It is true to say that there are guys out there who get off on the fact that (in their eyes) they are devouring another mans woman. I shared both my ex wives (not the reason we split up lol) and met a couple of such men. In both cases it was a one off event and they wanted to "own" her whilst it took place. For me and the ladies in question it did not add to the excitement on either occasion.
My 1st wife i shared twice,my 2nd several times.
I have shared 3 other girlfriends but my current lady will not go through with it despite secretly yearning for a young muscular man to fuck her as she runs her nails over his abs - her fantasy.
I first shared a mates girlfriend when i was 16,she was 18 and he was 17.
Whilst it was a great experience i felt/wondered if she only went through with it to please him and at no time did i want to own her.
Later,when i shared my 1st wife it was a lovely experience for all of us. Highly erotic and very memorable. It lasted from late afternoon until early the next morning.
The 2nd time i shared her it was with a work colleague and whilst very intense it lasted only an hour or so. He was aggressive in fucking her and after cumming firstly over her then in her mouth he insisted on putting his cock back up inside her,telling/instructing me to "use her mouth,i am staying in here". We didnt have a repeat performance.
I later moved on and had a few girlfriends.
I shared two of these. One lady was shared with five guys on one occasion,exhausting all of us. We split up (on very good terms) shortly afterwards but she quickly went on to marry a celeb who is still very much in the public eye. An older guy who often looks understandably tired. It gives me a grin from time to time.
Then i remarried. I shared my 2nd wife with two local neighbours/friends after a BBQ at one of their houses. One of these guys was in to "owning". Whilst not aggresive he wouldnt let her go after fucking her. Again we didnt repeat it.
I shared her or rather we shared ourselves several times over the next few years. We bought an old pub/inn near Colchester and she was a very popular lady.
Sadly we sort of drifted apart,after selling the pub and returning back to our house i eventually moved out one Sunday night and surprise surprise my best mate moved in on the Monday! I still miss him. lol . I was fairly indifferent about it at the time but thinking back he then not only slept every night in what was my bed with what was my Mrs but also drove what was my car. LOL.
Fair enough you may say but he was even wearing the remaining clothes i had left there!!
Now i am with a lovely lady,we are both happy but i will admit i am frustrated by her lack of willingness to realise her dream.
I even arranged for a couple of guys from here to meet up with us on some pretext but it went nowhere. She says she wants a young,muscular nice guy to get to know her/us,become friends then gradually seduce her.
Leaving that to fate is like buying a lottery ticket. Its never going to happen.
Hence here i am.
Regards to all.
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phoneking1
Over 90 days ago
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Hi all.
I know we have discussed this topic until we are all bored talking about it but how do you find a young guy for your wife?
We are in Rochester,Kent and i seem to spend most of the time looking at every young guy that comes near her as a potential lover. Every Saturday after work we go to a few bars in the High St and i am forever nipping to the loo and giving it a minute before returning in case a guy has got her attention or is chatting her up.
We have been together for 15 years,we are both late forties. I look a little younger she looks ten years younger. She knows i have always wanted to see her with another guy with me joining in or not. Until recently she has always said a very firm no!
Until recently that is when she admitted that she "might" but it would have to be with a younger guy with a reasonable torso.
This has kind of rocked my world and made me think how do i go about arranging this?
If she knows i have arranged something she will forget the whole thing.
If we "bump in to" a guy,get chatting and he askes her for a shag i reckon she will slap him and me!
She is a pretty lady,reasonably tall with natural straight-ish long blonde hair and a good figure. She is slim with a lovely peachy bottom,nice 36b breasts and once relaxed and in the mood she can be very sexy.
Any thoughts or ideas?
Desperate of Rochester.
I know we have discussed this topic until we are all bored talking about it but how do you find a young guy for your wife?
We are in Rochester,Kent and i seem to spend most of the time looking at every young guy that comes near her as a potential lover. Every Saturday after work we go to a few bars in the High St and i am forever nipping to the loo and giving it a minute before returning in case a guy has got her attention or is chatting her up.
We have been together for 15 years,we are both late forties. I look a little younger she looks ten years younger. She knows i have always wanted to see her with another guy with me joining in or not. Until recently she has always said a very firm no!
Until recently that is when she admitted that she "might" but it would have to be with a younger guy with a reasonable torso.
This has kind of rocked my world and made me think how do i go about arranging this?
If she knows i have arranged something she will forget the whole thing.
If we "bump in to" a guy,get chatting and he askes her for a shag i reckon she will slap him and me!
She is a pretty lady,reasonably tall with natural straight-ish long blonde hair and a good figure. She is slim with a lovely peachy bottom,nice 36b breasts and once relaxed and in the mood she can be very sexy.
Any thoughts or ideas?
Desperate of Rochester.
Hi. Just wondered if anything ever goes on in Rochester?
There are several bars/pubs where couples seem to be sitting,waiting,looking around bored stiff and i often wonder - Are they swingers? Is she? Would they?
Every Saturday after work we go to this one bar where bored couples just sit looking at each other. Guys come in,look at my lady then sit with their pint. I really wish just one time they would chat her up. If i spend any longer loitering around the stairs to the loo in the vain hope i will see her laughing with some guy i will get talked about.
Like a lot of couples i have a partner who has an extremely low sex drive. I would love to see her with another guy (dream come true) but whilst it has played its part as a fantasy in the past for us both she only discusses it when drunk and will never go through with it. I have considered trying to get her to a club but i know she wouldnt hear of it. Sundays we go to a pub in Luddesdown that used to have a reputation as a place where couples meet but after a year of this i can honestly report NOTHING.
I also have a lady friend who lives local and from time to time we meet people for fun but its so damn difficult for her arranging things around work/home etc.
Okay,whinge over.
Back to the main question.
Does ANYTHING ever happen in Rochester?
Anything?
Save me from my only highlight of the week - Shopping at Bluewater!
There are several bars/pubs where couples seem to be sitting,waiting,looking around bored stiff and i often wonder - Are they swingers? Is she? Would they?
Every Saturday after work we go to this one bar where bored couples just sit looking at each other. Guys come in,look at my lady then sit with their pint. I really wish just one time they would chat her up. If i spend any longer loitering around the stairs to the loo in the vain hope i will see her laughing with some guy i will get talked about.
Like a lot of couples i have a partner who has an extremely low sex drive. I would love to see her with another guy (dream come true) but whilst it has played its part as a fantasy in the past for us both she only discusses it when drunk and will never go through with it. I have considered trying to get her to a club but i know she wouldnt hear of it. Sundays we go to a pub in Luddesdown that used to have a reputation as a place where couples meet but after a year of this i can honestly report NOTHING.
I also have a lady friend who lives local and from time to time we meet people for fun but its so damn difficult for her arranging things around work/home etc.
Okay,whinge over.
Back to the main question.
Does ANYTHING ever happen in Rochester?
Anything?
Save me from my only highlight of the week - Shopping at Bluewater!
I am staying at the Wensum valley hotel on Wed and Thursday night (30/3/11 and 31/3/11) and wondered if there was a lonely lady in the area who would like to keep me company on either or both evenings.
I am 47,6ft tall,genuinly attractive,reasonable physique,good company (or so im told),very very clean and discreet,blonde hair and blue eyes.
I am in the area every 7/8 weeks for my job and usually have to stay for 2/3 nights.
No expectations,pressure or hidden agendas just company that may or may not lead to fun later if both parties are interested.
Look on it as a blind date where two people with similar interests share conversation,a few drinks and a meal with the possibility of spending the night together if the spark is there.
If nothing comes of the evening then we both have met a new friend we can chat with from time to time or more,who knows.
Save me from two deadly dull evenings stuck in a Norfolk hotel eating by myself and propping up the bar trying desperately to get in to conversation with anyone apart from the suspicious old guy in the corner.
If you are worried that i am a hunchbacked axe murderer then i can assure you that i am not. I did have a bad back once in 1980 after coming off a motorbike but it didnt result in a lump the size of a coal sack and the only axe i have ever owned i used for chopping wood for the fire when i owned a country restaurant some years back.
I dont think there is a great deal on the tv Wednesday evenings so what have you to lose?
I will even buy the crisps.
Gary.
I am 47,6ft tall,genuinly attractive,reasonable physique,good company (or so im told),very very clean and discreet,blonde hair and blue eyes.
I am in the area every 7/8 weeks for my job and usually have to stay for 2/3 nights.
No expectations,pressure or hidden agendas just company that may or may not lead to fun later if both parties are interested.
Look on it as a blind date where two people with similar interests share conversation,a few drinks and a meal with the possibility of spending the night together if the spark is there.
If nothing comes of the evening then we both have met a new friend we can chat with from time to time or more,who knows.
Save me from two deadly dull evenings stuck in a Norfolk hotel eating by myself and propping up the bar trying desperately to get in to conversation with anyone apart from the suspicious old guy in the corner.
If you are worried that i am a hunchbacked axe murderer then i can assure you that i am not. I did have a bad back once in 1980 after coming off a motorbike but it didnt result in a lump the size of a coal sack and the only axe i have ever owned i used for chopping wood for the fire when i owned a country restaurant some years back.
I dont think there is a great deal on the tv Wednesday evenings so what have you to lose?
I will even buy the crisps.
Gary.
Sounds like fun but where is there left to go?
We have tried several places between Tenterden and Rochester and have only had hassle.
Our best times were in Cranbrook woods enjoying daytime fun with people we met from S.H which was great for us as we struggle to get out late evening.
Best wishes to you,hope it goes well she sounds like a great lady.
If you know of any daytime or early evening venues let us know.
G.
We have tried several places between Tenterden and Rochester and have only had hassle.
Our best times were in Cranbrook woods enjoying daytime fun with people we met from S.H which was great for us as we struggle to get out late evening.
Best wishes to you,hope it goes well she sounds like a great lady.
