well i vote for my boobs.......cause i wouldn't be without them :lol2:
ok ok i admit i'm in the 98% lol
I also didn't like utopia, you deffo have to be in the in croud, if your a couple don't bother going alone as people do not tend to talk to u if you are a unknown member, we actually had people moving away from us if we tryed to talk or sat near them, the pools nice, bar areas ok but the play rooms arn't that good, and that cave area...whats that all about then? :lol2:
Not a place i personally would recomend
you got banned from cupids for fighting bluexxx? :shock:
i dunno whats the world coming to when a girl can't even go out and let her hair down :lol2:
All i can say is after being there 10 mins you'll wonder why you was nervous in the first place, its very relaxed with no pressure to play so just relax and have fun :twisted:
I put my name it and it bought up part of our add and a quote off a post on this forum :lol2:
awww :therethere:
Hey seeing as your stuck in anyway can i send my kids round so i can go out? :twisted:
I think its what works for you, swinging comes in all forms, if you say a couple who plays alone are not swingers the surly all single men and women are not swingers either??
just a thought
We have played alone for a few years now, to me swinging is not about just what you get out of it, my hubby has met a few single str8 women who do not want to meet couples, for obvious reasons, and hes met couples who are after mmf 3sums, so is it fair on me to say no to him meeting her/them just cause she/they do not want to play with me? in my opinion no, i have a real liking for bi men, as my hubby is not bi i meet bi men alone, bi nights at clubs etc, and hes happy for me to be doing what i like, all cause its not for him he knows i enjoy it.
Personally i could not be in a swinging relationship where it was a case of.....if they don't want to meet me they not meeting you...... and we have met many people with that attitude, which is fine if thats what works for you but it wouldn't work for me.
sorry lilmiss i'll tell Paul not to email you again :lol2:
where about in the mids are you?
there are many clubs in the midlands area.....
as a couple you will find it easy to go to any club of your choice, some clubs like you to call first but many clubs will just let couples just turn up.
some people swing for sex not to make friends.....
I myself am more than happy to make friends and do enjoy the social side of swinging but i have to admit there are times in clubs where i have played with singles/couples and not so much as known their names after, its just the way it happens sometimes, to be honest i more use sites like this to meet people for friendship, is thro munches......to me clubs are more just a easy/quick way of getting sex.