In the past I've slept with someone who I wasn't instantly attracted to but once I got to know him, that spark was there.
In my own warped view, everyone has their own qualities and I can find anyone attractive - I really mean that. Some people think I'm weird but everyone has good things about them, even people who are classed as "ugly" so I don't really find anyone completely unattractive, but that doesn't mean I'd sleep with them. Some sort of spark has to be there.
Mine's going to sound really soppy and silly (I'm in that kind of mood) but I'd cast a spell to make my family and very close friends happy forever......Oh and me of course!
I much prefer the company of men, always have done.
I'm not a girly girl, never have been and never will be.
At school most of my friends were male, I only had a few female friends but they turned out to be not very nice friends at all and since then I've had the odd acquaintence with women but these have left me not wanting to prolong the friendship.
I'm generalising here but from my experience in the workplace and in general women tend to bitch about each other - I don't like that.
I'm not saying I'm not open to making female friends, I am but I'm quite wary.
There are other reasons why I prefer male company of course, ones which I won't go into here :twisted: