i have to say i lose my temper very easy and have been known to smash things up on more tha several occasions lol
I have had to replace more doors
and i don't even get PMT
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naughtynymphos1
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 52
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Quote by JudyTV
Man-on-Man doesn't bother me....the more the better I say...... :twisted:
I disgracefully but unashamedly agree with the above 100%.
On a serious note I have attended parties in the past where the talk of the day after the party was all about bi sex and mainly male on male activities. This was to the effect of ....'OMG I have never seen anything so disgusting in all my life" The related stories of what took place in no way related to the party I was at and the exaggerations of what took place was quite outstanding. Thankfully this was nothing to do with any of blues parties and needless to say I do not attend that particular group of parties anymore.
As a 50-50 bi male I enjoy blues parties immensely and meeting up with the free spirits who regularly attend them. I would be upset if anyone was in any way offended by what some would term as blatant and unrestrained bisexual behaviour, our own version would be "Freedom of our sexuallity". There are in truth very few places where actual hardcore group activity takes place with the same uninhibited liberalism as those who attend blues parties. I'm sure none of us in the LGBT community wish to offend anyone, just as we ourselves do not want to be offended by those who may not fully wish to be in the vicinity of such freedom of sexuallity. Hopefully we all respect the term "Each to thier own"
Complete sexual freedom with like minded individuals is something to be cherished, however we all have our preferences in life and the last thing we want to do is appear to force our ethos or our orientations on anyone. We absolutely respect the fact that it isnt for everyone.
On a lighter note, bisexuality whether male or female cannot be caught from someone else, it isn't infectious........is it? :P ......Unless you attend one of blues parties
Only kidding.Judy
i fully agree with what u say, tho in have never been to a bi party b4, as my hubby is str8, i usually go to club on bi nights mainly cause its a safe place to go as a single female, a while back a club called chameleons, which most of u will have heard of if not been to, started a bi night which was fantastic for me as i love bi men, its very close and a place my husband felt was ok for me to go to as a single, so i started going, when they first started doing it they had no membership fees for single guys but very soon all the str8 guys who couldn't get membership on 'normal nights' picked up on this and started taking over the mondays, picking women up and trying to go into private rooms, cause of this it made if very hard for the genuine bi men as they had the freedom to play with other guys taken away cause they was afraid of it being a str8 guys and offending someone (tho it would be their own fault for being there in the first place) also the str8 men would stand shouting rude comments to the bi men who was playing etc,i guess where i'm trying to go with this story is wether it be a party or a club always make sure its what ur after and not just think...oh a party
cause swinging as as much about respect for other as getting what u want yourselfGod i sound like my mum now lol
Quote by westerross
Ok now as those of u who know me will know a cpl of weeks ago i knocked over the wall parking up on the drive
Yesterday my daughter walked in with a mag she picked up from my m8s house, anyway a while later Paul picks it up and has a flick thro it and finds the advert for the carling weekend at reading having a read thro it he shouted some band names out and we decided the sunday sounded good, give them a call tomorrow and book tickets he says writing the number down for me, so this morning i gives them a call to book tickets forgetting what day we had decided on so i said i think its the sunday its the day slipknot are playing (sorry but i like slipknot lol) 'they not playing' said the woman 'they havn't been here for 4 or 5 years' odd i thought
well of course i had 2 call him up at work and ask him if he was sure he wanted to go
Can't understand what the issue is here. He had the idea and delegated the job. It was for you to sort out the detail FFS
That's the trouble with women - they can't take on responsibility!! 
Quote by rogerthedragon
I will offer to personally test-run all of the guys who are:
Aged 24-40
5’8’’ and over
Good looking
Have no penis abnormality
Not into pain or watersport – or anything similar.
Now I can’t say fairer than that!
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Bugger - I nearly met the requirements then!
i'll do the mingers
Quote by tonysb09
i didnt do that !!! :shock:
:shock: where did u come from lol
Quote by naughtynymphos1
also wanted to add i have not found this of all guys i have met just most of them
Quote by PoloLady
It is about time the single guy bashing stopped.
It is true there will be time wasters and disappointments out there; and you busy couples don’t always have time to do your homework properly. Purely as a goodwill gesture - selfless me will volunteer to try out a large proportion of the single guys to check-out if they are time wasters or not and put them on the right tracks if they need to improve their performance.
I will offer to personally test-run all of the guys who are:
Aged 24-40
5’8’’ and over
Good looking
Have no penis abnormality
Not into pain or watersport – or anything similar.
Now I can’t say fairer than that!
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ur a m8 :thumbup: lol
Quote by BigBoi
In all fairness, throughout the whole day and evening the empahsis has been on that this time around it's about raising awareness not money.
Even if people don't want to pay attention or don't care about the third world - and are just out for a free concert of all their fave celebrities - they're still being made painfully aware by all the short films and stuff that keep being shown, and all the artists have their say too.
It's kind of hard not to pay attention. And at the end of the day, even if the concert touches ONE person, it's still done it's job
i very much care about what goes off over there, just a pity that the people who really count don't
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Actually NO money is being raised by the concerts - even the banner above the stage says 'we don't want your money, we want you'.
