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naughtynymphos1
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 52
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Quote by cheekychimp
pudding?
NN...LOL...bless....it's erm....like a pie but a bit more squishy, filled with steak & kidney...my Nan does a cracker..!
CheekyChimp....
why didn't you just say bloody pie then
Coz it's not a pie hun.....it's a steak & kidney pudding....apart from my Nan's...Hollands are the best..!
CheekyChimp....
sounds like a soggy pie to me, is that what you call it when its been in the micro wave to long, a pudding ?
Spot on....can't stand pastry of any kind via the nuke box.....!! Do yu like Gravy..?
CheekyChimp....
i love KFC gravey :twisted:
Quote by cheekychimp
pudding?
NN...LOL...bless....it's erm....like a pie but a bit more squishy, filled with steak & kidney...my Nan does a cracker..!
CheekyChimp....
why didn't you just say bloody pie then
Coz it's not a pie hun.....it's a steak & kidney pudding....apart from my Nan's...Hollands are the best..!
CheekyChimp....
sounds like a soggy pie to me, is that what you call it when its been in the micro wave to long, a pudding ?
Quote by pleasureseeker
Naughty that is the most sensible and helpful thing posted in response.
hey i have my moments
I think to be honest most people when not happy will look for someone else b4 leaving their partner as they fear being on their own again and find the idea of leaving their partner for someone else much easier than going and being alone till someone else comes along, now obviously i am not saying i agree with this but people do grow apart, not everyone can be as happy 20 years later as they was on their wedding day and not everyone can make a marrage work thro trying, now of course it would be better if we could all live happily ever after but this is the real world and now days people don't have to stay in a unhappy marrage, but i still stand by what i said in my first posting, i have never agreed with cheating and i feel the only right thing to do is be 100% honest with her, it may hurt her feeling but don't you think she will be even more hurt if you did ever find your idea woman and left her?
My personal advice after reading thro all the posts are, just follow your heart, if you really could meet an new woman and have a relationship with her then go back to your wife and act like nothing has happened, go for it, at the end of the day its your life and you will do what you like anyway, i mean your not honestly going to take the advice of a bunch of strangers are you?
Tho my personal opinion after reading your posts are, i feel you are after more than just sex, if you was happy with your wife in all other areas than sex you would want to meet for a shag then go home, the fact you have put you do not want one night stands but are looking for one special woman you could have a relationship with says to me you are looking for someone new, and i feel that if you found such a lady you could respect and have a relationship with as well as a great sex life you would probabily leave your wife for her anyway. so what i don't understand is why you don't just tell her how you feel and go now by any more hurt is caused.
Tho my personal opinion after reading your posts are, i feel you are after more than just sex, if you was happy with your wife in all other areas than sex you would want to meet for a shag then go home, the fact you have put you do not want one night stands but are looking for one special woman you could have a relationship with says to me you are looking for someone new, and i feel that if you found such a lady you could respect and have a relationship with as well as a great sex life you would probabily leave your wife for her anyway. so what i don't understand is why you don't just tell her how you feel and go now by any more hurt is caused.
Blimey
Ok ok i was wrong cause perverts never trick people on the internet do they
Not saying they are asking for the wrong resons but me personally would not meet anyone who was asking for people with kids, nothing to do with a bad day at work i just don't mix my kids with swinging life
But hey next time i want an opinion i'll ask you for it
Ok ok i was wrong cause perverts never trick people on the internet do they
Not saying they are asking for the wrong resons but me personally would not meet anyone who was asking for people with kids, nothing to do with a bad day at work
i just don't mix my kids with swinging life But hey next time i want an opinion i'll ask you for it
oh why do all the interesting posts happen when i'm working lol
Well having had a read at your post i would say thats you have to make a choice in your life and thats whats more important your wife or sex, i'm not going to say try this, that and the other because you have already said you have tryed thing and they have not worked, so now is the time to be blunt and, going back to happycats post, saying to her look i have needs and your just not providing for them, sounds cruel but the truth is always better than cheating, in the end she may agree for you to meet others for NSA sex or you may get a slap and her packing her bags, but hey at least them your free to meet who you chose and lets face it if you really cared for her you wouldn't be here asking strangers advice on wether you should cheat on her or not!!
So i suppose what i'm saying is just be honest with her, tell her how frustrated you are and how you can't go without sex like she can, honesty is the only way :thumbup:
Well having had a read at your post i would say thats you have to make a choice in your life and thats whats more important your wife or sex, i'm not going to say try this, that and the other because you have already said you have tryed thing and they have not worked, so now is the time to be blunt and, going back to happycats post, saying to her look i have needs and your just not providing for them, sounds cruel but the truth is always better than cheating, in the end she may agree for you to meet others for NSA sex or you may get a slap and her packing her bags, but hey at least them your free to meet who you chose and lets face it if you really cared for her you wouldn't be here asking strangers advice on wether you should cheat on her or not!!
So i suppose what i'm saying is just be honest with her, tell her how frustrated you are and how you can't go without sex like she can, honesty is the only way :thumbup:
Quote by donsidelovers
How do you define proper sexual conduct within a relationship? By what the divorce courts say? By the Bible? By the way in which people have behaved over the centuries? By what your mum told you?
i define proper sexual conduct within a relationship one where noone gets hurt, if me and my hubby swing and we are both happy about that thats ok and that goes for any couple, if you have to lie to the person your supposed to love and do something that could and more than likely would hurt them then its not, your partners feeling should come first and putting ur partners feeling aside in a 'what they don't know wont hurt them' manner is wrong, if i swing with a guy who i know is cheating on his wife then i am also cheating on her, and i believe that swinging should be open and fun, theres no fun having sex with someone knowing if their partner found out it could break their world.
