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naughtynymphos1
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 51
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Quote by diezelSo say i as well Naughty. I shall pm you for a bit of info as well
Oh thought i'd pulled then lol ok info i can do
Quote by Ego_kai_esy
We've been going to clubs (mind you not very often) for the past two years and we certainly think that there is not enough action going on. I mean, we go there in order to have special fun and enjoy ourselves, not have a drink (we can do that in the pub).
Sometimes it feels like it's quite cliquey, i.e. that people go there to have a drink between them before they go home with their swinging mates to have fun.
We've only been to Partners in NW so we don't know if it's the same everywhere, but we are thinking of looking around simply hoping that we can find a bit more active environment"
First time we went to partners was about 5 years ago and it used to be a great club always lots of people there and always lots of play, even tho there was several clubs closer to us we made the effort to drive there as we enjoyed it, over the past years it had gone really down hill, last time we went the club was all but empty so we havn't been for a while, was wondering if it had picked up a bit but obviously not lol
Quote by Freckledbird
some couples have looked at my site,and can only think ,everybody on here are dreamers, don,t actualy do anything!
would lke to hear your thoghts o this subject
thanks welshroberto,,,,,
My thoughts? You're wrong.
I agree, so what are you saying? if people look at your add and don't reply they are not genuine? maybe noone who has looked fancies you or found you interesting enough to reply to!!
P.S You havn't met me so does that make you a dreamer? ;)
Funny you should ask that because it was only the other day we was talking about gays and lesbians at work and as you'd expect all the guys cringed at the though of two men so i said "oh i best you wouldnt mind if it was two women?" and one of the guys said "i think two women together is sick, its not natural and makes my stomach turn!" to which i nearly fell over because i have never heard a guy say he didn't like the though of two women before, it is quite unusual i think
When we first started going to club about 7 years ago there was much more sex than there is now days, when we first started swinging we only met as a couple and even as a couple i never failed to get sex at a club, over the years our 'rules' have changed and we now meet as a couple and also as singles, i go to clubs as a single female offen and i have to admit now days i come back more times having not played than having played, and its supposed to be easy for single woman :shock: 
Last time we went to a club together we spend most of the night chatting to a couple who we really got on with only for them to turn round and say "oh we don't come for the sex we just enjoy the social side"
which, ok, each to their own i also like the social side, but to me the socials are for the social side and clubs are for playing, obviously just my opiniuon tho
Last time we went to a club together we spend most of the night chatting to a couple who we really got on with only for them to turn round and say "oh we don't come for the sex we just enjoy the social side"
which, ok, each to their own i also like the social side, but to me the socials are for the social side and clubs are for playing, obviously just my opiniuon tho i think it depends who you are and what your looking for, if your a single male or a couples looking for single bi fems it will take you a while to meet anyone, simply because there are just so many men and not enough single woman to go round everyone who wants to meet them, im am the female half of a couple whos meets single men as a single woman so i have to be honest when i say i don't find it hard to meet people at all lol
Also as its been suggested before go to the socials, i know a lot don't because they are just after sex but one night in a pub wont kill you and the come back you get from it will make it worth it, if i'm meeting a single guy im more likely to ask one i've already seen in the flesh and know that i like than just ask a stranger off here that may not even turn up! just something to think about
Also as its been suggested before go to the socials, i know a lot don't because they are just after sex but one night in a pub wont kill you and the come back you get from it will make it worth it, if i'm meeting a single guy im more likely to ask one i've already seen in the flesh and know that i like than just ask a stranger off here that may not even turn up! just something to think about
I have been to both clubs and chameleons is by far better than Utopia, when i went to Utopia we had been swinging about 5 years and wasnt new to the club scean at all but i found it very had to interact with people even as far as talking to them, so i don't think it would be very good for a new couples who don't really know how clubs work, i personally would recomend chameleons, even more so for a first time couple, over Utopia
Quote by DeeCee
here is my view BASED ON THE ARTICLE....
it seems obvious to me that the court failed to accept his "mitigation" ie. his explaination that the sending of the vid was by appears that he called her earlier and should have been aware that she was a stranger... therefore why send the clip???
he seemingly sent the vid to two other women ( he entered not guilty pleas which were accepted by the prosecution) but that doesnt mean to say that that he didnt actually send them. If he did send the video to these other women doesnt that show some sort of pattern?
Knowing what i do about the criminal Justice system im bound to say that this is the sort of sexual case where there should be some longer term procedure in place to protect the public. Maybe its a little harsh but i think it has some merit.
To me , he seems like he's the modern day equivalent of a "flasher"....a pretty disturbed bunch of people!!!
never though about it like that but its a very good point, and how does he know how old these women are? hes probabily calling the numbers first to make sure the phone belongs to a woman before he sends the clips, it was only a cpl weeks that my 15 year old daughter had a porn clip sent to her via blue tooth on a train, i suppose some people may think its funny to open their blue tooth and send everyone on their list porn but when its going to kids its a diffarent story.
Quote by staffcple
Scary stuff. A bit strong to put him on the register though.
Depends really i think, If the number rang is one digit different to his girlfriends number fair enough, easy mistake to make, especially when drunk. If it was a completely different number which wouldnt have been in his phone anyway, that puts a different slant on things.
It says that he called the number first hung up then sent the message, so even if the number was one digit diffarent seems very unlikely that he's going to call the same wrong number twice by mistake to me? even more so when drunk :dunno:
Quote by t-and-k
I am a student nurse and, if im honest i think i would find it difficult if i could visibly see things but otherwise, bring it on!
I have stretch marks, cellulite and a jelly belly and hope people would see me for the person i am rather than what i look like.
Ok, maybe that sounds slightly hypocritical but im sure you get my point!
xx
i must admit it does sound slightly hypocritical lol
If you want people to see you for the person you are rather than your looks why can't you do it in return?
Quote by Smooth2
Mother Nature has been unkind to some swingers giving us mastectomies, ileostomies or other surgical procedures which change our appearance a little but not us as people. Would YOU be comfortable with a partner who had one of these? Please be honest.
if you really love someson then something like that shouldn't matter as far as how you feel about them.
Its funny i should find this this now becaue is was only the other day i went to a club and there was a woman there who had had a masectomis, she had only had the one breat removed and she was walking about with her towel round her waiste and nothing on top and i remember looking at her and thinking 'god how brave is she?' to me she looked fine it was obvious what what wrong with her and i doubt any decent person would have said anything but i really don't think if i was in her situation i could go to such places, so in my opinion its good we are all diffarent and no matter what if your happy keep swinging :thumbup:
Quote by venus68
suzieuk every 3 months? Is that normal? I'm asking because I don't know more than anything else.
i go about every 3 months too, i don't think theres such a thing as a normal amount of times to go, i guess its how offen you feel you want to go to be on the safe side, i think people who always use condoms tend to go less offen, but as we all know you still run a risk, all be it a lower one, if you do use them because theres always the chance of them splitting or coming off plus what a lot of people tend to forget is theres a few STD's that are passed thro oral, which leads me to another question, how many of you who insist on condoms use condoms/dental dams for oral? ;)
Quote by bouncy332
i have incredibly sensitive nips n when treated right can orgasm through nipple play alone
although do get very pissed off with guys that ain't gotta clue how to treat nips ouch
i'm with you on that one, why do men think nipples should be treat like the tuning button on the radio? :shock:
Quote by bustylady40
When shopping for lingerie in the company of my 10 year old daughter, I'd purposly look at thongs, hold them up and ask her opinion, I used to get "oh Mum" but now she justs looks bored, must find something else to do.
