Quote by bluexxx
.... in fact I haven't even thought about it for days...
so how comes you've posed this thread :shock:
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Quote by treasurechest
These secret married men are also probably less than sexually successful compared to the genuine single guys, this may be due to the fact that they cant socialise to the same extent as the rest of the SH community because its often difficult to justify their absence from wifey and the home or even fear of recognition at local social events.
A very good point, as always
, made by Judy there, i personally feel thats the biggest turn off of a married and cheating guy (sorry to those who don't like the word cheating but really can't think of another one) all they seem to want is a quick shag at yours and on their merry way, when i meet a guy i like to make night of it, go for a drink, maybe to a club, have a laugh and a chat, i feel it makes the whole sex experience with someone better if you know them enough to really like them, but all they seem to want is a quick meet while the wifes at work or in their lunch break 
to me thats not swinging its just sex and i can get a 1 on 1 with a guy anywhere you don't need to come on here for that 
Oh how different our experiences are!!
I have always found that it is the married men who take an interest in me as a person and the single guys that just want a quick shag. Alos its the married ones that remember that I too am married and dont get over involved
well i think it shands to reason not everyone is the same, but i doubt many married men could spend a night with you (by that i don't mean the lovely, sleeping over type night just a full night out), even when you go to clubs you can tell who are the married ones cause at 11pm theres a mad rush of single guys running for the door
i have just found that all the guys who have contacted me looking for a couple of hours in the day time type of meets tend to be the married ones. Suppose it depends what your looking for being married yourself maybe thats all you are after, not knowing you i really don't know. I think this must be a very sad day for Mark, handing over something that he has taken so long to build to the hands of people who...well could do anything to it really.
Lets just hope they keep to their words and don't change it to much, all the effort and hard work Mark has put into the site works well for us all.
I wish you well and understand fully that your spare time is best spent with your family i think all of us would have done the same
Lets just hope they keep to their words and don't change it to much, all the effort and hard work Mark has put into the site works well for us all.
I wish you well and understand fully that your spare time is best spent with your family i think all of us would have done the same
Quote by da69ve
every bit of humour seemed to be at the expense of some minority group
but isn't that the whole point of little britain?
Exactly!........everyone is part of a minority....if they started having a dig at swingers i would laugh about it as well.
I'm the only swinger in the village!!
i think we shiould send in the suggestion, who do i post it too?
Quote by JudyTV
These secret married men are also probably less than sexually successful compared to the genuine single guys, this may be due to the fact that they cant socialise to the same extent as the rest of the SH community because its often difficult to justify their absence from wifey and the home or even fear of recognition at local social events.
A very good point, as always
, made by Judy there, i personally feel thats the biggest turn off of a married and cheating guy (sorry to those who don't like the word cheating but really can't think of another one) all they seem to want is a quick shag at yours and on their merry way, when i meet a guy i like to make night of it, go for a drink, maybe to a club, have a laugh and a chat, i feel it makes the whole sex experience with someone better if you know them enough to really like them, but all they seem to want is a quick meet while the wifes at work or in their lunch break to me thats not swinging its just sex and i can get a 1 on 1 with a guy anywhere you don't need to come on here for that Quote by goodporking
why can't a guy in a relationship want more?
Why would any guy want more ?? - silly question if you ask me
it wasn't really a question it was more a statment.
he suggested single guy could 'want more' so i was just pointing out so could married one, sorry you find my 'question's' so silly :shock:
Quote by Alexandra
One thing, I do wish we could stop using the phrase cheating on here though as it is such an emotive word.
so what should we call it then? sorry i just call a spade a spade, dressing it up in fancy words don't make it not cheating
i'm not using the word in a bad way, what they do is upto them but they are cheating so what other word can you use? Gotta dip my toe in here NN.
I would summise that you swing? Correct? This is SH after all. At what point does swinging become cheating or, for that matter, cheating become swinging? A lot of guys on here are ' cheating' on their respective partner. That doesn't necesarily mean that they are unhappy or not getting enough at 'home', I can hardly keep up with 'she who must be obeyed' but I still get so much excitement out of meeting people through this site its untrue. I could start on the old 'man not monogomous gene' vs 'woman is monogomous gene' but won't I don't want to end up dead! (One day I will of course and then I might not be in the real world anymore)
I think this guy probably just wants some quick and easy sex and is frustrated that his first post wasn't answered within a nanosecond by 1000's of women throwing their knicks at him. Real world , we are all in the real world! There might be a 'not real' world but I'm sure I'm not ready to go there just yet.
Interesting post and even more interesting replies.
