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naughtynymphos1
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 51
UK

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Quote by Unc
when i confrunted the person he said he had loaded the wrong file onto the disc and has handed it out to people.

The point is he should never have had the clip in the first place unless he had asked permission to take it and shown it to you first! Being ignored would be the least of his problems if me or anyone I was with had been filmed without our knowledge.
So sorry it happened to you Westie hun {{{hug}}}.
Unc.
i agree, the thing with house parties is because they are invited to peoples homes its usually people who are known to each other and considered as friends and the though of someone you saw as a friend and you trusted has done this is not a very nice thought sad
Quote by deancannock
as a private party...don't think there is alot SH can actually do......

im sure they cant do anything, not that i can name names but a while back, dont know if any of you mids room can remember this, but a woman started talking to a guy on swingingheaven and then they took it over to msn and he started sending her death threts, she reported him but because it was on msn and not on the site nothing was done about it so not sure what they can do about this situation.
I suppose all you can do is let your friends know who it was so noone gives them the chance to do it again
Quote by west-brom-babe
i was the person who this video was taken of i was never asked if i could be filmed this was done without my knowledge or consent. when i confrunted the person he said he had loaded the wrong file onto the disc and has handed it out to people. iam shocked that a fellow swinger could do such a thing am just wondering why the hell somebody would film me in such a way. please all learn from my leason do not trust people who have a camera or mobile phone in their hand at a party whats happened to me is proof people dont give a damn for their actions other people were also filmed without their knowledge by this person iam totally gutted and heart broken by this

sounds like a load of bollocks to me, how do you load the wrong film on a disc dont you watch it after first to make sure its loaded and would you not notice it was the wrong one, all i can say is i hope the people who saw this clip took note of whoever took the clip and dont invite them to anymore parties
Quote by bouncy332
oh great new n harry have entered into a spammin compertition on this one again lol
duel

so are you going or not my ikkle angel of delight? if so giz a lift lol
P.S does newlad reply to every single post on the thread? this topic would only be 3 pages long without him lol ;)
we are breaking a tradition this year in the 16 years i have been with my hubby every year we have gone to his parents but this year we're not which is good news for me lol
Quote by de_sade
And, the understatement of the week award goes to...
The trouble is with us women is that we are prone to changing our minds often!

rolleyes :roll: :roll:
bloody men lol
when i first started swinging i got into it to meet other women, i have been bi all my sexual life but was finding it hard to find women so i thought sites such as this was ideal, i wasnt even interested in meeting couples just 1 on 1 with other women, now i don't have any interest in meeting women at all it wasnt something i planned, i didn't sit down one day and think 'im off women' i just started meeting less and less and more and more men, i didnt even notice it at first, but now i don't even look for women at all, peoples sexual needs change, simple as smile
think it depends where you shop to be honest, i have bras from a 36C to a 36E that all fit and i'm usually measured at the shop before i buy a bra so one shop gives you ones size and another gives you another but i always seem to be a 36 and im a size 12 so i also cant see how someone whos a size 10 can be a 40 back size blink if the person measuring you knew anything at all about bras sizes surly they'd just know that was wrong, and also i have been on depo for 2 years and my boobs aint grown lol
Quote by Mal

In seriousness, I think time-wasters are always going to be an epidemic on sites like this. Us fellas are mostly dreamers - we like to think about sex and talk about sex but actually going out and doing sex? With someone new? With all the washing and self-grooming and nerves that entails? "No thank you", think lots of fellas, "I'm gonna stay home and watch Sky Sports News! Mum, could you wash my jeans?" I don't know how you women put up with us, really I don't.

Don't tar us all with the same brush, Roger. Yes, there are many out there like that, but certainly not all.
Mal
lol
got to admit i agree with him lol
I used to have a add in the single fems looking for males section (before anyone points out i have a couples profile we are a couples who also both meet as singles) too and to be totally honest found it a waste of time, most guys on this site cant even grasp what your looking for, even tho i put i was looking for local men ages around late 20s to early 40s i still used to get replies from 55 year old men in london :lol: and yes alex we all get abusive replies, the all talkers and no shows to me its just all part of swinging, i just totally gave up trying to meet off this site and mainly use it for the chat rooms and going to the socials.
P.S Mal in not taring you all with the same brush just talking about my experiences ;)
Personally i think a couples only chat room will help the single guys, after all if your looking for couples then surely you want to be talking to couples after single men, if the couples that are after other couples use the couples only room then your not going to waste your time talking to people who dont want to meet you lol (did that make any sence and wheres the scratching head icon :confused: )
ok ok i know i have already put i dont agree with people being kicked out of room but thats only because they havn't broke any AUPs so in effect should't be booted but if there is a site run couples only room then thats diffarent
Hell if anyone understood any of that explain it to me lol
Quote by Sgt Bilko

i used to go in the bbw room offen and i went on a diet last year and lost quite a lot of weight and one day i went in the room as i normally did and was kicked out saying i wasnt welcome in there no more as i was no longer a bbw :shock:
so it happens to women too lol

Ah, but did they say which of the "B"s you weren't?? confused :? :? lol :lol: :lol: bolt
:shock: :shock: :shock:
Quote by AtomCom2001
The site is meant for everyone. What next? A white only chatroom?
It creates more problems than it solves.
mad

I have to agree, if this happen it would only be the tip of the iceberg.
Though I have to admit you often see room asking for couples only, bbw only, black men only etc. But this is only suggested room admitance, it can not really be enforced.
(Though I am sure I have been kicked from a room for not being a black male)
i used to go in the bbw room offen and i went on a diet last year and lost quite a lot of weight and one day i went in the room as i normally did and was kicked out saying i wasnt welcome in there no more as i was no longer a bbw :shock:
so it happens to women too lol
Quote by bbw_lover
The site is meant for everyone. What next? A white only chatroom?
It creates more problems than it solves.
mad

i agree with you, if you don't like someone don't talk to them they will soon get bored if you ignor them and start talking to someone else, the sites for everyone i wouldn't feel it was right to open a room that discriminated against anyone for any reason including their marital status......oh by the way i'm no a single man lol
i remember way back getting a new cd by a band called machine head and in one of there songs i heard the lyrics...i wouldn't piss up your ass if your shit was on fire...to which i though nahhhh confused so i re listerned and bugger me it really did say that :shock:
Quote by winchwench
.......get a fecking grip!
If you're not already watching it- watch sex in the noughties on c4 + 1, then come in & seethe!
Not stopping as I want to catch the end, however, briefly:
We're all emotionally bereft
Our kids are from unstable homes
Women don't fantasise about two blokes
And just about every woman here, with the possible exception of Dawnie, is a closet lesbian.
>>>>>>Flounce!

didn't even know she knew me :lol2:
i wouldnt be bothered one way or the other if my kids were taught it, can't see why they need to know the words personally but it wouldn't bother me if they did
the 80s was the decade everything forgot, fashion, music, you name it they didnt have it lol
For me would have to be the 70s i think, black men with big afros lol
Quote by helnheaven
steve-j
I see you havent being told yet....Its the custom here to talk crap and hijack threads sometimes. Its even better when someone posts something which is considered of conversational dis-interest, (is that a word? it is now!)to everyone else.
rolleyes :roll: :roll:

but i though talking about things not related to the thread was the topic of the thread lol
Quote by markz
If you pull the wings off a fly does it become a "walk"...... rolleyes

PMSL my 6 year old came out with that the other day.....
shame on you smackbottom
I didn't think you were old enough to have a 6 year old..... :shock:
aww i take back everything bad i ever said about you :inlove:
Don't be hasty I was talking mentally..... :mrgreen:
you know i've been looking and i havnt found any sigs with your name in yet ;)
Quote by Marya_Northeast
Man Flu? More like a little cough and sniffle and they think they're on death's door. rolleyes

deadliest virus known to man kind is man flu you really should be more understanding Marya ;)
Quote by Bi-Guy-Notts
We like the Midlands room on server 3
A well run room with lots of respectable regulars

really? they must go in when i'm not there :lol2:
Quote by markz
If you pull the wings off a fly does it become a "walk"...... rolleyes

PMSL my 6 year old came out with that the other day.....
shame on you smackbottom
I didn't think you were old enough to have a 6 year old..... :shock:
aww i take back everything bad i ever said about you :inlove:
Quote by markz
If you pull the wings off a fly does it become a "walk"...... rolleyes

PMSL my 6 year old came out with that the other day.....
shame on you smackbottom