Quote by Wishmaster
This is the most outragious aspect of the law when it comes to fathers rights. If you are married when your child is born then you both have equal parental responsibility and access can easily be achieved. But when a deceitful, spiteful ex refuses to even name her child's father on the birth certificate and then subsequently does NOT marry him before the birth the poor guy has a zeros chance in hell of getting anything close to a suitable arrangement for access.......... except when the 'Mother' wants financial support from him.
Blimey there deffo some passion in ur writing lol
i do agree with what u say but if u read down this thread i'll think u'll find more have commented on how the fathers don't even want to see the kids than from men saying they can't and want to, and i think u'll find this is commen i know lots of cplz who have broken up and the dads seen to forget they have kids, or just leave like its taken for granted its the womans job to have the kids after a break up, i think in a break up the job of the kids is a 50/50 and any woman who refused the kids dad access is daft as far as i can see i mean free babysitter ffs lol
I think u also have to take into account of what happens behind closed door sometimes its not as easy as hes the dad he has rights, sometimes u have 2 think about why they have split in the first place, things aren't always as clear as they may seem
encounters in and around newport area in south wales drop me a line :!: 
so while it was going thro court he'd just come round 4 a cup of tea for 10 mins a cpl times a month and to him that counted as spending time with his kid, while he was doing this he met another woman and took her and her kids into his home 
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hope u get it sorted soon