Personally I wasn`t aware there were free memebers when I first joined and it wouldn`t of changed my mind one bit.
I think whatever happened before I joined had no relation to what I wanted from the site at the time.
I joined a dance class, gym ,swimming baths etc and didn`t ask for a history, I don`t think its relevant.
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mrs__bmw
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 58
Straight Male, 64
UK
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When I first joined as a paying memeber I didn`t throw a wobbly when I found out that there were free members, if they had free membership in legacy then fair play to them, I still paid my subs and even had extras.
The way I look at it is that this is a "leisure activity" it is not vital so like others have said you pay your money and you take your choice, I was rather lucky and inherited (so to speak) a free profile from my partner, however I would still of continued paying if this hadn`t happened.
Theres another thread running about the cost of clubs, and lets face it you probably pay a membership fee for most clubs, plus a fee on the night, taxi, baby sitter, hotel room, drinks, new outfit etc, all for a few hours of fun once or twice a month if you`re lucky, for much less you can be on here 24/7 365 days of the year if you wanted to and for less than you`d spend on a night out.
People do leave but most come back, what does that tell you?
The way I look at it is that this is a "leisure activity" it is not vital so like others have said you pay your money and you take your choice, I was rather lucky and inherited (so to speak) a free profile from my partner, however I would still of continued paying if this hadn`t happened.
Theres another thread running about the cost of clubs, and lets face it you probably pay a membership fee for most clubs, plus a fee on the night, taxi, baby sitter, hotel room, drinks, new outfit etc, all for a few hours of fun once or twice a month if you`re lucky, for much less you can be on here 24/7 365 days of the year if you wanted to and for less than you`d spend on a night out.
People do leave but most come back, what does that tell you?
Trust your instincts and if you really don`t want to meet them then don`t.
Know what your boundaries are and push them if it feels right and stick to them if it doesn`t.
Travel for the right people, its worth it.
And above all DONT GET TOO CARRIED AWAY.
And a personal note to me: you know why you call him your number 1, he always has been and always will be, let him know a bit sooner so you can be his a little bit longer.
Know what your boundaries are and push them if it feels right and stick to them if it doesn`t.
Travel for the right people, its worth it.
And above all DONT GET TOO CARRIED AWAY.
And a personal note to me: you know why you call him your number 1, he always has been and always will be, let him know a bit sooner so you can be his a little bit longer.
We have pics of the both of us in various positions, we`re not camera shy and like to exhibit.
I think you get more pics of ladies on profiles coz ladies dress up, nice lingerie etc, men dont really do this, so i suppose its nicer to look at the ladies, plus the fact it probably shows you have actually got a lady.
By the way I like strong thighs but then I prefer the Brian Moore type
I think you get more pics of ladies on profiles coz ladies dress up, nice lingerie etc, men dont really do this, so i suppose its nicer to look at the ladies, plus the fact it probably shows you have actually got a lady.
By the way I like strong thighs but then I prefer the Brian Moore type
I don`t know myself half the time, how`s anyone else expected to :confused:
Generally I`m a very upbeat person, like a giggle in the chat room and the people we have met at socials etc seem to think I`m ok.
As for the forum I only pop in now and again and leave my twopennerth on the side so I`m not sure many could gauge my personality from that
Generally I`m a very upbeat person, like a giggle in the chat room and the people we have met at socials etc seem to think I`m ok.
As for the forum I only pop in now and again and leave my twopennerth on the side so I`m not sure many could gauge my personality from that
All of them are annoying 
I`ve just seen the new Iceland one, some can-can thing with Jason Wotshisface in it, blimey I hope they paid him well :eeek:
Not to mention all those black and white over dramatic perfume ads
Where`s the Grinch when you need him, can someone please pass the humbugs :taz:
I`ve just seen the new Iceland one, some can-can thing with Jason Wotshisface in it, blimey I hope they paid him well :eeek:
Not to mention all those black and white over dramatic perfume ads
Where`s the Grinch when you need him, can someone please pass the humbugs :taz:
Quote by Kaznkev
i have stopped posting as much cos everything seemed to turn personal,it got very boring.
And thats a damned shame Kaz
Its supposed to be a forum for everyone wether we like what they say or not, just seems sometimes people can think they are the only ones that are right to the cost of others.
I still get nervous when we meet new people and we don`t even swap so it should be a no pressure meet, not having to worry about will I like him, will he like her, how will it all go etc, but for some reason the nerves still kick in til we are there sitting comfortably and having a bit of a laugh.
Like the other posters suggest maybe you are worrying about your partner worrying, and at the end of the day neither of you should be doing anything you don`t want to or feel uncomfortable with, I`m sure if your partner really felt that way she would of said by now.
BMW arranges most of our meets too because he has a schedule which takes him away quite a bit, but if I ever say no I don`t want to meet for whatever reason he takes it at that.
Like the other posters suggest maybe you are worrying about your partner worrying, and at the end of the day neither of you should be doing anything you don`t want to or feel uncomfortable with, I`m sure if your partner really felt that way she would of said by now.
BMW arranges most of our meets too because he has a schedule which takes him away quite a bit, but if I ever say no I don`t want to meet for whatever reason he takes it at that.
The bottom line, feeding a family of 4 on £30 a week, its amazing how much you can get out of one chicken or a pack of economy burgers and half a dozen eggs.
My ultimate low is too hard to talk about and even after 2 years I still feel the loss.
I have to admit tho that I`m not really a material person, my old car gets us from A to B, I`m not a gadget person, dont even own a tv so I`m not worried about keeping up with the Jonses and their latest 50in hd thingy telly, my comp is second hand from my brother, works ok.
Love makes my world go round and raises me up to the sky
My ultimate low is too hard to talk about and even after 2 years I still feel the loss.
I have to admit tho that I`m not really a material person, my old car gets us from A to B, I`m not a gadget person, dont even own a tv so I`m not worried about keeping up with the Jonses and their latest 50in hd thingy telly, my comp is second hand from my brother, works ok.
Love makes my world go round and raises me up to the sky
Pokes her nose in say " oh ffs change the record" and leaves :doh:
Changes her mind and comes back to say
" I might be a fat woman but I make lots of love with someone who loves me very much unlike you who says in your profile you`ve not been near a woman for 3 years, and you describe yourself as considerate, is that just to skinny women or are you considerate to all peoples feelings?"
I think you`ve done a bang up job of showing a little of your personality for all to see
Well done, good luck with the swinging :huh:
Changes her mind and comes back to say
" I might be a fat woman but I make lots of love with someone who loves me very much unlike you who says in your profile you`ve not been near a woman for 3 years, and you describe yourself as considerate, is that just to skinny women or are you considerate to all peoples feelings?"
I think you`ve done a bang up job of showing a little of your personality for all to see
Well done, good luck with the swinging :huh:
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