I didn't know where else to go to with my frustration:
My partner and I had a date scheduled for tonight, a meet with people who had replied to an ad we posted on another site. It was for drinks, nothing more that that. 10 minutes before we left the house we get a txt message: "Sorry we're not feeling well, can we reschedule?"
Now, we've only been actively seeking swing partners online for about a month, but out of four separate meets we've scheduled (the only three we could get, as most others we're in contact with seem really afraid of meeting face to face) we only actually met one person. So this is 2nd time we've gotten the "I'm ill" excuse, and one time our date never even called to confirm. just disappeared.
We're a bit discouraged. We know we're new and it's hard to meet people and all, but we're not scary we're not pushy, we're not smelly (not that anyone has had the opportunity to find that out) We want to know: Is this common?? Should we be prepared for many many cancellations and let downs? We knew getting face to face meets even for drinks would be tough, but now we're wondering if we'll ever get to play with anyone!!!
sorry, I know noone on here really knows us. I just wanted some advice and to vent I guess
wot about girls and boys in their mid-20's who look barely 17 but are as mature as any other grown ups over 35?
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um. now I'm just plain :confused2:
After reading a few new posts by people with sex advice questions, I was wondering if any of you guys here know who Dan Savage is?
He's a fantastic, if sometimes sarcastic, sex advice columnist me and my "sweetieboy" started reading in the states and we highly recommend reading him for information, new ideas, and sometimes a really good laugh. He's well known for being the "advice columnist to the freaks," and there is no sex topic he will not address: from female ejaculation to e-stim : electric stimulation and beyond.
You can read him weekly here: Dan Savage
We just wanted to share - hope nobody minds!
It's not you!!!!
I've read alot about this particular topic. It's quite common for women to not be able to have an orgasm thru penetration. Some can only cum while on top... others only in one specific position -whatever it is.
I have tried and tried (and how much fun it was) but alas, cannot cum myself if it'sjust penentration, but I still love it!! U could try out some toys. that allow for clit stimulation during sex...
Hiya kids and :welcome: !!!
and we've looked 'round at other sites and have to say this is the best.
xx
S n G
hihi
everyone before and after us will give you safe and (not too)sane advice. But we wanted to :welcome: u!
go at whatever speed feels right, don't be pressured, you get to make the decisions on what you want. Even if it's a single bloke. we hear there are SOME redeemable ones out there... of course, should u want a sweet bi-fem couple from Oxford well.... :evil2:
MUCH LUCK!!!!
S n G
my other half is a student, pain in the arse he is, but as he has to write everyday, we both know all too well what u are going thru. He's quite good at helping others sort themselves out and extrememly good at motivation... give us a shout if u are really in a bad way.
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: We're verrrrrrry good bouncers. heh heh. :evil2: :evil2:
Hiya Chuck!!!
welcome to SH from two other newbies!
I guess I agree with the others have already said, horny all the time!!!
But I am definitely at the peak of "Insatiablility" for four days before. I put both the Mr. and anyone/thing else ready to play on burn out. :evil2: heh heh The first two days tho, i'm a bit ill so even if I want to I don't. And as for during, is very brave boy.
I liked this question.
Thank you SomkerJim, Clare_Lincs, and Hornet Harlot for the welcomes.
We feel all warm and fuzzy!!! :inlove:
I meant "edna savage"... don't know who that is. but I guess I don't know you either, so hello!
