What do you take out with you to keep warm and dry?
what's essential?
a shovel!.......to dig you out of the snow drift
a hand warmer! ...........A must if you want to be hands on!
a head torch!................look like a right d**khead but keeps your hands free and blind everybody else
a cod piece!.................keep all you little bits snug and looks more impressive when you whip it out!
well there's a start what do you pack in your boot?
Hiya carparkfun, "dogging is nothing new"
in the begining, it must of been couples having outdoor sex, way before cars were invented, that an opportunist happen upon the "act" got out his jollies and had a good time watching. he even probally turned up there repeatedly to see if it would happen again!
my husband remembers vividly swaning down the river slowly in a boat as a young teanager with his dad! and there was a couple, she laying back in the fork of a tree and the boys trousers around his ankles going for it!
for us it happen in much the same way, we were teenagers, out having a good time in the back seat of an old mk 11 jag ( thats when they were cheep and no one wanted them) in the woods. some peeping tom came up to get a better view wiped the window and scared the life out of us. a mad panic to get our cloths on and drive off home. It was only afterwards when we talked about it (luckily) that we found it a turn on.
In the late seventies and eighties the car parks were the place for couples to have sex (you wern't allowed to do it at home) and there were very few peeping toms. It was more of a case of as you got more turned on that you opened the window more so that the sight and sounds of what you was doing was tranfered to the in his car with his window open..... also the feel of cool air onto hot flesh! It was just an added buzz you wasn't really performing for someone
what we are trying to say is.......when we go out we do lots of things beside shopping, which can be a good turn on! ........Dress up...... a little bit of a flash of leg (accidently of course) with an over the knee boot and watch the reactions. from men and women! bend at the waist to display your assets girls, I am sure that you will get more men going shopping with you. treat it as fun! We do photo shoots, film and also just enjoy the views, the trees are beautiful at the moment, ah almost forgot have sex.
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Serendipity......... A big thanks for the start of this thread, it will help new couples and hopfully new single male doggers to understand what is and isn't acceptable, we all have different levels so please respect others......................compromise, no, everyone is different, set what you and your otherhalf are happy with, if you BOTH decided to move them latter either way then do it. do it for the right reason ....YOUR pleasure no one elses........then you will have fun!
If you get a pushy dogger tell him to go play with himself........
Which only underlines my point earlier. If you go out with the intention of dogging, or get an extra thrill from being watched, then you need the voyeur.
If you are just going to shag, then that is what you are doing. There is a difference. I have never argued that it stops you enjoying sex, just one aspect of it.
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We don't agree! sorry but we don't need a voyeur, just the thought and feel of having sex out doors gives us a big kick. the feel of the breeze, sun, blanket, grass or the roughness of a tree! with the added thrill of being caught doing something that you shouldn't.
dogging used to long distant thing for us, being watched with binoculars, hearing the crack of twigs as someone tries to get a closer/better look and if they got to close then we would stop, they got the message and eased back, we would then carry on.
if no one was there it is very easy to put the thought in your partners head that someone is watching, just wisper in her ear!
It is the suttleness that has gone out of dogging.
A fake fur will keep you snug!
tell the wrong person, he'll be straight on his mobil telling his mates (stupid fool), then what was a good venue isn't any more.............in the mean time enjoy
a good idea to keep all your little bits warm this winter
what a strange night! we was out and about on the south coast, very thin on the ground with cars....
then a car turned up with one male and three twenty something girls, who jumped out and flashing their bits in the car head lights, having their pictures taken but they were there to watch the action, not to be the viewed...
then an unmarked police car came in head lights on full.......left and then reappeared ten minutes later, stab jackets on they got out had a chat with a dogger and chased him off.
then a marked police car came in, blocked us and the car next to us in. a pnc check, then a chat to find out why we was there........followed by a computer check of name, date of birth and birth place!!! then we was told that this is known dogging area (REALLY) and if we was to see anything untoward happening to let the police know........ do you think that as good citizens we should go and check on a more regular basis
hi debs.
It's him that has the problem ...........NOT you...........
so when your out and about, let the other doggers know what he said, I'm sure they will put him straight on a thing or two..........if not a knee to the groin will make you feel a lot better. Although he might like it
No not really!! If you enjoy what you do, then do it, and do not take any notice of what other people think
take care and get yourselves back out there, the past is in the past
We just type in dogging in msn search and came across this uk single that has been released! doesn't resemble any type of dogging that I know but then we do live out in the sticks. click on the link above or cut and paste
Hi,, Memory Lane and how we got into dogging.
26 years ago as a courting couple, we were in broxbourne woods fumbling in the back of an old jag with steamed up windows, making the springs creak, when someone was really trying hard to wipe off the condensation(which was on the inside...doh). It scared the life out of us, we didn't even think that anybody would want to watch, it never crossed our minds! we quickly pulled our cloths on jumped over the seat and drove off still half dressed!
when we got home well K's house we talked about it and gradually opening up to each other found it a real turn on, great quick frantic sex followed!
so we found out that epping forest was the place to be. The carparks were very busy especially at weekend quite often full, mainly with couples, somtimes two couples in a car and the odd single guy! somtimes the police came in lights all on and over the tanoy "come on ladies and gents haven't you got a home to go to" and then off they went. with some funny sights in their headlights,
we have carried on getting a thrill out of it because our freeedom is impaired by our adult children still at home! well thats our excuse, we will have to think up a new one when they all leave home
