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naughtynymphos1
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 51
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Quote by foxylady2209
Good health is just the slowest way to die, so I reckon we should enjoy life even if we do take some risks.

thats so true lol so if we healthy, go gym, eat well and dont smoke we may get a extra 10 years sat in a nursing home lol
someone said something oce on this subject that made me laugh, it started from when i was at the slimming club and a woman was saying she had started smoking in hope that it would help her lose weight and another woman said, id sooner eat junk and be fat they can being you back from a heart attack if you get lung cancer your fooked lool
Anyone going sunday? i'm thinking of going would be nice if there was some others i know there as im going alone redface
Thanx Billy no m8s biggrin
i may go if i can get night off work, ok i know i dont use that chat room but seeing as its a open club for anyone to go to i dont need vouching for lol biggrin
Quote by Sexysmilingeyes
to my knowledge this couple were asking for those interested to mail them - not for people to tell them its disgusting .... We may not agree with what they are planning but swinging is not about judging people, if you dont agree with the posting then move on and ignore
Just my opnion of course xx

i agree, asking for a gang bang when pregnant is not against the swinging heaven rules nor is it against the law they doing nothing wrong, some may think being on here looking for sex at all is wrong, and having sex with other while your partner is watching is disgusting but we still do it, each to their own
i dont like big body builder muscular type men tho i do repect the time, effort and dedication they put into their appearance, i do like nicely toned men tho, Jean Claude Van Damm is a good example boink
I think the word depression is used far to easy and sometimes people are just feeling a bit low, i remember a while back my hubby going to the doc about a totally unrelated issue to depression and the doc gave him prozac :shock: he wasnt drepressed and he didnt take the pills but docs just had them out far to easy now days
My youngest dont have home work anyway, personally i'd just go along with what the school though was best, after all thats why we send our kids to school isnt it? if we are just going to disagree with what the teachers think is in the best interest of the kids whats the point sending them?
Quote by sexkittenhfx
Right to those who dont know me im female, i do and always have though men like more slimmer women, i have lost over the past year just over 7 stone in weight and get far more offers not than i ever used to before, when i was bigger i used to get turned down a lot by guys i met, even tho i always said i was a BBW, one guy i met didnt even get out the car me pulled up, looked at me and drove off :shock: which dont do your confidance much good lol but since i have lost weigh i never have any problems finding guys to play with at clubs etc and have lots more offers on here too, so in my experiance guys prefure slimmer women

well isnt that odd...ive also lost over 7 stone in the last year and im axactly the opposite!
i got far more interest when i was fat...i never called myself a BBW as i personally dont like the term.....but i always got interest in any of my ads and when in the chatroom etc, i hardly get any now!
i cant comment on club visits becasue ive yet to find a willing victim to chauffer and escort me at my whim
lol
you dont have a add, i'm sure if you put one on the offers would come flooding in wink
Im not saying that bigger women dont get any offers i know they do i was only speaking from my experiance, people always say personality is more important yet i have know many people off here for a number of years and have met them many times at munches etc all of which have always spoken to me and have been friendly but since i have lost weight i have had a number of them show more of a interest and a few even ask if i wanted to meet, i am the same person as i was before, i have the same personality so to me it just goes to show people do go for looks and most just say personality is more important cause they dont want to look shallow biggrin
I also think, again only going by my own experiences and i want to say now this is not my opinion, that a lot of guys ask bigger ladies to meet because they think they are easier to meet, i had a guy in the past tell me he went for BBW because they was grateful of the attention :shock: which i personally find insultive, even when i was a size 22 i was never grateful for anyones attention :lol:
its not a case of being rude i put the smiley face on the end to try and keept it light hearted wink
But honestly how many times does this subject have to be covered? if you dont like bare back use condoms, if you do dont use them, what else is there to say?? what other people do is nothing to do with anyone else why does everyone feel they need to have a opinion on what others are doing?
Quote by benrums0n
Given the lifestyle choices of the population of these forums I am often surpised at the prejudice and lack of compassion expressed in posts.

