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naughtynymphos1
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 52
UK
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i suppose if you live in a country you have to respect their laws, unless you come to this country then you can just ajust them to suit you lol what may seem extream to us may seem perfectly normal to some, reading this post it made me think of something that happened to us the other day, my husband had borrowed my ipod and he sent me a text message asking what some song was that was on it and he said theres a bit in the song that says......may the hands of god strike them down......to which he got a message from o2 telling him not to use code words that contravined the anti terrorist act 2002 and scrambled the message my end 
:shock:
:shock: Personally i think we pay enough to get in club to not have to pay more to have it cleaned, thats not down to cost the manager could nip round and tidy it up if they was bothered about their buisness its just down to lazyness, i do think a lot of people see swingers as people who will shag anywhere and as we know thats not the case, i went to a club once and the bed was, well im not sure how to word it but i wouldnt have got on it, i feel that 'normal' beds in swinging clubs are unacceptable, i mean who wants to get on a bed covered in years worth of dried body fluids on them and if you go later in the night most arnt even dry :shock: i personally would never play in a club that didnt have the PVC type beds, most clubs charge about the same to get in and i have been to some really clean clubs so if they can clean them at what they charge why can't they all?
i think, and this is only my opinion, its because they want to meet someone in the same 'class' as themselves, if they have a well paid job the chances are they have a higher standard of living than someone on the dole, eat out in posh places and all, so when doing the social meet, have a drink see how we get on etc they want to meet people who fit in with and can afford their life style, it also says what kind of people they want to meet, in a previos add i remember putting as half a joke not looking for chavs, ok it was ment to light hearted but im not, by them stating they looking for professional couple maybe thats their way of saying the same, the chances are a doctor or such like isnt going to turn up bling to the eye balls in a track suit saying innit lol
firstly i find it hard to believe any woman would swing and not take some kind of birth control so at least if this does happen you have protection from unwanted pregnancys at least, secondly why go to the chemist when you can get a emergancy appointment from the doctors for morning after pill and get it much cheaper 
I would have though split condoms happen to pretty much everyone who use them regular we met a couple and it happened to my hubby and the woman he was playing with, her partner made a right fuss which i though was very over the top after all it could have easily been the other way round and been him it split on, accidents happen if it makes you feel better going to the clinic go.
I would have though split condoms happen to pretty much everyone who use them regular we met a couple and it happened to my hubby and the woman he was playing with, her partner made a right fuss which i though was very over the top after all it could have easily been the other way round and been him it split on, accidents happen if it makes you feel better going to the clinic go.
Quote by Freckledbird
Maybe he meant he could have passed something to you? Get checked anyway - another one won't hurt. Other than that, what else can you do?
i was thinking that too, i think most people can tell a shaving/cream rash from other things but maybe a better cream may be in order next time :thumbup: lol
Quote by mdr2000
4am Brixton and the guy sends you packing thinking the worst?? What a complete Twa*
Nice bloke....
have to admit i was thinking that too lol
even tho i have met some compleat twats in swinging it still amazes me how some guys treat women on here....i dont want to shag you so feck off!!!
i remember a while back being in the couples room in a club and there was some people next to us playing and there was a woman on her back with a guy down between her legs, who wasnt her hubby i may add i know cause i know her, and this guys going hell bent for leather with his tongue and suddely she sat up and said ..oh god i forgot to take the chicken out the freezer for dinner tomorrow :shock:
Quote by roshe
guys if you are genuine its only polite to reply to messages if only to say no thanks
since when did not replying to a message make you a time waster
Quote by roshe
no its the couples that answer ads and get so many wankers that dont reply it is frustrating if cpl are genuine and its not only single females that swing
and you expect people to reply to you with that attitude, if you met someone and they didnt want to play would you think they was wankers and time wasters too?
Quote by Mr-Powers
just to add again
we have a Wii and in all honestly its over-rated...the kids hardly play it...they prefer the xbox 360...its just gathering dust at the moment...don't be fooled in to believing that this is the in toy.
get it on ebay then have you seem how much they going for :shock:
i've always had mixed feelings on this subject, cause im quite a insecure person i find it easier to go to a club etc and just find a 'fuck' than have to do the whole getting to know someone thing, thats not cause i don't want to make friends and get to know people i just find it hard to talk to people i dont know, but on the other side of the scale once i have gotten to know someone and class them as a friend to me they than arn't a option to have sex with, i can't get naked infront of someone i see as a friend even if i met them thro swinging, i know why but people always laugh at me if i say and call me stupid so i'll keep that one to myself lol
So altho i would rather have sex with someone who knew me as a person and liked me i just find it easier to go to clubs and shag strangers
So altho i would rather have sex with someone who knew me as a person and liked me i just find it easier to go to clubs and shag strangers
Quote by Dave in Herts
good balanced argument there, and i can see how it wouldnt work and not so pissed off now anyway lol
it dont seem so bad when you've calmed down does it? every time i get stood up, which dont happen as offen as it used to as you seem to wide up to the tell tale signs of time wasters, my blood boils but never seems so bad in morning, you just think oh well their loss lol
Quote by Too Hot
Such a typically 'British' debate.
The need to put someone in a correctly labelled box is just so idiosyncratically (if there is such a word) British.
well you have to put some kinda 'label' on people don't you? i know what people say about it don't matter what you are so long as you enjoy it and that they are just sexual etc but if enjoying sex no matter what sex it was made you just sexual with no labels then we'd all be the same.......but where not all the same!!......so how do you tell people what you like if we're not supposed to 'label' ourselves as bi, gay str8 etc
Quote by gothicpunk
I'm bi and I don't recieve anal from anyone ever as I have found that I do not like it - it's not a hang up, not a denial of the gay side of my sexuality (and for those who know me, it's not as if I make any effort whatsoever to deny or disguise my sexuality), it just has nothing to do with anything other than it hurts.
relax.....
breath thro it.....
enjoy it.....
it only hurt for a cpl of seconds......
what you mean it really does hurt? and here was me believing all the male comments
you'll be telling me next sperm isn't good for you skin Nice to see you again by the way
Quote by Pendulous007
Still Its a shame that considerate people (like me
How would you know that there are chancing jackasses who flood mailboxes?
Looking at the above replies. Have you never had one? As a couple surely you must have?
so what makes a reply genuine and what makes you a chancing jack ass?
