Quote by Happy Cats
In my opinion good sex is only good when you're both enjoying it.
I have no idea if I'm "good" or not, I'd rather not ask myself that question as I'd invariably end up never having sex again if I thought about it too much and came to an eventual answer..... That made sense to me
I have confidence issues, lots of people out there do. Sometimes I'll be too shy to initiate something but that doesn't mean I'm not trying to please the other person.
I love giving pleasure to someone whether it be by a touch in a special place or something else...I like knowing I can give enjoyment but I don't think about it too much and I never "big myself up".
I know I'm not the best shag out there, nor do I want to be - it'd just get boring then as I'd have nothing else to learn.
I've had some quite rubbish sex in the past and I still sometimes feel it was my fault, maybe I should have done this or that but at the end of the day I've learnt from those experiences and while I can't say I'm completely "issue" free I definitely think good sex is all about communication, letting yourself go and wanting to please the other person.

Quote by MikeC
in my opionon i feel that i am a "crap" shag. This is to do with
1) I dont have a lot of self confidence
2) I always analise people and things....
Personally i have found people have not said i am crap but i like to know where i am going wrong and where to improve. If i take a step back i have improved greatly since i first joined SH.
MikeC

Quote by westerross
I too get myself into situations because I don't want to hurt someone or let them down, just because I can't say no!
In the end it hurts those people I'm trying to protect more because at some point I'll crack and won't take it any more.
Some people know how to get round me and use that to their advantage, that isn't fair but now I can sometimes see when it's happening and stop it.
I'm still learning to "just say no" (wasn't that a song or something?!) and while I still hate to be blunt I know I have to be sometimes.

Quote by Dino
I can only echo what others have said. Ive only met you once, under a table and your a lovely person, glad your staying

Quote by bluexxx
As long as you agree to clean out the discarded beer bottles from the GFZ every Monday morning, generally keep SH Towers clean and tidy, oh and you remember to make the Big Black Dalec a huge coffee every morning so he doesn't get too grumpy, we'll let you stay. OK

Quote by PeBbLeSDeMoN
I'm sure I wont be the only one to say this,but................
lots of people here,are here,purely because,its a relaxed,fun way to chat,have a laugh and relieve the stresses of everyday everyone who attends munches are swingers its a damned good way to meet some brilliant people who can become great new friends.
Pebbs xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Quote by rogerthedragon

My questions are:
Am I any less accepted/welcome on here because I couldn’t be a swinger if I had a partner?
No, peoples desires and intentions change all the time. Wanting to be a single swinger is not a bad thing.

Am I some sort of fraud because I’m only here for meeting people in a sexual sense while I’m single?
You are no fraud if you are being honest about what you want and how you feel. There are a lot of people on here who in the same boat.
If I meet a vanilla partner, will I still be accepted here just socially?
Of course, there are plenty of people who are an integral part of the site but either dont swing any more or never have swung.
Knowing I couldn’t swing with my partner (if I had one), do I have double standards if I meet with a couple?
Nope - Your standards are not their standards, if swinging as a couple makes them happy then being a part of that even though you wouldn't want to do it is not double standards.

Quote by Missy
I have thought about such things recently as I feel a bit of a fraud for being here.

Quote by neilinleeds
onlyme? what ^^^^^ they all said!
if you had to be a hardcore "proper" swinger to be on here, whatever that means, well i think the membership would be very small indeed!
i stick around cos i love some of the people on here to bits, but as far as swinging goes . . . ??? a very occasional "when i think i've got my head round it all" thing. over the last 2 years . . . ???? i think that's pretty common, and it changes all the time?
neil x x x ;)

Quote by Vix
You going no-where, biatch!
I mean, you're fine to stay and not play; you're fine to be a single swinger; you're free to come and go as you please, in whatever hat you may choose. Hypocrate? Not in my book.

Quote by Mister_Discreet
The BBCode function lets you do this, by putting the web address in the first part, so for your example the code would be:
Here's my ad

Quote by rogerthedragon
Knowing I couldn’t swing with my partner (if I had one), do I have double standards if I meet with a couple?

Quote by awol
Knowing I couldn’t swing with my partner (if I had one), do I have double standards if I meet with a couple?

Quote by wild rose and the stag
its dark outside and for the first time in about a year , we havent got up yet, no kids new vcr lol and apart from a couple of staggy made blt's and a mocca my points total had remained reasonably low, erm untill just now lol
so when did you last spend all day horizontal with your partner?
Rose
xx

Quote by Colts23
uhuh :P
and editing as you progress towards bed :P ?
going to have to stop this soon :shock:

Quote by marmalaid
nope :P bed is not an option when discussing whether false dirty german games on a website count as real german :P

Quote by Colts23
oi piss off

Quote by naughtynymphos1

oi piss off

you are going to get such a bloody slap next time i see you be warned

Quote by marmalaid
oi piss off

Quote by naughtynymphos1

oi piss off

you are going to get such a bloody slap next time i see you be warned

Quote by naughtynymphos1
oi piss off

Quote by naughtynymphos1

oi piss off

you are going to get such a bloody slap next time i see you be warned

Quote by naughtynymphos1
ok now i'm really fecking confused :shock:

Quote by Naughty Nymphos
I absolutely detest having my picture taken.
Many people have tried and failed to get me to "open up to the camera".
Bollocks to that, don't like looking in the mirror so why the feck would I want pictures to remind me of my non-photogenicness? (don't think that's actually a word, it can be another me-ism)
The worst is when you go out, you think you look semi ok but the next day someone shows you the picture evidence and you think "Fucking hell, did I actually look like that?"

you remind me so much of me i had to cheque the name to make sure i didn't write it

Quote by Naughty Nymphos


No, it was definitely me!
I'm not an imposter, unlike some! (Marmalaid)

Quote by naughtynymphos1
I absolutely detest having my picture taken.
Many people have tried and failed to get me to "open up to the camera".
Bollocks to that, don't like looking in the mirror so why the feck would I want pictures to remind me of my non-photogenicness? (don't think that's actually a word, it can be another me-ism)
The worst is when you go out, you think you look semi ok but the next day someone shows you the picture evidence and you think "Fucking hell, did I actually look like that?"

you remind me so much of me i had to cheque the name to make sure i didn't write it

Quote by westerross
I know at least 5 people who are going somewhere lovely in the next couple of weeks.... I've asked them all if I can come with them but to no avail!
I'd probably fit in their suitcases too, I'm that small
Have a great time and don't forget to take pictures.