I think lots of people on SH secretly are in a relationship and they won't divulge that on here or to people on here and that's their perogative.
Yes, ideally you wouldn't want to be seen as in support of someone who is cheating on their partner. But we live in a world where lots of immoral things take place such as swinging (being one of them) how can you say cheating is immoral and you don't approve? when realistically swinging is not accepted (generally) and definitely not a moral thing to do (in a lot of peoples opinions)anyway for the most part. I say live and let live.
You would probably half the members on here if they were to have the condition to join that you aren't a "cheater" so what's next "people with children" shouldn't be allowed to swing either? it's just an observation: but we put people into categories and then judge them, common habit for us human beings! lol. We're the judge, jury and executioner to all of those who don't conform to our personal preferences. BUT, No one is perfect so who gave anyone the right to judge each other in this way? As far as I am concerned cheating isn't a very nice thing but it's none of my business whether someone does it or not and I am absolutely 100% certain that a lot of GUYS on here are cheaters but you'd never know because they're NOT going to tell you because they never want to get caught.
I am not disagreeing with the opinions expressed on here so far and please don't disect and analyse what I have said, it's merely an opinion.
Hey guys, I looked up the weather forecast and it's set to stay sunny, hot and dry for at least a week only cooling down next wednesday and some light showers due next thursday! So I am hoping that everyone else, like me, is going to make the most of it! I am taking Friday and Monday off work to enjoy this heat!
I think I have said no thanks more often than had any members tell me no thanks.
But this is why I have said people should read profiles carefully: I get members who message me when I reply no asking why and usually it's because I have looked at their profile and they do not match what I am looking for at all (ie a couple and both in their 40s and both short: not what I have said I am looking for on here).
Put it this way I wouldn't message a gay man who is looking for a gay man and then get annoyed when I get told "no thanks" by him: hence why I think if you say no thanks to someone, they should 1) consider what is on your profile as there may be a reason there as to why you said no and 2) move on quickly as there's plenty of people on this website to get in touch with. I am sure there's plenty to go round.
I do think it depends the meaning depends on the person using that word.
I don't like to think of myself as a slut in a negative fashion: ie someone who is dirty/slovenly (which I certainly am not) and I don't sleep with everyone and anyone, I like to be picky to an extent and I won't do whatever requested of me regardless of if it's what I want or not: I would only do what myself and other parties involved are going to mutually enjoy.
So in terms of someone saying a slut and meaning actually a "whore" or a negative use of the word slut, I don't like it.
But as has also been said on here some people use it as a back handed compliment and a term of endearment for a sexy person who sleeps with multiple people: often called "being promiscuous" I think being called promiscuous is actually far more insulting, no one really wants to hear that; so as a back handed compliment and alternative I would prefer the word slut.
I am hoping if the weather improves next week to go to the place at watchmoor park as had a few offers for people to take me. But it'll have to be organised to an extent so that 1) the right ages guys show up 2) don't get too many show up 3) to get anyone to show up at all
sorry but as I had said before, we wanted a younger age group ie 18-40 so as much as it's ok to keep in touch about area's the reason we didn't go into too much detail of when and where on here is because we didn't want lots of ppl turning up. I am sure there's plenty of older people who go but I personally prefer younger, thanks
Hehe! That was a rather amusing read!
I def take my 3 hr sessions over a quicky! No such luck this week though! :-(
Sorry hun, keep in touch might use a different place next time, as didn't seem many places which were not in full view of passers by, but we'll def let you next time we plan to go if you keep in touch xx
I can't do wkends I'm afraid x
That is very very odd because I get my house insurance with them and it's under £300 for the year, I suppose it helps having a house alarm but I never considered it would be as steep as the quotes you got Toots, sure hope it's not when I renew and I hope I don't have the same problems with them when I come up for renewal!
ok thanks everyone! I'm not moaning about the attention. Just would have hoped people could be bothered to read my profile and see that I clearly state that I only wish to meet men and only fit and well endowed, preferably 6 ft or over, between the ages of 18-40 (max possibly 45). So the ones who clearly are not any of those things I would hope would not bother? Don't get me wrong if someone ticks most boxes and not quite "all" of them then I can't complain for them giving it a try. Plus I didn't for one minute suggest that it's only the men on this website that do that: But in my personal experience there has been far fewer women to have contacted me (which is ok, I'm happy about that) as maybe they have bothered to read my profile properly. I'm sorry I just wanted a rant so I'm giving my soap box back now lol, rant over!
I will be there looking forward to lots of action guys, get in contact with knight300 for details of where and when!
that is if I could work out how to turn the damn winks off! lol :sad:
I used to hate having big(ish) boobs then I lost loads of weight, went to a size 6 and all of a sudden had a flat chest and then decided I missed them as I didn't feel so feminine anymore. Then I put a little weight back on and now I'm a size 10 my boobs are back to a 34F which is just fine! When I was slimmer I considered getting a boob job but I am glad I didn't as a friend of mine had hers done and regrets it and there's nothing she can do about it now!
haha! I hear there's gona be a great party that way friday! :wink: :wink:
