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7 Feb 2005

The thing I always struggled to get my head round was... if you seriously thought your child was being abused, would you accept 'payment' to drop the case?!? I know as a parent I certainly wouldn't!!! mad

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I think that this bloke does have a lot of problems that need to be dealt with, but the media have just taken the story and run with it.. there will be other sides and it should be left up to the courts to decide if he is guilty or not. If he is, then he should rot..... but if not, he'll still be hated by many and his life pretty much ruined.
At the end of the day, its only a big deal across the world because of who he is. I'm not going to defend him, but am not yet willing to condem him either.

5 Feb 2005

We met on the net on a regular dating site.. He'd posted an ad whilst pissed and I was after a shag lol

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Found out we livved just a couple of streets away from each other, met and it was love at first sight (everybody say 'aaaaaaahhhh' biggrin

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5 Feb 2005

I've just started my counselling.. a year after I was originally referred by both my gp and my health visitor mad

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TBH though.. I understand about the whole can of worms thing.. I'm really struggling with all the stuff that I'm recalling, and trying to shove it all into 45 minutes once every fortnight is bluddy hard work confused

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I just find it very hard to talk to a complete stranger about how I felt last week, what i think triggered those feelings etc. And I also feel that everything I say is being taken the wrong way (prob just the paranoid side of me)..
But I'll give it a go, and if it doesn't help, then at least I've tried.

4 Feb 2005

It does make me feel better knowing others are going through it (not that I would actually wish it on anyone). Since suffering I've become a lot more knowledgable about the subject and once you know all the information, its a lot easier to deal with iykwim.
I'm just particularly struggling at the moment because the medication that was helping me, I can't take during pregnancy so am living without.

4 Feb 2005

Currently suffering sad

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4 Feb 2005

Quote by dundeecpl
88% :gagged:

Snap!!! 88% here as well.. just gotta wait for R to take it now (bet he's secretly sluttier than me)

4 Feb 2005

No fair Blue.. I can't handle the competition!!! lol

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4 Feb 2005

Quote by little gem
Hello,
I am a 23 year old bi female who would like a nice single male to come with me to a club as I don't really want to go on my own.
I would prefer you to be clean, reliable, not have a humungous beer belly and be polite. I'd like you to be able to collect me and drop me home afterwards.
Please reply to me via PM. I look forward to hearing from you.
Gem. x
ps. I am in the Manchester area.

Oh well.. shame I've got the beer belly :cry:
(the being male bit wasn'tthat important was it?) lol

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3 Feb 2005

Friends Reunited... Abolsutely fantastic!!! biggrin

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I was adopted as a baby, but knowing my mothers name, age and with a good guess, I managed to find her on there and contacted her. It took me all of a couple of hours and was the best thing I ever did.
However, I did also manage to find my biological father after getting his name from my mum, tried contacting him and he simply removed himself from the website. sad

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Ah well.. apparently he was a tosser anyway lol

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2 Feb 2005

Because we only play together, we both have to be attracted to the woman/couple etc... I think if we met with someone and it was blatantly obvious they were only 'putting up' with one of us so they could play with the other, then we wouldn't go any further.

2 Feb 2005

GEMINI
Good with my hands and tend to have more than one thing on the go at once :twisted:

1 Feb 2005

:moon: go on then... right on the arse lol

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1 Feb 2005

I love quickies!! :twisted: And lots of them.. one after the other lol

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1 Feb 2005

I'm currently supposed to be completing an assignment for my Maths degree.. you guys are my distraction!! rolleyes

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1 Feb 2005

The only comment I've really had is "you're younger than expected" dunno

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TallnHairy was the shocker for me!!! Nothing like I expected :shock: rolleyes

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31 Jan 2005

Quote by surreycouple2003
The floor is good enough and get them to bring their own duvets. Failing that, there's always the roof . Sorted!

Its not for sleeping!!!
Its for a tangled mass of limbs and mouths and cocks and arses etc etc to writhe about on. :twisted: :twisted:
Dxxx
That just disgusting!!!! I thought you hosted respectable tea parties!!! Well you won't ever see me begging for an invite then!! :shock:
(at least not till after the babies born.. then it would obviously be purely to make sure things didn't get out of hand) redface

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31 Jan 2005

and what's wrong with good old fashioned floor?!?!? rolleyes

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31 Jan 2005

As a 'newbie' to the pleasures of cheese and jam sarnies.. then that's where my vote goes (I thought it was only weird people who ate them till I tried it confused

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But its gotta be raspberry jam and smoked applewood cheese biggrin

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Marmite is just WRONG on sooo mnay levels!!!!! lol

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31 Jan 2005

I met my fella on a dating site.... but I think we were just lucky. There are a lot of complete wankers on them (male and female)..
... but then again... I was only after a quick shag.. I just hadn't heard of this place at the time lol

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31 Jan 2005

shoot
Angelina Jolie

31 Jan 2005

Quote by JudyTV

You never hear a woman contemplating or worrying about the size of her clitoris :P .
Judy

Well.... er..... now you come to mention it................. redface

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I do believe mine must be too large coz everyone seems to find it sooo easily!!

29 Jan 2005

Pretend you're sucking a really thick mcdonald's milkshake through a straw!! lol

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Mr devil just piped up 'NO TEETH' but again, I think its personal preference.. some people like it, and others just find it painful :lol: (although it is quite amusing to watch him try not to cry when another woman is using a bit too much toothplay on his delicate 'member') redface

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29 Jan 2005

I'm having a nice cup of magical tea!!!!
ok.. so its not magical.... but it is tea, and it does make me feel a little better lol

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28 Jan 2005

Well I see straight away what the problem is............
She doesn't want to have sex with women!!!!!! :shock: rolleyes

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That's just wrong!!!!

28 Jan 2005

suppose its better than one of the takeaways not so far from me... the kebab meat was tasting slightly different around the same time that the owner's wife went missing confused

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27 Jan 2005

We got forced to watch schindler's list at school, think it should be left as an optional extra to proper teaching of the subject. No-one wants to end up in tears in front of their schoolmates.
H (bullied for being a softie :cry: )
PS Watership Down should also be banned in schools for the same reasons!!!!

26 Jan 2005

We has this one (or one similar) a while back.. , all our security was up to date but it still got us. I used a removal tool from symantec and we've been fine ever since.

26 Jan 2005

Coulrophilia (personally find this the most disturbing of all) :scared:
Eproctophilia
Oculolinctus :shock:

23 Jan 2005

In my boyfriends scruffy bedroom.. under a naked picture of pamela anderson and next to a 6 month old cheese butty which he claimed to be a science experiment blink

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21 Jan 2005

probably a no-win situation.. if a lets meet up for dogging post was posted in 'Lets meet up'.. then people would say it should be in dogging. A lot fo dogging is about the surprise.. but then for some, they might be feeling impatient one evening, or want a particular large number there, or something more specific (i.e bi-guys).
I know I originally posted in here because I didn't know what to expect and wanted to arrange a meet with someone via pm.. discuss boundaries that way.. then I wouldn't have to actually talk to them at the site and could still keep the element of someone unknown getting off over me and my partner at the window.
Different poeple have different ideas of dogging just the sdame as people have different ideas of swinging. There's no 'correct' way of doing either. biggrin

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