xxxxx
my kids are like that too, years ago when i used to go shopping i'd pick up the tampons and towels and yell down the isle at the girls "which do you want this month?" waving both in the air, was funny when they went red but now they just look at me as if to say "aint you out grown that one yet?" so i stopped, seemed to loose its fun lol
I'll le you have that one for in a couple years busty
Quote by bouncy332
I would never go to a club and do gang bangs, group sex etc unprotected but if i'm going to be honest i will go bear back with guys i regard as friends and meet regular, ok i know they have just as much chance of having something as a stranger in a club but i don't do many private meets anymore i mainly use clubs, parties now days so i'm at pretty low risk
yay finally some1 that will admit to doin bareback might of guessed you'd b the only one with big enough balls though :lol:
i will b slapping your legs for it though mrs but no doubt u will enjoy it :twisted:
don't take the risk hunny your too precious to us
Theres a lot of people that come on here and do the anti bare back threads and are totally against it that i know for a fact have had unprotected sex, one guy i met and had unprotected sex came on the last condom thread and did the high and mighty bit and a woman my husband met came on once and said that people who have unprotected sex was 'utterly selfish' when she had had bare back sex (several times)with my husband!! if theres one thing i'm not its a hypocrite or liar and people may not respect me for what i admit to but at least i give people wanting to meet me a real choice of if they want to meet and i dont say "oh yes i always use condoms"
when i don't, and you've gotta respect me for that?? :lol: My daughter's embarrassed me the other day while on the train back from birmingham, sat that all quiet she all of a sudden asked "mum whats a milf?" :shock: so though about it and though i can't say what it actually stands for to a 14 year old on a trian lol so i just said, its a term that a younger guy mainly uses towards a older woman hes attracted to....phew well done me a though i got out of that quite well lol to which she replied "oh the cheeky sod im going to kill him!!" so i said why dont tell me someones called you a milf your only 14!! she said "No Luke (and 15 year old lad that hangs about in a group of friends she has and names have been changed to protect any minors lol) said you was one"!!!!! :shock: :shock: :shock: so i said who that lad i told off the other day for shouting outside the house while i was in bed (i work nights) so she said yes to which my eldest said.....ohhhh maybe he likes dominant older woman!!!! :shock: i nearly fell off the chair lol
to which my eldest said.....ohhhh maybe he likes dominant older woman!!!! :shock: i nearly fell off the chair lol I would never go to a club and do gang bangs, group sex etc unprotected but if i'm going to be honest i will go bear back with guys i regard as friends and meet regular, ok i know they have just as much chance of having something as a stranger in a club but i don't do many private meets anymore i mainly use clubs, parties now days so i'm at pretty low risk :lol: :lol:
:lol: :lol: Quote by well_busty_babe
All I am going to say is that I had a horrific upbringing, exactly the same as my siblings did. They unfortunately turned out to be carbon copies of my parents; I on the other hand have carved out a very good life for myself.
If it is all down to upbringing, why am I not the same as the rest of my family?
i fully agree with you there WBB, i had a very bad child hood my dad was an abusive alcoholic and my mum wasn't much better i spent most of my life being shipped around other family members because social services kept taking us off our parents because of the abuse and lack of care, both me and my sister have children and tho we both drink neither of us have a drinking problem and neither of us abuse our children and have had them taken off us, i believe my childhood made me a better parent because i wanted to give my kids everything i never had and the biggest thing i could give was love, so like you said if its your upbringing why arn't i like my parents? yes your childhood does effect you my sister suffered from eating disorders for years which i believe was a cry for help but having bad things done to you does NOT mean you will turn out bad.
Quote by staffcple
Yep,
It's black and white as far as i am concerned.
Nature vs nurture.......
I do not believe for one second that people are born to become 'evil' for want of a better word. So what makes them like that? Only leaves one thing really doesn't it?
Yes its a very difficult one but i believe people are 'born evil' ok born evil is a bit strong but you know what i mean, i do not believe that a bad upbringing alone makes you bad, many people have a poor child hood and are abused etc and they manage to over come their ordeal and turn out decent people and good parents, and if you blame peoples upbringing for being 'evil' then why arn't all siblings in a family the same? if they have the same parents and are bought up the same surely they should all be 'evil' but usually thats not the case, many 'evil' people have had a perfectly normal child hood, i think its just in some people to disregard a care for others in whatever way they choose and thats not something thats instilled in you thats something that just part of you, some people have the ability to know right from wrong and can act on that to keep them on the straight and narrow and some can't, and i truely believe thats something your born with.