If you know of any daytime or early evening venues let us know.
G.
Does dogging/outdoor fun still exist in these counties anymore?
I travel over all 3 counties and rarely hear of anyone enjoying themselves outdoors anymore. My lady friend and me used to enjoy some good daytime and early evening fun but she now has family/work commitments that prevent us from playing that often,hence i wondered if there were others who know of places to go for fun.
All the places i used to know have been abandoned.
I travel over all 3 counties and rarely hear of anyone enjoying themselves outdoors anymore. My lady friend and me used to enjoy some good daytime and early evening fun but she now has family/work commitments that prevent us from playing that often,hence i wondered if there were others who know of places to go for fun.
All the places i used to know have been abandoned.
Hi all.
Just wondered if anyone has visited a house in Rolvendon Kent where a very friendly couple hold weekly/fortnightly parties? Rolvendon isnt a big place so i reckon anyone holding a party would stand out like a sore thumb.
My mate used to go there with his girlfriend and told me how great it was and how nice the people were. He is over in Dubai at the moment and its a bit awkward getting hold of him or his lady. I have met the couple whose house it is but didnt realise it was the couple my mate was talking about when i spoke to them.
He said it was a normal party but you could enjoy yourself in all manner of ways upstairs either as a couple or a single.
I could wait till he returns and take him up on his offer of going along with him and his girlfriend but that could be a while.
Might cheer up a weekend. Just a thought.
Regards.
Just wondered if anyone has visited a house in Rolvendon Kent where a very friendly couple hold weekly/fortnightly parties? Rolvendon isnt a big place so i reckon anyone holding a party would stand out like a sore thumb.
My mate used to go there with his girlfriend and told me how great it was and how nice the people were. He is over in Dubai at the moment and its a bit awkward getting hold of him or his lady. I have met the couple whose house it is but didnt realise it was the couple my mate was talking about when i spoke to them.
He said it was a normal party but you could enjoy yourself in all manner of ways upstairs either as a couple or a single.
I could wait till he returns and take him up on his offer of going along with him and his girlfriend but that could be a while.
Might cheer up a weekend. Just a thought.
Regards.
Hi,we are a looking for a safe daytime place to indulge in outdoor fun (weather permiting) as near as possible to the cranbrook/tenterden/maidstone area.
Accomodation would also be great,as would a guy with trustworthy clean respectful friends who could arrange a group thing which she really craves.
Daytime prefered. 30+ age group pref. No fantasists or timewasters please.
Many thanks.
Accomodation would also be great,as would a guy with trustworthy clean respectful friends who could arrange a group thing which she really craves.
Daytime prefered. 30+ age group pref. No fantasists or timewasters please.
Many thanks.
Hi.
Anyone able to provide accomodation as near as possible to Maidstone in Kent.
We are currently enjoying 3sum fun but now want to experience 4/5 or more sum fun too.
Cleanliness and discretion are a must.
All possibilities considered.
Roughly 30-50 age group.
Many Thanks.
Gary and Kirsty.
Anyone able to provide accomodation as near as possible to Maidstone in Kent.
We are currently enjoying 3sum fun but now want to experience 4/5 or more sum fun too.
Cleanliness and discretion are a must.
All possibilities considered.
Roughly 30-50 age group.
Many Thanks.
Gary and Kirsty.
Thats about it really,my bbw girlfriend and me are hoping to organise a mmmf for a few weeks time.
We are looking for 3or more guys to help us out but we need accomodation of some sort. It has to be near to Maidstone,you must be very very clean and discreet, no pressure either way and respectful to her wishes.
We are having great fun in a 3sum arrangement at the moment so there is no rush for this but it is something we/she is really keen on doing.
Best wishes.
We are looking for 3or more guys to help us out but we need accomodation of some sort. It has to be near to Maidstone,you must be very very clean and discreet, no pressure either way and respectful to her wishes.
We are having great fun in a 3sum arrangement at the moment so there is no rush for this but it is something we/she is really keen on doing.
Best wishes.
Hi. Just info for anyone interested.
A good place in Kent is xxxxxxxxxxxx picnic area apparently.
Daytime/late afternoon fun. Couples mainly/whatever.
Another hot spot seems to be opposite xxxxxxxxxxxx at the top of the car park. A bit daring but a lot of car sharing seems to go on.
Hope this is of use to some of you.
Best wishes.
Mods Edit - phoneking, under no circumstances do we allow any specific locations to be posted on the forums, or in the photo ads section. Details like this should be kept to private messages or the places just end up being ruined.
A good place in Kent is xxxxxxxxxxxx picnic area apparently.
Daytime/late afternoon fun. Couples mainly/whatever.
Another hot spot seems to be opposite xxxxxxxxxxxx at the top of the car park. A bit daring but a lot of car sharing seems to go on.
Hope this is of use to some of you.
Best wishes.
Mods Edit - phoneking, under no circumstances do we allow any specific locations to be posted on the forums, or in the photo ads section. Details like this should be kept to private messages or the places just end up being ruined.
