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naughtynymphos1
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 52
UK

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Quote by Versace Vase
You sayin i aint a bi fem byatch. surprised
teach yourself, :cry:
see youve had plenty of takers here tonight, and all you had to do was watch the Vase and learn.
On behalf of all single males, let this be a lesson to you, now ok this attempt failed, however if you keep pestering the couples like this, some of em are bount to give in. Its so damn easy.
Ps and it does help if shes damn fit..
You see guys still tryin lol

:shock:
WTF?! loon
Well i used to like Partners a year or two ago i'd have recomended it to anyone, but after the last time we went i'd never go back again, its really gone down hill in my opinion
There are many genuine people on this site i have met loads but here a tip for you........ coming on here moaning noone will meet you and asking if we all genuine or not wont get you a meet wink
Quote by PoloLady
Have you been contacted by someone who says something along the lines of....
Hi I am Blarbert, aged 39 from Whereveritis....
You then look at their photo and think...
FFS, life has been fucking rough on you! :shock:
I am constantly amazed by the number of people who claim to be 40ish (or whatever age) and yet appear as if they would not struggle to convince their local bus driver into giving them OAP concession.
Is it just that I am a poor judge when guessing people's age?

guilty as charged lol
look theres nothing wrong with fibbing about ones age ok wink
Happy Birthday you gorgeous hunk of a man, oh and happy Birthday to mal too :lol2:
Hope you have a great day and that sarah bough herself something nice for you wink
kiss
Quote by Shaz_n_Tony
The Dentist...........
I am sitting here in absolute agony having just woken my long suffering wife and explained I have to go to the dental hospital today as I can no longer stand the pain....
I have literaly been banging my head against solid objects in an effort to draw my attention away from the pain....
I just dont go to the dentist because I am that scared :shock: :shock:
Just wondered if I was the only one......

see now this is the kind of attitude i just do not get, people will sit for day even weeks in pain and not go get it sorted, ok so going to the dentist isn't the nicest of things but whats the worse they can do, seriously!!! stick a few needles in your gums ok its a bit painful bit only for a few seconds then its gone, but sitting at home the pain last for weeks :shock:
you go figure confused
Well for Tony its a severe Phobia, I have been with him and he shook from head to foot from start to finish, the sweat rolled of him, and with the monitor on his finger his heart rate went right up and his blood pressure went up to, It took them 45 minutes just to get 3 needles in is gum and about another 1/2 hour to pull 2 teeth out, I felt so sad that i couldn't do something to make him feel better sad I just wanted to cuddle him.
I have quite a bad phobia of spiders buts its not got a patch on how bad Tony is with dentist's :shock:
I suppose its kind of like thinking of your worst phobia then jumping in a tank full of it confused
Shaz x
i do totally understand that but to me its a pain thing, i can't see the point in putting up with the pain when someone can help you!
Makes you wonder why people are scared of the dentist tho, do you think they had a bad experiance as a child or something? i mean you don't just wake up one day and think 'hey i don't like the dentist no more' do you?
Quote by Steve_Mids
The Dentist...........
I am sitting here in absolute agony having just woken my long suffering wife and explained I have to go to the dental hospital today as I can no longer stand the pain....
I have literaly been banging my head against solid objects in an effort to draw my attention away from the pain....
I just dont go to the dentist because I am that scared :shock: :shock:
Just wondered if I was the only one......

see now this is the kind of attitude i just do not get, people will sit for day even weeks in pain and not go get it sorted, ok so going to the dentist isn't the nicest of things but whats the worse they can do, seriously!!! stick a few needles in your gums ok its a bit painful bit only for a few seconds then its gone, but sitting at home the pain last for weeks :shock:
you go figure confused
:doh:
i though it was for next week lol
if you fancy it next week Dark i'm still free friday or saturday wink
Quote by lavabubble
also im fed up with being told i have no place in the bbw room unless you are over a size 22 or something. im actually bi so can i not be in there as a admiror of bbw in my own right????

There is an anti-thin feeling about the bbw room, whether thats suggestive of some people's actual attitudes in real life or just some way of protecting against the abusive idiots that seem to pass through the room from time to time is hard to tell. I am bbw and into bbw but don't have any issues with women's size end of story, the partner I had before the beloved was about a size 10 after a big dinner wink I would rather know who someone is rather than what size clothes they wear and make my decisions about them based on that any day of the week!
i have also noticed that a lot of the women in the bbw get very uncomfy if a slim lady goes on cam, personally i also am not threaten or bothered by slim woman and usually watch them, i will meet anyone i get on with be them a size 8, 18 or 28 size is not a issue to me
Quote by Darkfire
Hiya Silver
let me see what I can do hun but i'm not sure if i can make it yet
x

let me know if you decide to go i may join you if thats ok biggrin
your more than welcome to stay here saturday night if you do go cool
Quote by Darkfire
NN, ffs! we siad we'd banned ourselves from BBW / fat threads lol lol
smackbottom rotflmao

sorry i just can't resist lol
Quote by bsubverted
Something to consider: Extraverts are often mistaken for having confidence because of their outward nature... however that is not necessarily a sign of confidence...

actually i think most poeple like that have little or no confidance and its just a show they put on to make people think they are happy, a truely confidant person don't feel like they need to be the centre of attention.
Quote by fem_4_taboo
NN i couldnt have put it all better,
i along with you have been in the bbw room and when the cam is on sometimes get the " fem your beautiful what you doing in this room" what exactly that meens i dont know???
same as when i tell a guy im chatting to if were considering meeting that im far from slim etc , they say ive seen ya pics dont put yourself down!!!!! hello i wasnt i was just saying what i look like, im not offended if im not someones type but im not putting myself down.
if the guys are in the bbw room does that not meen they like bbw? therefore why would they say i shouldnt be in there? i am bbw im not ashamed to say that along with the fact im blonde etc .
but to go into the bbw room and for people to say that then surely they are saying bbw are un sexy?
also im fed up with being told i have no place in the bbw room unless you are over a size 22 or something. im actually bi so can i not be in there as a admiror of bbw in my own right????
like i said NN said it so much better.

PMSL
I know what you mean i have many time been told i shouldn't be 'hiding' in the BBW room and thats i'm not even fat, why do men think the way to pull a bbw is to tell them they not fat lol
And i have also been told 'not to put myself down' when i have told told guys i am fat, i think like you fem, telling someone i'm of a larger build is not putting myself down its being honest, i am big so why would i say other wise?
On that note i was just wondering something......fancy a shag fem :lol2:
Quote by Darkfire
i used the bbw chat room a lot and have found that most guys go in there cause they think its a easy shag room, cause somehow bigger women are desparate and will agree to meet easier, personally i think very few of them actually like bigger ladies its just a case of 'any holes a goal' ...
i wouldn't shag someone a didn't find attractive just for the sake of having a shag so make you wonder who the real desparate ones are wink

NN i feckin luv you I do kiss tell it like it is Gal :thumbup:
What?? You basing yer judgements on the reactions of wank-merchants in the chatroom?? I cannot imagine two smart cookies doing that!! Tell me I'm wrong! There are some of us with a brain ya know!! smile
Its not justwank merchants in the chatroom Choon, and unfortunately it is my oppinion that *some* BBWs are easy targets for the every holes a goal club - because like everyone else, perhaps more so because of self-image and self-esteem issues, there is an innate need to feeldesirable, sexy, confident and wanted. I've seen it so many times it makes me sick.
:thumbup:
Personally i think you will find that BBWs on here will be harder to meet than other woman for the simple fact that they know most guys see them as a easy lay and do not what to meet the 'any holes a goal' type man so i think you'll find that many are very cautious of who they meet.
I know for a fact that i am far from a easy lay when it comes to meeting people off here, mainly cause i still have my likes and dislikes and no matter what you think of me if i don't fancy you its not going to happen lol
but also for the other reasons i will not meet just for the sack of having a shag and i will not let you meet me for the same reasons if i do not feel someone likes me for who i am then i will not meet, i never have been or doubt i ever will be that desparate for sex wink
Quote by musketeer
Mr. or Mrs. Burger-Kinig

Quote by musketeer
can lead to trousers being ordered from the Bell Tent Company.

See they are just th kind of comment that i am talking about, why does being over weight mean you sit all day in burger king stuffing your face?
why does it mean you have to order you clothes from a tent shop?
i find such comment very imature from a man of your age and when i looked at your profile i expect it to be one of a young guy!!
Quote by musketeer
I'd LIKE to be slim but for my health I don't want to be fat. And fat IS NOT the same as being generously proportioned. Fat is fat!

oh but this leads us to the question of what is fat?
fat in whos eyes or opinion?
what you may call fat other may not confused
some guys may look at a size 14 and think shes fat while other may look at a size 16/18 and think shes not, i think this is one of the subjects where you could argue all day on the pros and cons at the end of the day so long as your happy sod everyone else people either take you for who you are or look the other way.
As for the health issue, i'm over weight i run around after 3 kids, have a very pysically demanding full time job and a husband whos health is not 100% at the moment and i very much consider myself fit and healthy being over weight does not mean your ready for the knackers yeard you know wink
Quote by Darkfire
NN i feckin luv you I do kiss tell it like it is Gal :thumbup:

oh well you know me never was one for holding back with my words lol
Personally i think body size does matter to most people, being of a larger build myself i used the bbw chat room a lot and have found that most guys go in there cause they think its a easy shag room, cause somehow bigger women are desparate and will agree to meet easier, personally i think very few of them actually like bigger ladies its just a case of 'any holes a goal' i have come to the dessision for two reasons:
Firstly cause of the way the gusy attention turn when a slim woman goes in the bbw room and goes on cam, i have seen such comments as 'its about time we see a decent body in here' and 'wow lovely u really put the other women to shame' and these are from guys who go in the bbw room at least semi regular and claim to like bigger women when they after a shag!!
And secondly cause of the abuse you get if you do dare actually turn a guy down in there, i have had guys say thing like 'what your turning me down who the hell do you think you are?!!' and well your just a fat cow anyway i can do muc better than you' and i get such comments on a regular basis.
But i do find comfort in knowing that even tho i may be fat and ugly i wouldn't shag someone a didn't find attractive just for the sake of having a shag so make you wonder who the real desparate ones are wink
i agree it is their choice of wether to meet single guys or not but is there really any need to use abusive words such as 'scumbag' just cause they not what they are looking for? :shock:
Personally i think not
If someone was rude about another person openly on the forum cause of their age, sex, colour or religon they would be banned, so why is it ok to single out single guys and be rude about them?
my daughters text messages are totally unreadable, even if she only sends 5 words she still has to shorten it to a unreadable launguage :shock:
i don't even bother reading threads on here wtitten in such a way, and while we on the subject why is it all of a sudden messenger text is all pics and symbols, i fooking hate it when you talking on messenger and you have to work out what they saying thro verious pics and symbols confused
Personally my opinion for what its worth, ok i know not a lot lol, is you wont get much interest from the regular, genuine people on here as you are not well known enough, people arn't going to put their names down for a party at a house noone really known as we don't even know if your genuine, this whole thread seems a bit dodgy to me, no date or anything not even a idea of how many will be going, before i put my name down for a party i'd at least want to know it was a genuine offer
we are a couple and i/we have met loads of people from here as a couple and as a single female, the hubby has met a fair few couples and women on his own too.