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WHO are you kidding? You saying that the t-shirts and the merchandise is FREE?
sorry but also have to agree lol
was all the text messages free that u had 2 send to get a ticket? they cost and about 5 million people sent for 1!!!
Quote by Jon
I thought Elvis was fecking Ace! - way to go Elvis.
What a feed of shite the whole ethos of the event is, kidding on people are interested in what goes on in the third world, yeah right - they just wanna boogie in the park! I mean, jeeezus, we're almost a third world country ourselves
If live aid / band aid were sooooo effective, why are they doing it all over again? because as always, any money raised gets wasted away and salted off by those who don't need it anyway...............!
If you think writing off their national debt will have ANY effect on the poor starving bastards, you're sadly mistaken. No money for a bowl of rice, but how big a fleet of bullet proof Mercs do you want?
actually i'm glad u said it first lol
the saddest thing is the only reason these countries are in the mess they are in is cause of THEIR goverment, they are NOT poor countrys their goverment just choses to spend the money on fire arms etc instead of their own people and whats even sadder is they tax the money that is send into their country to feed their people b4 they ever see it!!
Quote by t&t
Forgive me, because I haven't posted for a long long time, but I am totally shocked by this thread - regardless of how good each act is or what their intentions are, ultimately they are performing for a very very important cause and I think that we should all be remembering that rather than be finding reasons to criticise.
yes i agree and i have not commented on each act and who is better than who but u have 2 admit that to use something like Live8 to plug a song and tell the world to buy you new record (or whatever it was she said) is a bit naff, its supposed 2 be done to raise awearness not to plug your new record so u have 2 wonder wether her intention was purly unselfish when she agreed to do it
But surely normal people can just block that out and not dedicate a thread to who is BEST - that is not what it is about.
u saying i'm not normal? :silly:
again i agree but there not harm in people having a natter talking about their fave acts
Quote by t&t
Forgive me, because I haven't posted for a long long time, but I am totally shocked by this thread - regardless of how good each act is or what their intentions are, ultimately they are performing for a very very important cause and I think that we should all be remembering that rather than be finding reasons to criticise.
yes i agree and i have not commented on each act and who is better than who but u have 2 admit that to use something like Live8 to plug a song and tell the world to buy you new record (or whatever it was she said) is a bit naff, its supposed 2 be done to raise awearness not to plug your new record so u have 2 wonder wether her intention was purly unselfish when she agreed to do it
Quote by bluexxx
Can I quickly just alert people thinking of attending one of our parties for the first time to what I said in the initial post on this thread........................
As with our previous parties, it will be a proper hardcore jobbie........ although you are not required to join in every bit of action going, I would like to warn you from the outset that you will see both gay and straight sex
I have had several requests from people who are not exactly newbies to the forum, but who have never attended one of our parties, and as such I took the time to check with them whether they would be OK and comfortable with the amount of man-on-man sex that they might see.... some of these people have decided (quite rightly for them, and with respect to others attending the party) that they would rather not attend once I had pointed this out.
Thus, can I stress to everyone thinking of asking for an invite, and those already on the guest list too, that if you are at all uncomfortable with being in close proximity to possible man-on-man fun that you do not ask for an invite, or if you are already on the list, that you let me know immediately so that I can give your place to someone else.
I know that man-on-man sex is not everyone's cup of tea, that is why I ask in PM before I offer invites. I do not want the bi males at the party to feel uneasy about straight people there who may have a problem with it. The idea of these parties is that a diverse spectrum of people get together and have a damn good time.... we cannot do that with homophobes in the building. Sorry to put it bluntly, but that's the way it is!
In edit:
I have updated the list. I have placed it in the first post on this thread so people can keep up with it easily. I am still awaiting some PMs before I add some more names
. I will update it regularly. Please let me know if I have made any mistakes or if I have forgotten someone! I only got to chameleons on a monday so i can watch the men playing
well my opinion for what its worth is its not just single guys who are time wasters we have been stood up by couples as well, one couple who didn't turn up even have the nerve to tell everyone i was a single guys saying i was the fem half of a couple and it was me who never went to the arranged meet
But the real question in hand is not if they turn up but their attitude and i'm sorry to say IN MY EXPERIENCE u will find what happened to u typical of single men, again IN MY EXPERIENCE single men do not care what the woman get out of the meet they are there to cum and go most want a bj and a shag and sod the womans needs, now b4 all u guys jump on me i have not shagged evey man on this site and can only judge by the ones i have played with which i have 2 admit is a fair few
also wanted to add i have not found this of all guys i have met just most of them
But the real question in hand is not if they turn up but their attitude and i'm sorry to say IN MY EXPERIENCE u will find what happened to u typical of single men, again IN MY EXPERIENCE single men do not care what the woman get out of the meet they are there to cum and go
most want a bj and a shag and sod the womans needs, now b4 all u guys jump on me i have not shagged evey man on this site and can only judge by the ones i have played with which i have 2 admit is a fair few also wanted to add i have not found this of all guys i have met just most of them