sorry but i fail to see what a swinging life style choice has to do with being a theif? confused
To be honest i have always been one that believes everyone does something for a reason and the root of that reason has to found and cured before you can even hope to put someone back on the 'str8 and narrow' but all because we are swingers that dont mean we have to accept some pople are theifs :?
Oh bloody hell not ANOTHER bare back thread biggrin
How many of you people used condoms and dental dams for oral sex? genital warts, for exampl,e is passed thro oral sex and is one of the STDs that on the rise because people are that focused on safe full sex they seem to forget about oral, you either cover up fully in all aspects of sex or you stop preaching to other, other wise your just a hypocrite wink
Quote by benrums0n
Any idea why X steals for a living?

most petty theifs are drug addicts that cant hold down a job due to their drug addiction
In cases like that the addiction needs to be cured before you can even think of stopping X stealing, prison dont work for such cases
You have to fight all the way to get what you want, my daughter was also offered a place in a really bad school, a school that was known for its high level of bullying, where teachers had no control over most of the kids and that had had several head teacher over a period of about 3 years because none wanted to stay, i told the education board i refused to let my daughther go and kept her off school till i got letter saying i was going to court for not sending my child to school, which is what i was hoping for as i told them i was prepaired to go to court and tell them i wasnt prepaired to send my daughter to any old badly run school for the sake of sending her to school and that it was their fault i didnt want her to go as they was offering me a shcool of unacceptable standards and i was also prepaired to go to the local papers over it, it did'nt get to court they offered me a place in the shcool i wanted in the end.
im not sure what i'd do, its easy to say stand up to the bullies but when your children are involved it makes you think twice, if i though for a single second that my kids would be harmed in anyway for me pressing charges i wouldnt, simple as, my childen are the most important people in my life and i wouldnt risk them in anyway even if it did mean backing down and letting the bullies go
Quote by pussygalore33
i vote to stand up to the bullies !!!
been there done that got the t shirt chesty ive been in the same situation about 9 yrs ago with a pub i had in colchester the local thug (aka idiot they werent brave enough to call him that to his face )he decided the friday in question was his night to start a fight with the bar staff and was throwen out by the doormen ohhh dont get me wrong he went only to arrive back at 3 in the morning with a present ie a brick straight threw the window i was on my own at the time with 3 young kids while he was hurling abuse outside and all the plant pots .
as usual the police were called and he was lifted i pressed charges against him until after the court case where he received a £150 fine and community service of 30 hrs of it was cleaning my beer garden to say i enjoyed every minute of him picking up all the shit that had collected there (especially the stuff i keep throwing all all over garden and bless even our dog helped out lol)mind u i do admit that i had a trusty freind MR BASEBALL BAT which i would have used if he had even thught about stepping out of line sumtimes its not easy to stand up to bullies but in this line of work u will meet them on a regular basis especially when the demon drink is involved ,this is this ladies home and her childrens death threats are usually made in vain yes there is alot of idiots in pubs but the good usually rule out the numptys dont let this man ruin ur liveyhood and ur good name push the police to install panic buttons and if need be make them do a pass by every hour as a publican u have that right if u are under threat of any sort and if they dont comply with this take it to the cheif of police and papers to be honest be a right pain in the arse they will get bored with u ringing the station and just start doing it to stop u ringing lol worked in my case :twisted: dont let this man ruin all uve worked for !!! good luck and stay strong xxxxxx

we've kinda been there too, my husband was attacked a few years back and ended up having several ops on his arm to try and save it, we pressed charges on the lad who did it and as a result we had our car stolen and my daughter who was then 12 was beaten up by 3 lads two of which was the cousins of the lad we pressed charges against, he did end up in prison but didnt change the fact that my child was hurt as a result of doing so
Quote by Plimboy
Do you and Naughtynymphos think it's OK for fathers to smack daughters?
Plim :shock:

