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naughtynymphos1
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 51
UK
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Quote by Lost
I can't help it nowadays. It seems as though if we have a few spare hours or so to kill, we think about spending it with our swinging buddies, not necessarily swinging, maybe just socialising. Rather than doing stuff we might of done pre-swinging. I'm certainly not complaining the time spent is precious to us. Just musing over how things have changed socially since swinging.
i have to say if i had the chance to go out drinking with swinging friends or 'vanilla' friends id choose swinging ones every time, and i do just mean drinking, i just find it more relaxed you can say what you like and don't have to mind everything you say lol
we used to have a Burmese Python had to re home him tho as he out grew the house :shock: lol only had the one tho so not sure how he would have coped with another, i do know however snakes who don't know each other can fight as ours was attacked by a female when he was on a breeding program, or maybe she just didn't fancy him im not sure 
lol we was recomended not to house him with other snakes but maybe they differ from breed to breed, wasnt much help at all really was i? lol
lol we was recomended not to house him with other snakes but maybe they differ from breed to breed, wasnt much help at all really was i? lol Quote by love2flirt
we're going to Chams in the near future on a wednesday, in the afternoon into the evening.
Does anyone know if thats a good time to go or is it fairly quiet then? would we be better off going at night?: :? :?:
wednesdays is greedy girls day/night now days, i have been a cpl times just after they started doing it was ok bit buisier than wednesdays used to be but not busy as such, however i've been told its picking up a bit now its been going a while but havn't been myself for a while on a wednesday so wouldn't know first hand
Quote by Jiggle
SH sometimes never ceases to amase me with the amount of knowledge there is within the membership...congrats jiggle and NN for taking the time out to explain the details...brill
one question tho!!...how do they get home at, for example, 2am?
RWL
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chams has a hotel they could always stay there and get train home next day
well the request was on how to Get to chams! lol... not how to get back! lol.
a point well made young man lol
Quote by redwine_lover
SH sometimes never ceases to amase me with the amount of knowledge there is within the membership...congrats jiggle and NN for taking the time out to explain the details...brill
one question tho!!...how do they get home at, for example, 2am?
RWL
xx
chams has a hotel they could always stay there and get train home next day
Quote by Jiggle
it all depends on your location i guess.
if you are near to the midlands, i would suggest a club called Chameleons, which is just north of Birmingham (see CLubs List located by clicking tab at top of screen).
its a very chilled out, and relaxed enviroment, with superb staff.
Jonathan
plus saturdays are couples only which i have found a lot of first time couple enjoy till they get the feel of things, but id also recomend chameleons its very relaxed, tho its more a sauna club so people tend to wear towel or the ladies sexy undies which a few first timers find a bit off putting, xtasia which is just up the road, also in the club section on this site, is more a night club type club where you stay dressed but in my opinion not as good as chameleons
i remember years ago when we first started swinging was talking to a couple we used to meet and they was telling us about when they first started some 15 years ago and they used to do meets thro contact mags where you write to people via a po box number sending pics then had to wait for them to send pics back then you sent phone numbers then you had a chat and then you meet, one meet could take 3 or 4 weeks to arrange and then you could end up not even liking them after all that, so i think pcs have helped, the chat rooms are fantastic in my opinion, we have only been swinging about 7 years but even in that short time things have come on, i have lost count of the amount of times we met people who looked nothing like their pics due to aging and weight gain that they forgot to mention lol so to me the cam rooms are adeal, im not interested in watching people have sex on them but just to see what they look like and you know its really them now and not a pic of them 10 years ago, plus meets can be arranged so much quicker than they used to be, you can go in a chat room, look at a profile, chat to them and be viewing their web cam in a matter of a few mins and prosses that used to take weeks.
lol so to me the cam rooms are adeal, im not interested in watching people have sex on them but just to see what they look like and you know its really them now and not a pic of them 10 years ago, plus meets can be arranged so much quicker than they used to be, you can go in a chat room, look at a profile, chat to them and be viewing their web cam in a matter of a few mins and prosses that used to take weeks. personally i think so long as a womans happy with herself it don't matter what we think, i don't look at size zero women and think 'god she looks horrid' i'm not perfect in any shape size or form so have no room to pull others down for their looks tho i do worry about them health wise mentally and pysically and think its a hard world that women feel they have to be that thin if they are in the public eye, how ever i have always wondered why they use models so thin because there are very few size zero women in the world really so why don't they use women the size of the buyers to model them
if you get a train into wolverhampton theres a bus station just up the road, get on the number 79 to birmingham but get off at darlaston asda, if you walk up the ramp after getting off the bus and go over the asda car park to the right (you come out next to a bank) you come to a row of shops opposit theres a cafe style kebab/chip shop with a ally way that goes down the side of it go down there and turn left when you get to the end and you will see chameleons car park the entrance doors just to the left as you walk only the car park, its less that a 2 min walk after you get off bus
Quote by MasterVampy
how come usernames and accounts dont expires if not used for a certain amout of time ???? so peeps can use niknames that havent been used for over a year
if you've paid for a account its yours so you can use it when you like, you don't have your car taken off you if its at on your drive for 6 months do you?
however im crap at it in real life 