I think i'm open minded, i just also care about peoples feeling, there are enough people to swing with who are not cheating to have to bother with those who are.
Quote by freckledbird
I have to agree with Buster - it's not what I would class as swinging, it's cheating.
It's also not helpful to class those who don't agree with you as Victorian.
I would class us as a liberated couple, and it really isn't our fault that you aren't sexually satisfied with your partner.
However, there are users on this site who will play with married people without their partners consent, so you may get lucky.
Jas
XXX
I too agree with Buster - it isn't swinging - no matter how you try to use long ways to word your LMU ad or convince everyone that it's acceptable. Don't dress it up for our sakes, we all know that it's cheating. Oh, and it was me who made the comment about going to Relate - it was in response to a man who asked for advice. That wasn't an unreasonable suggestion.
i though thats what places like relate are for to try and help people thro their problems so they don't have to end up being liars and cheats
its not victorian at all to ask for help, whats victorian is to stick your head in the sand and carry on regarless
theres nothing what so ever modern about cheating on your partner
Quote by the_dude
why do people risk their lives with unsafe sex?
great site btw
or anyone else's health afterwards who they will infect?
Ignorance, indifference, or just plain bloody mindedness?
I just can't get my head around that one!
cc_7up
ermm hang on if they infect someone after they have also chosen to have unsafe sex. so whos fault is that? depends on the type of relationship they were having
care to explain that one cause you have lost me there? are u saying its ok to have unsafe sex sometimes depending on ur relatioship? if your in a relatioship the chances are u wont use a condom with your partner anyway surely?
and don't be rolling ur eyes at me young man:jagsatwork:
Quote by cc_7up
why do people risk their lives with unsafe sex?
great site btw
or anyone else's health afterwards who they will infect?
Ignorance, indifference, or just plain bloody mindedness?
I just can't get my head around that one!
cc_7up
ermm hang on if they infect someone after they have also chosen to have unsafe sex. so whos fault is that?
Quite possibly their unsuspecting partner who they do not use a condom with at home.
cc_7up
oh well now your getting into cheating...down even get me going on that one, maybe its a good thing they do catch something serves them right and at least their 'unsuspecting partner' will find out what they are upto
Quote by cc_7up
why do people risk their lives with unsafe sex?
great site btw
or anyone else's health afterwards who they will infect?
Ignorance, indifference, or just plain bloody mindedness?
I just can't get my head around that one!
cc_7up
ermm hang on if they infect someone after they have also chosen to have unsafe sex. so whos fault is that?
Quote by AndyWolves
However! Since I moved to the West Mids, I've experienced a strange phenomenon - Bright Orange Chips!!! Never seen them anywhere else....I think they're cooked in a different oil, could even be some kind of batter mix (guess the folks that've grown up there can help on this one?)....to cut a long story short, they go BRILLIANTLY with that cheap just add water curry powder.....no way would you want either of the red or brown sauces polluting that.
:giggle:
its true we do have bright orange battered chips round here , now i moved from mansfield a couple of years ago where chips was normal and the local chippy did not see roe and battered mars bars
upon moving to tipton i send my daughter to the local chippy, and they are everywhere round here lol, on her return i opened the bag and had the fright of my life, fook me though a nucular bomb had gone off in the bag or summat and battered chips whats that all about then lol so if any locals can clear that 1 up for us it would be a help :thumbup: :thumbup: Quote by Mal
Looking for mature women for nsa fun monday afternoon.
Whatever you do, Sparky. don't tell them too much about yourself. No matter how much they beg and offer sexual favours, insist on your rights of anonymity. I mean, you've been good enough to tell them you're available, it's not important to tell them anything more.
Remember - the secret to success is secrecy!! ssshhhhhhh!
Mal
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not being sarky are you Mal ?
I don't think its wrong for anyone to have rules, all i was trying to get over is i cannot understand how you can fully enjoy sex with someone if you cannot just let yourself go with and do what feels good, and also that tho i respect peoples rules that does not mean i have to play with someone, i wouldn't play with someone who had a no kissing rule, simply because i love kissing and i could not have sex and not kiss, so altho i would never break anyones limits i also have the rights to say no if i do not like their rules, when i am having sex i do not want to be thinking in the back of my mind about what i can and can't do and having their partner watching to make sure their rules are not broken (which i find is what happens)
Quote by meat2pleaseu
yeah, and before you know it you'll be wingeing that they won't get their lazy arse out of bed to get a job
is that what your mums says to u every morning
you mean every afternoon
no, they waited til i went to the pub and emigrated
can't say as i blame them
anyway when you coming to sort this pc out 4 me
still waiting for you to sort your technical hitch, guess i'll have to wait till your kids get back from nursery to help you out
boy arn't we on form today ??Actually my kids don't go to nursery, i'm a old git you know my kids are older than that
Quote by meat2pleaseu
yeah, and before you know it you'll be wingeing that they won't get their lazy arse out of bed to get a job
is that what your mums says to u every morning
you mean every afternoon
no, they waited til i went to the pub and emigrated
can't say as i blame them
anyway when you coming to sort this pc out 4 me
