and I would really like to experiment with swinging, but I don't think she is that keen. I have raised the issue once but it just got forgotten about.
I really wanted to find out from the female side of a couple how they got into it and if they were the same at the start? and if you quite a highly sexed person like my girlfriend is do you think she would like it?
Many Thanks

you can put me in touch with her, ill bring her round to our way of thinking if you like?
Oh great!...scar her for life!
Quote by goodtimes4all
My wife wants to try the orange in the mouth thing, and the strangulation, we know it can be dangerous, anyone got some advice, like do it it's great, don't do it, how to do it the best way,

you've answered your own question!
Quote by skanders
but on the other site im getting winks and nice comments about the way i look etc and my profile and im using the same pictures lol so wtf.

yeah, yeah....and how long will that last, and how long will it be before you start slagging that site off, about how shit it is?
You've been on this so called site 5 mins, and you going off on one, thats its the best thing since sliced bread...but why are you still here?
Quote by skanders
exactly you go elsewhere u get meets. Here it doesnt seem to happen theres not a lot of interest anymore.

Joined the site 6 years ago went to a munch about 2 months after. The munch had about 80 attendees. 6 years later we are hosting out own, its still 7 weeks to the munch date and we already have 85 people signed up. There is a mix of older and newer members on the list but more towards the newer younger members. Been quite surprised to be honest. So seems people are still signing up and meeting up, why you are not getting their attention I dont know. Seems getting no meets from here has been a constant for you so you probably are best of somewhere else if thats what works for you.
dont know im getting the views but nothing further than that.
Exactly, they look, they don't like, they move on...simples!
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