I always think what would and wouldn't bother me if someone turned me down, now if someone said to me "jesus your ugly i wouldn't touch you with anyones" i would be offended but if someone said to me "sorry your not my type" i wouldn't be offended by that at all, being adults we accept noone is for everyone and not everyone will like us, so i usually say that.....sorry your not my type.....and most accept that and even carry on chatting from time to time, now if they do not accept that and insist on a reason why then i feel they are rude in trying to put you on the spot, so if anyone does put you in that possition then just tell them and if what you say hurts then i think its their own fault for pushing it further.
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naughtynymphos1
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 52
UK
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am i making any sence here? ohhh if i could go back in time i'd go back to what ever year it was when America belonged to the native american's, i'd love to have lived their lifes b4 white man went over and took everything for himself (as we do lol), they seemed to have lead such a natural life plus i have always found native american men very sexy they just have a look that makes me melt :lickface: mmmmmmmm the dark skin and long black hair 
Yep thats where i'd go back to them day's
Yep thats where i'd go back to them day's
I always think it quite difficult to give a opinion on clubs as everyone likes different and there are so many 'types' of clubs about now days, i always say to new couples try a club on a couples night for your first time, couples nights are always more relaxed and i find people tend to chat more and you can move about without the single guys following you (unless thats what you want 
) then manybe move onto a mixed night when you have found your feet a bit and know the scene a little better
either way have fun :thumbup:
) then manybe move onto a mixed night when you have found your feet a bit and know the scene a little better either way have fun :thumbup:
Quote by marmalaid
PERVERTS!!!
You don't catch me lying on the floor and asking people to walk on my back at Tatty's party, getting no takers and end up with Cisco pushing instead!
Nobody watching? That's ok then...
no takers u say? what a boring bunch they was
Agreed, now, Mrs Nymphos, I have something for you in my glove compartment
:rascal:bloody hell :shock:
dare i ask what :scared:
I've never rated chams on a saturday night anyway, have you never tryed fridays? don't know why but fridays seem to attract a younger group, i'm just saying that because you was asking about xtasia getting a younger croud, many couples go fridays i'd say more than go saturdays to be honest but you do get the single guys there fridays as well, and its a party night tonight as well which is always busy and if you do not like the single guys as you know theres always the couples only room and private rooms. If you have never been i'd give it a go if i was you see what you think Sundays is a good night too
Sundays is a good night too 
Quote by deancannock
no way..best is the midlands Yam Yam accent........at least that way i know what they are saying.
Just think of Jasper Carrot...or that guy off that old advert that said
" I just want to be together "
Classic.....would get me sheding my knick naks every time !!!
you want to try living in tipton m8 even the locals can't understand each other
What i ment by that is if your new either single or couple and meeting other new people then the chancers are everyone will be nervous as its all your first time and the chancers are you may end up like us all wondering whos going to make the first move. So your a single guy right? imagin you meet a couple for their first time also at their home, at what point would you say.....so are we playing then or what? lol its all very well sitting here and saying...oh well u know when it feel right, or u can tell if someones interested but sitting on here and being there is not the same thing
