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Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 45
0 miles · Lancashire

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Quote by BIoke
What I do find interesting is that each and every time anyone remotely attractive, with a decent body and sound mind on here has the balls to try and broach this kinda subject they either get called arrogant, taken the piss out of or accused of using fake pictures confused
It's almost like there's some dreadful, unwritten, peverse, stupid rule that Swingers have to be some kind of social or physical misfit in order to 'fit in' and anybody good looking and physically fit gets pissed all over!
Brucie, I think you're a really handsome man, do you fancy a shag with me and PoshKate? (she suggested it on another thread). She's bringing her fit, smart fella and he's bringing his solicitor (he's fat). Oh... and we're paying her just for good measure. I'm bringing an ugly mate, if you could bring an old mate and then we could all go Dogging and then come back here and moan about single guys.. I think that will cover all the bases here :rascal:

I know a solicitor who's quite parcial to cross dressing, I'll bring him too. :thumbup:
All we need to work out now is who's paying for the hotel :lol2:
Quote by splendid_
No, you weren't mistaking anything I have written. I am aware of the type of ladies of which you speak. I would still argue that those ladies don't see it as a career option or would admire their daughters for doing it. They are pushed by circumstance.

Splendid, I've been pondering this since the post went up. You know (as do most other who know me here) that I've worked as a prostitute for a time in my life and I can quite honestly say that I chose to do so and was in no way forced into it, by others or by circumstance.
I actually feel the reverse of what you point out and feel more that I was forced into stopping as society do not accept it as an honest profession.
I was at uni and had a part time job to help me out, I worked 15 hours a week and took home about 300 quid a month. After doing some research into escorting I found out I could easily earn that a night plus I could chose when I worked, when I had holidays etc. So I went for the option that would earn me the most money with the smallest impact on my social life.
After I finished uni I got a proper job but still continued doing escort work part time. Why? I guess the answer is that I like nice things :lol2: I was brought up to believe that you worked hard for things and that is what I have always done. So I continued doing both jobs until I was turning down escort work due to my day job. At that point I made the decision to pack in my day job so that I could escort 'full time'. I probably did that 'full time' for about 3 years and during that time I had a ball! Like others have said, of course there are days when you don't fancy going to work, but doesn't everyone feel like that sometimes? Actually now I think about it the thing I found the biggest chore about working was getting ready to go out! If someones spending that sort of money to spend time with you, you have to be looking your best and ready to go out and dazzle! Men (and women) aren't paying for you to turn up and whinge about the day you've had, they're paying for you to turn up and give them a good time, so you get dolled up, put your hooker head on and get out there and do it! The bonus is that most of the time I'd have a fab time too. I got to do things that I would never have been able to have done because of the job and really have no regrets about the choice I made.
So if it's all so great why do I have a 'normal' job now? Quite simply because I've never felt that 'society' would accept my career choice and realised that I needed to get back into a job before the gap in my CV became too big to explain away! That is where to a certain extent I feel that I was actually forced to stop rather than actually making the choice myself.
As for wanting the same for my children? Well, I don't have children so I can't answer how I would really feel but I do think that if my daughter came to me and said she was thinking of taking it up, so long as I knew she was taking all the safety precautions she could then if she wanted to I would support her. I have a lot of respect for the girls that I've worked along side over the years. At least we're honest about who we are and what we do, I can think of many a girl who goes out on a Friday night and flirts with fellas for drinks in exchange for a shag at the end of the night. At least we set out our terms at the beginning.
I know that my view of the world of prostitution is VERY different to those who are forced into it, but please, can we not make such sweeping statements about things.
As for this thread......this isn't about me and prostitution. This is about swinging and prostitution. The two things are poles apart. One is a job and the other is a fun pass time. I didn't join here for work, I joined here for fun with like minded people and my choice of career had nothing at all to do with that.
When I joined here I knew that 'some' people would be uncomfortable with my choice of job and so was honest with the people I got to know so that they had a choice whether to get to know me or not. Some people felt that because of that it was OK to tell others what I did for a living, as if it was a bit of juicy gossip, some people judged me for that and assumed I wasn't a swinger and I was here for work purposes. Some people got to know me and decided for themselves.
Are swingers uncomfortable with prostitutes? I guess they are, but that's because the two things are so different.
I hope that no one is offended by anything I've written, I'm just putting across my own point of view on the matter. I'd just rather that people know the truth rather than assuming otherwise.
I always thought it was an urban myth about kitkats! Easy's got a packet of them so I might just have to check them all! :giggle:
Quote by BIoke
Get yer coat brucie, you've pulled again innocent

Oi.. I'm notthat easy! lol But he is ticking my two 'S' boxes - smart & stubble!
Besides, I don't even know if he likes 'boys' yet - I'm sensing he's going to be one of those 'it's OK if there's 'girls' around types' but that might just be my wishful arrogance wink
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ohhh can I join in then? :lol2:
I'm not sure but I think that Brucie is refering to the way that some people here find the use of hookers offensive.
As has been pointed out it is a different industry than swinging so not really the place to discuss it.
Hi there,
If you go into the clubs section on the left hand side of your screen you can see reviews of clubs that members have done. smile
Congrats Dawnie you gobshite!
Extra big snog for next time I see you.
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
Locked as we already have one thread open about what is wrong with the forum.
or may be it's just that 'some' people take what they read in ANY newspaper as a journalists view of a story and only comment on the ones about the other topics you mention as these are the ones you've brought up on here.
Quote by noladreams
However there does seem to be a shortage of nyphomaniac brunettes with enormous tits and a total lack of morals or taste willing to bonk me senseless, in my local area.

Do I need to cease the hair dying then?! wink
Well I'm brunette without the big tits so maybe if we make it a joint effort he won't notice! :lol2: :giggle:
I've always thought that you're most likely to find love when you're not looking for it.
I think that's the reason for people finding each other on here.
congrats both of you. :bounce:
Full report and photos to my PM box please!
not that I'm wedding obsessed or anything!
I think the link from the message only works once, but you can still view the pictures for the length of time the invite is for. smile
Fire!!! I thought I'd be able to trust in you to get into the wedding soppyness! rolleyes
Hi there,
This is a forum for people bring up topics related to the chatroom.
You can log into the chatroom from the blue tabs above here. Alternatively if you want to post an advert there is a section for that too.
Hope that helps smile
Quote by Lincslady2009
Thank you Nola, does that mean I can be even naughtier as Im one in credit wink

think so :thumbup: smile
oh yeah......don't do what I did and try to put your cam on while you've got it on in MSN......it won't work :lol2:
If anyone has anything constructive to add please PM me, but for the time being I'm locking this.
Do you remember the Nokia ones that you could get different covers from? Then you could pick exactly what you wanted. smile
I'm sure someone will be along with some advice, in the mean time I've deleted your duplicate post.
Have fun smile