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naughtynymphos1
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 51
UK
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i have to say i agree, im a woman im part of a couple but we also meet as singles, however i only meet single guys on my own and i get lots of comments from couples when i say this in a almost you have to meet couples sort of way, i have seen many nasty and piss taking comments towards singles in the chat rooms and the one that always gets me is when people look at guys wanking on cam and you get the 'oh not another wanker' comment, yet ive never heard anyone moaning about women with their tits out on cam11 
i also have to agree that most of these comments come from male half of couples, of course im not speaking of all couples but i think a lot of male half of couples think they are somehow superior to other men because 'they have a woman to offer' and that somehow gives them the rights to be obnoxious and rude to other men, as i said not all but i have seen it a lot
i also have to agree that most of these comments come from male half of couples, of course im not speaking of all couples but i think a lot of male half of couples think they are somehow superior to other men because 'they have a woman to offer' and that somehow gives them the rights to be obnoxious and rude to other men, as i said not all but i have seen it a lot 
interesting question is tho......what size does a bbw start from? because you can ask 10 people this and get several diffarent answers, i have offen asked this and have been told its a 16+ but also have been told that bbw id a 20+ and as a size 16 is average now days its not classed as big any more? but a guy once said he didn't class anyone under a size 26 as a bbw, but then i was turned down by a guy who said he didnt like bbw's and im a size 12 ish (ok a big 12 lol), so i think opinions on what a bbw is all comes down to personal taste depending on what size you like, the bigger or smaller you like women will effect what you class a bbw as.
what really annoys me is when people say...so what all big people are beautiful :doh: to me the phase big beautiful women mean big IS beautiful not all people people are beautiful that would just be silly to suggest everyone of any size is good looking lol
I think most women use the term BBW just as a way to let other know they are a + size that all.
I think most women use the term BBW just as a way to let other know they are a + size that all.
i can understand where this posts coming from, even in the swinging scene women who are sexually open seem to get the 'slut' stigma, i hate guys who refure to woman as sluts and whores just because they arnt scared to go for what they want, even if its not ment in a nasty way, im well awear some people use this kind of chat as forplay etc but it still makes me cringe, i also think its kind of hard on here to admit you like lots of sex/people gang bangs etc and still have guys treat you respectfully, even tho we are only here for the sex i hate guys who talk to you like your just a hole to get their d**ks wet in and not like a person, i think thats why i stay away from the subject of what turns me on when i talk to men lol but if she wants to do something and is only holding back becaause of the 'slut' stigma i'd say go for it at the end of the day its only a word and if they people involved make you feel uncomfy you dont have to meet them again 
i go to chams as a single female and i have to say i totally agree with you, men never come over and talk to me unless they know me or im on the roof chatting in a group, am i a minger or are they just nervous i have no idea lol but if i do go into a play room they swamp round like flies round s**t :shock: i personally think men just can't be arsed to make the effort and would sooner just follow you about till you get on your back
Quote by midsprincess
You know... I don't think anyone is 'too minging' for swinging... there's someone for everyone.
ive met a few
a bar of soap dont cost that much does it?
we still laugh about our very first meet - a guy easily 15 years older than his prof, dressed as man from oxfam complete with bicycle clips. When he took out a half smoked roll up from his shirt pocket and asked for a light i beat a hasty retreat to the ladies room, phoned my man and said im not comin back in there u better get out quick. he didnt need tellin twice.
yeah i have met a few minging people in that way, had a few that was in need of a good bath, when it comes to looks tho i also think that theres someone for everyone
Quote by deancannock
pinching a couple of thoughts from others threads really. It does seem quite a few people don't like idea of pictures being taken or a cam on at a party etc etc. Now although this is fully acceptable, it does make we think why ? Most will say because they don't want work or family knowing that they are swingers !! Now swinging is not illegal activity, and it is all done with the consent of all involved. Why are we so worried? What are we so scared of ? And yes I am including myself in this as non of my friends or family are aware, of this part of my life.
Just makes me wonder really.... If we all accepted ourselves and acceted we are swingers and celebrated the fact, MAYBE others would see swingers in a differant light. MAYBE they would become more accepting of the lifestyle. MAYBE we have to accept ourselves, before we can expect others to accept us !!
Just a thought.
speaking for myself only, my main worry is that my children find out, it only takes the wrong person to know what your upto and they talk about it infront of their kids who in return tell my kids etc etc now i know swinging isnt illegal but that dont mean i want my children to know what mum and dad is upto and even more so i dont want them being bullied at school for it!
i don't think any distance is to far for the right person, saying that i wouldnt go far for a first meet but if i had met them b4 and i knew i liked them and they was genuine im make the effort, as for to close i wouldnt meet anyone if their location came up as 0 miles away, i have met people who are really close b4 and i dont like it when i bump into them when taking the nipper to school etc each to their own tho i guess
i think it depends how far away you have traveled, i dont drive and have met a few guys that live quite away from me so have had to get the train, they have let me stay over night because if they didn't i wouldnt have gone lol i went to plymouth from dudley by train to meet one guy and tho i like to be fair theres no way i'd have paid for the train and to stay in a hotel after while he just sat at home, waited for me to turn up, had his shag and threw me out lol if your only local tho i think its usual you go home after
Quote by jameybruce
and I include myself on the 'real man' list but haven't managed to get permission yet
Anyway, Mrs JB has gone with daughters to see Boyzone and there's no way I'd be dragged along. I saw Westlife under protest last year and even Take That. But there's just a little undercurrent mentioning it to friends - aren't they just for girls? (or those of a less than manly disposition!). Or would a real man just go anyway and be above it all?
well i'm a woman and theres no way you'd get me to see any of them bands :shock:
Quote by Sassy-Seren
I need your advice on positions when the guy is, shall we say, extremely large!
I have a friend who has become a new FWB ( friend with benefits ) and when he dropped his pants last week I almost fainted! :shock: First of all I thought :shock: then :scared: but then :twisted: :lickface: was more like it. However, the 'normal' missionary position was very uncomfortable for me and more than a little painful.
Have any of you found a position that's easier for penetration without it hurting? I know me on top is out of the question now ( pity coz I love that one) so any suggestions for alternatives are very VERY welcome!
I'm off to buy some extra large condoms for a start!
i must admit i have been with a few 'big lads' and it is very uncomfy and painful at times, not matter what possision you get into once they start getting excited and banging away
its going to hurt, my advice is find someone smaller lol 
Quote by venus68
who fancies a bj and pl(pussy licking) competition. the prize is u get an orgasm of ya life lol
if enought are up for it we will do at 8 pm in curtained area.
put ya name down for sucker being sucked licker being licked
ohh im in two minds about this really want to say yes but a bit nervous about who i'm going to end up sucking lol if i can pick my own victims count me in :twisted:
This is one of the reasons I think blindfolds should be used. If people are judging aesthetically then even if you try not to it's almost impossible not to be swade by it. It has to be by feel and touch alone. Now you come to say that, maybe blindfolds should be optional for the lickers and suckers too lol. Who wants to be my cock guide? lol
oh i dunno, even blindfolded i'm not sure i'd want to suck a ugly buggers cock :lol2:
