Quote by SXBOY
go on a train journey and shag away in the loos
apparently virgin trains toilets are the biggest
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Try a club or better still get somewhere to live where u can accom people lol
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Quote by andyjohnny
Interesting replies looks as if quite likely to affect relationship, but there are many people who are not put off at all. They just see it as part of the package, something to deal with and move on. Really encouraged to hear these thoughts and there is quite likely to be others with really useful advice so feel free to post.
Great site this - thanks everyone
andyjohnny
I think if your already in a relationship and ur partners get depressed most will stand by you and help u thro it because there is love already there and they know the real person inside, but be honest how many of us would get into a relationship, (keeping in mind when a relationship is new u wont love this person yet or even know them that well) knowing they suffer from depression if u understand what depression really is, i think most see depression as someone who mopes around and crys a lot but is far deeper than that, there may be months where the person never even leaves the house, lots may self harm, be moody/violant, how many would really go into a new relationship knowing that? i think not many
i suffered from depression for many many years and tho i still feel down from time to time i'm not to bad now lol personally i would not recomend having a child if u are feeling depressed as the lack of sleep will only make u feel worse, and i used 2 find myself getting very short with the kids which is not fair on them and leaving my hubbie to deal with them which was not fair on him, i think it would put many people off going into a relationship, my hubby has been on the edge with me many times and i believe its only cause he already loved me and understood what i had been thro and why i felt the way i did he has stayed, i think if u meet somebody new it would be easy to push them away b4 u get close enough for them to want to help u thro it, i know theres no right and wrong and we all feel different but thats just what i believe from my experiences
Quote by clair
Hi I'm clair AKA (Saucyminx)
Wanted to introduce myself and get a bit of advice while i'm at it (not at it literally!!!)
A couple I know recently introduced me to swinging and I loved it. logged onto your website and thought I'd look at a few ads before doing my own.
Unfortunately got a bit concerned. being a single gir it's all a bit daunting anyway, but seeing all the comments about non genuine people (pic collectors and the like) spooked me and being such a novice I have no idea how to tell the difference between the virtuous##!?? from those full of Shite.
thought I'd ask for some tips.
If i was you i'd go to a few of the munches, there are a lot of single women on this site and other women will let u know who they have met that are nice we do try and look out for each other lol i find the best way to know who is genuine is by word of mouth, plus tho who go to the munches are usually genuine, but as suggested b4 hand always meet in a public place and always have someone know where u are, if i was u i'd give the that person a call infront of your meet saying u have arrived etc so he knows someone knows where u are
and i always suggest that u only meet 4 a drink first meet, purly because its easier to tell someone they not ur type on messenger etc that face to face, usually people meet 4 a drink with the view to seeing how it goes but be honest with urself after a night out with him can u really turn round to him and say sorry ur not my type i'm going home? if the answers yes then fine but if u feel funny/nervous about that then make it clear first meets for a drink only. Clubs are a good place to go as a single woman as well, cause they are a safe place with lots of people about and others will always help u out if things get out of hand. Quote by rachel-lane
i think the mother should be in the dock for letting their children sleep in the same bed as a grown man :shock: and if any man in joe public had a load of swings and slides in his back garden, and had kids sleep in the same bed as him would be hanging from the nearest lamp post in a week. but the jury has found him not guilty so he,s not guilty. but my god he looks like a real life bogey man to me.
i totally agree with u, i have always said i think hes not guilty, people are and always have been after his money, ever since that first woman accused him and settled out of court i thought he was inocent, what kind of mother takes money of a man who she says has had sex with her child in order to keep him out of prison?
Quote by piercedJon
Arrr but due to the fact the CSA is designed to transfer money from the non-resident to the resident parent its in a womans finantial interest to give less access or allow day time access while retaining the night/bed time... even with 50/50 split the money goes to the one with the child benifit book... so you could have a resident parent on, or having, millions and the non resident on a low wage still transfering money to the resident... the CSA is not about support, its about moving money from one to the other not about sharing time or distributing money so both parents can support and care for the child.
know a couple of dads who actuially have more time with the children than the mum, but as the kids are dropped of in the evening and then bedded at the mums the csa gives her the money... stupid huh!