no but as i put in a post i dont think its ok to smack children at all, the point i was making is if you had a son and a daughter and you cought them doing the same thing how can you justify hitting the boy but not the girl? a childs a child and should be treat the same, if you did hit your son but not your daughter you sons going to go thro child hood thinkings hes not as loved as his sister, and if you'd punish the girl in another way so as you didnt have to hit her why not do that to the boy and not hit him as well?
Quote by Flavio12000
I was in the gym today ( I always put on weight in the winter ), and was a real struggle. There were loads of guys preening themselves , looking in mirrors and working on pecs, arms , 6 pack etc. It made me think is that really all worth it. I know alot of guys who have a good sex life but not the perfect body. Also had read an article about some ladies prefering bigger men. Wondering what the swinging ladies preference was.

not sure what a perfect bodies got to do with a good sex life? confused you should want to do this for you not for what other think of you, if your only going to the gym to get more women attracted to you i'd give up now cause you'll never stick to it long tearm, do it for yourself your the only person that matters, if your happy as you are stay as you are
Quote by X_fanny_x
At one time, doctors use to briefly smack on the cheek to bring someone out of hysteria.
I think with children, it should be a last resort, but yes - it may be necessary on occassions, especially with boys.
Plim sad

Why especially with boys?
I wondered that to - if anything imo its easier to get boys to do as they are told or is my son just a mummies boy
Some boys only respond to corporal punishment - as a man I could never hit my daughters anyway, but I knew a father who did - wrong to me :!:
PlimSeems sexist to me but thats your own opinion which you are very much entitled to biggrin
me too i dont understand that at all, i could see in a family like that the little boy feeling not as loved as his sister if she got away with not being smacked for things he did confused
I personally dont agree with smacking children, i have 3 and can honestly say i have never risen a had to any of mine, saying that so long as people arnt beating their kids up what others do is nothing to do with me, but i hate to see people hitting children it just sadens me, even if the kid is playing up sad
Right to those who dont know me im female, i do and always have though men like more slimmer women, i have lost over the past year just over 7 stone in weight and get far more offers not than i ever used to before, when i was bigger i used to get turned down a lot by guys i met, even tho i always said i was a BBW, one guy i met didnt even get out the car me pulled up, looked at me and drove off :shock: which dont do your confidance much good lol but since i have lost weigh i never have any problems finding guys to play with at clubs etc and have lots more offers on here too, so in my experiance guys prefure slimmer women
Quote by annejohn
what punishment would you advocate for this guy??

Life with no parole, but again the question should be why? what possesed a man to do this and does this call a question that maybe not enough is being done to understand and maybe learn to pick up the signs earlier.
thats exactly what he got, a whole life `ll never hurt another child,and will do hard time in a population that knows his crimes.
life don't mean life now days does it, he could be out in 15 years
Quote by Bonedigger
what punishment would you advocate for this guy??

what i never understood about that story was if she wasnt seen as at risk why was she seen by so many health workers in such a short time? my kids never saw 30 health worker in less than 7 weeks!!!!! in fact i havn't seen that many health workers in 15 years between all 3 of them
when you become unsure about swinging its time to stop, even if its just for a while, you can always get back into it when you feel more sure about why your doing it
i wouldn't meet someone who was playing away for the simple reason i wouldn't like it if my husband was having sex behind my back so i'm not willing to do it to someone else, treat people how you want to be treated yourself
Quote by deancannock
I've always been against the death penalty but if someone hurt my children I don't know weather I would be big enough or brave enough to hold that opinion.......

with you 100%.....but it would not be justice i would be after...it would be revenge....two very differant things !!!
its totally diffarent if its your own child, a parents natural instinct is to protect your own, killing someone whos done nothing to me personally is something i could never do and if im not willing to do something myself i cant agree to expecting someone else to do it.
I've always said the same, if i knew i had to spend life in prison and had the option of having a injection to kill me i'd take the injection, death is no punishment once your dead you know nothing, living life in prison is far worse in my opinion, by i will say one thing for certain crimes life should mean life