Quote by Sexyguy1972
I can't understand it. Maybe I'm just too different to be noticed. I put all the nice stuff on my profile (until I took it off) and wrote to a lot of ladies but got no replies. Don't people have the courtesy to reply, even if it's a "no"?
I am not a Brad Pitt lookalike, maybe that's the problem. Women these days can be so shallow, especially if they are only after looks or money. I have a good job, a house of my own (albeit rather empty) and a brain.
Oh well, maybe I'll try an introductions agency. lol.

Quote by winchwench
Your way with words?
Heaven- yes, I think there is a tendancy for some guys to be frightened off by women who are up front. Shame really.

Quote by Heaven1970
i been spending alot of time in chat rooms lately, more then usual, and decided to bite the bullet and invited a guy round, jus as a social visit to get to know him better, he declined even after weeks of hinting of wanting to come round. i've also hinted a couple of times that we have felt we want to play with certain people, but are men actually put off by this?? i only ask as only a few weeks ago someone who had been asking to meet us i finally said yes too, but when i asked him, he seemed to shy away. Just wondered if this is a common problem and weather woman from a couple should try to arrange a meet, or to wait and see if a mail is interested??
so want i want to know guys is would a woman asking to meet u rather then u asking them, would it put u off?
can i jus add im sorry if this doesnt really make sense, im a bit tired at the time of writing this and not sure if it makes any sense lol

Quote by midsprincess
ohhh its my birthday on 14th may so i best go i suppose
oh by the way yes im a member lol

Quote by Mal
Hi ya Id be interested in an invite ? x

Quote by H-x
I think he means (and please forgive the interjection (ooo that's a long word!)) that they're a couple looking for a woman not a woman looking?
But they/she are/is new so maybe some slack should be cut?
I need more coffee.
H.x

Quote by de_sade
ok i know im female but i have met enough guys off here to get a picture of what they like, im my experiance i think most guys go down on women because they feel they have to, most of the guys i have met have been quite happy to just have a bj and a shag, in the swinging scene i really dont think the womans needs are that important to men so long as they shoot their bolt they happy
:lol2:

Quote by de_sade
Hmmmm...A car towing cable, some latex gloves, a box of condoms, anaesthetic cream, a jar of whole peppercorns, a packet of sewing needles, a bandage, a packet of razors, heavy duty sanitary towels, laxative tablets, cable-ties, a cucumber, a bottle of carribean jerk sauce, disposable camera and two bottles of vodka.
:twisted:

Quote by fem_4_taboo
Guys remember once you go so deep it cuts off the breathing, even through the nose so remember to pull out so she can breath.
xxx fem xx

Quote by Ahabs
i may go if i can get night off work, ok i know i dont use that chat room but seeing as its a open club for anyone to go to i dont need vouching for lol