Oh welcome to SH newb
well i really don't want to get into the whole cheating thing but just to quickly answer your question, if you found out your partner was cheating on you how would you feel? if she stood there and told you she loved you and was happy with you even tho she advertised for sex on the internet and met others behind your back would you believe and be happy with that? i very much doubt it, i would imagine you would feel cheated and hurt, so if someone can go out and do such a thing knowing how hurt their partner would be if they found out how can they possabily care about them? ok i know we are all diffarent, and to be honest i have got to the point now where i just dan't care what others are doing, but thats just how i see it.
As for the whole swinging and cheating thing, i meet other for sex but my hubby always knows, as does he meet other, so to me theres no harm done there, everything is out in the open and i think thats the real diffarence.
but live and let live i have only said that as you asked
Quote by Phoenix
it wasn't really a question it was more a statment.
he suggested single guy could 'want more' so i was just pointing out so could married one, sorry you find my 'question's' so silly :shock:
I don't find your questions silly (creep, creep, crawl, crawl, beg, beg)
A likewise statement from me, if a red blooded man (heterosexual, bi, or whatever) is faced with someone offering sex, chances are he will take it, single, married, attached or not.
The difference is a married/attached man may not go activeley looking for it.
no need to creep, half the stuff that come out my gob is crap anyway i know that
Quote by Phoenix
why can't a guy in a relationship want more?
Why would any guy want more ?? - silly question if you ask me
it wasn't really a question it was more a statment.
he suggested single guy could 'want more' so i was just pointing out so could married one, sorry you find my 'question's' so silly :shock:
Quote by Alexandra
One thing, I do wish we could stop using the phrase cheating on here though as it is such an emotive word.
so what should we call it then? sorry i just call a spade a spade, dressing it up in fancy words don't make it not cheating
i'm not using the word in a bad way, what they do is upto them but they are cheating so what other word can you use? Quote by Cheetah
I am 45 in a realtionship and want discrete no strings sex and some women find that better that single guys who may want more.
why can't a guy in a relationship want more?
the way i see it a married and cheating guy is no safer than a single guy when it comes to not getting to attached, cheaters are obviously not happy in their relationship or they wouldn't cheat, that just common sence
so if they are not having a great sex life at home and have to look else where could they not fall for some woman they meet who is providing them with what they are lacking at home?just a thought
I have a few but this is my most recent one, its about a year old now
its sort of on my hip going down my leg tho so unless i'm getting in the jacuzzi there not much chance of you seeing it
sleazy had bloody loads but this is his best one...in my opinion
its on his rib cage so again not really going to see it stood in a pub :lol2:
i see a devil theme coming on here
its sort of on my hip going down my leg tho so unless i'm getting in the jacuzzi there not much chance of you seeing it
sleazy had bloody loads but this is his best one...in my opinion
its on his rib cage so again not really going to see it stood in a pub :lol2:
i see a devil theme coming on here
Quote by funin_and_mike
My maddest thing...........
In my single days, well when I was about 30!, I used to go to a night club just round the corner from where I lived, literally 5 minutes walk.
This 1 night I was with my friend and as usual I was tarting.
Anyway to cut a long story short I ended up getting rather drunk and started chatting to this local rugby team!
On leaving the club, on my own as I had "lost" my friend by this time, a car pulled up.
Inside were these rugby players.
They asked if I would like to go back to theirs for a drink.
I explained that I only lived round the corner and how would I get home afterwards.
The older of the guys said that he would take me home the next morning. They actually live about 45 minutes from the night club!
Well I thought at least I was getting a lift home so therefore agreed and got into the car.
To say the house was in the middle of nowhere was an absolute understatement!
Well what a night I had with these guys!!!
In the morning, true to his word, the guy gave me a lift home and as we arrived my concerned friend was waiting outside.
She took 1 look at me and said she wouldn't even ask if I had had a good time!
My hair was matted with baby oil and smelt of neat whisky.
I could hardly walk, as well as being hung over as hell.
When I think back on it it could have gone so wrong.
The moral of this for me would be " Don't drink whisky". lmao.
Hugs as always
Funin
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blimey funnin you could have picked me up on the way ya greedy cow
Personally i feel people mix rather well anyway, tho if a new person feels better having someone to 'hold their hand' they why not, i think cause you talk so much on here you feel you know people you have never met anyway, and i find myself chatting away like i've known them years even tho we may have never met b4
but then my mum always did say if talking was an olympic sport i'd get England a gold every time :shock:
but then my mum always did say if talking was an olympic sport i'd get England a gold every time :shock:
