its not the saying hi i find a problem its getting people to talk to you after that, in some rooms all you see if loads of hi's and bye's and nothing else past that, untill you put your cam on then every guy in the room wants to talk to you lol
If a stranger smiles at me i usually smile back then spend the rest of the day wondering who it was lol
someone asked to see my crumb catchers once :shock:
I have to admit i look at pics first, for me if there is no attraction theres no point looking any further, so for me its
1 Pics
2 Age
3 Location
4 Status
5 What they are looking for
i havnt read all the replies to this post but is it a subject always raises issues with me.
My husband was attacked by a gang of teenagers a few years back, simple because we told them to stop using the stair ways in our flats as somewhere to come and meet their mates and smoke dope and drink, we used to have to put up with this most nights, anyway one nightwe told them to clear off as usual and the kids decided to have a go back, most just verbally and throwing things but one lad who thought he was big and cleaver with his mates went to hit my husband over the back of the head with a bottle, as i shouted him he turned round and naturally lifted his arm to protect his head and ended up having his elbo very badly smashed, after the x ray the consultant said the bone was so badly shattered they wanted to amputate it from just above the elbo, luckly the surgeon he had said due to my husbands age he wanted to try and save the arm, it took four operations which included having the bones pinned together a metal plate and a bone graft taken from his hip to save his arm and even now he only has about 60% use/movement in his arm and hand, the lad who did it dropped his collage id card as he ran off and he was already well known to the police they knew him as soon as they saw his id card, he was only 17 and already had a criminal record that included, GBH, ABH, armed robbery (he mugged a old guy at knife point) to name a few, yet had never had a custodial sentence before, after it went to court with my husband he served 18 months, do i think he should have gone to prison? yes i do if he old enough to do the crime hes old enough to serve the time, maybe if he had been locked up when he was younger after attacking someone or mugging some innocent old guy then my husband would have a fully working arm now!!
i've only been to Utopia 3 times, not a club i like much to be honest which is why i've only been 3 times lol
The best bit was.....I think he was serious !!!
:lol: 
i think guys go for younger women cause lets face it they just look better naked i know i had a better body at that age than i have now 