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The only thing the CSA is interested in is saving themselves money, let be honest in most marrage break ups (and yes i know this don't aply to all) the woman has the kids and is on benifits while staying at home 2 look after them, while the father goes out to work, there for by taking as much money of him as possable its saving the CSA money as they use the fathers money to replace theirs, its nothing 2 do with who had more rights its all about saving them money, u try going out to work if ur the mother and see if they still want 2 fight to get child support off the dad!!!...no u have 2 fight for it then
Quote by bluexxx
What an odd question :shock:
Anyways... that aside, I'd say that nothing really looks like the real thing, so what you need is about 10 guys to cum at once over your wife while you take the pics.
Easy really. I look forward to reading your ad
sound advice as usual there blue lol
Quote by blonde
Stay off the alcohol, caffeine, sugars, bread and combinations of starchy yeasty foods.
Drink only water, eat good clean fresh fruit and veg.
Don't cheat and you will be slim and bright but you may not necessarily have a lot of stamina.
....................... and you will definately be as miserable as sin !!!!!!!
lol thats for sure
My advice is do not cut back to much or u will not stick to it!!
believe me i have been there, the only reason i put any of my weight back on is cause i was down all the time and fed up with being hungry u can only cope with it got so long
Quote by CiscoCat6k
Some twats just sent me a virus
So anyone who was on my messenger and was sent the link i am really sorry i didn't know what it was and it just went thro all my contacts str8 away b4 i had chance to stop it
again sorry
best be off and get this fixed lol
P.S i didn't call u all losers either that went thro with the link lol
Let me know if you need any help cleaning this mess up.... :shock: :shock:
This offer is for all SH members not just NN.
Also if you want advice on how to stop this from happening again EVEN if you click on the link. There are other ways other than Anti-Virus to protect you and your systems.
*Me hates AV - have to always wait to get infected THEN they have an antidote** :fuckinghell: :fuckinghell:
:taz:Thanx for the offer but its gone now lucky for me my hubbies a pc wiz lol
Quote by Mikehboy19
My mate used to be extremely overweight, your talking like 21 stone for a 5'6 bloke so i hope you dont take offense. He kinda got into the wrong croud and got hooked onto speed. Its not the best thing. heck its far from that in my opinion, but you do loose weight extremely quickly. He is a skinny little tweed now, changed soooo much. But saying to you "go take speed" isnt really good advice is it. Maybe someone else can help you who has actually been through the weight loss scene.
:shock: bet the mods will love that one lol
last year i join a slimming club and a gym and lost nearly 7 stone going from a size 22 to a size 14, i have since put a bit back on tho lol, i swapped my usual beer to some low carb stuff they sell at asda and drink gin and slimline tonic in pubs, u don't have 2 go without to loose weight just make a few changes, the best thing 4 weight loose is exercise, since i stopped going 2 the gym i have put nearly 2 stone back on so it really does work.
Quote by Vicky_uk
Think its gone through Davidn48's too he called me a loser :shock:
I didnt get any link though
lol sorry shouldn't laugh, it comes thro calling u a loser then send a link, if u get it don't click it
Quote by blonde
Babe. help ?
U r on my messenger.............. so what should I do ? what shouldnt I do ?
Please say it slowly and clearly.... without the technical terms !!!!!
Thanx babe xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
ur not on my messenger so don't worry lol
Some twats just sent me a virus
So anyone who was on my messenger and was sent the link i am really sorry i didn't know what it was and it just went thro all my contacts str8 away b4 i had chance to stop it so long as u didn't click the link u will be ok
again sorry
best be off and get this fixed lol
P.S i didn't call u all losers either that went thro with the link lol
So anyone who was on my messenger and was sent the link i am really sorry i didn't know what it was and it just went thro all my contacts str8 away b4 i had chance to stop it
so long as u didn't click the link u will be okagain sorry
best be off and get this fixed lol
P.S i didn't call u all losers either that went thro with the link lol
Quote by cc_7up
Thank you!!
It's all I want really.
You see we got together by splitting poeple up so we only had each other and friends together!
Now what!!!
How did you lose him? Bit careless wasn't it.
Is this like,'what goes around comes around'?
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cc_7up
i was thinking that myself but didn't want to say but seeing as u have here goes lol
i don't understand how anyone could want 2 stettle down with someone who left their partner for u i mean they have shown total lack of commitment right from the start
