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Looks like you and me have got the place to ourselves...Yay!
Nope I'm here now and I'm taking over the jacuzzi....white wine please Barman
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Sex God
We went to Dubai a few weeks ago (during Ramadan). It was one of the best holidays I've ever had and loved the place and the people, who are all so proud of the city and so welcoming to westeners.
One thing you are obviously aware of is that it is a Muselim country and a dry state. As a tourist I was aware that I would not want to offend someone but my behavior in their country and we were cafeful to abide by their laws especially as it was during a religious festival. In the same way I would expect the same from anyone visiting this country.
I think this couple got off pretty lightly really considering they were warned once by a policeman and the fact that just being drunk in public is an offence.
They quite clearly knew the laws and chose to ignore them.
One thing you are obviously aware of is that it is a Muselim country and a dry state. As a tourist I was aware that I would not want to offend someone but my behavior in their country and we were cafeful to abide by their laws especially as it was during a religious festival. In the same way I would expect the same from anyone visiting this country.
I think this couple got off pretty lightly really considering they were warned once by a policeman and the fact that just being drunk in public is an offence.
They quite clearly knew the laws and chose to ignore them.
Sex God
Actually Tune I hope that this thread is allowed to run as I think there is an interesting debate to be had on this sort of subject.
We all know that forums, by nature, wax and wain, and with different influxes of people will always change. Change is not a bad thing but often nostalgia takes over.
One thing I have noticed lately (and was considering posting about) is that there is very much a 'new' group of people in the forums, and whilst they are very welcoming to new members, old members seem to get ignored a little. It is almost like people think 'oh well they've been about for ages so they've got all their own mates and there's no reason for me to speak to them' and therefore the 'old' member gets sort of ignored.
I'm not sure if I'm really putting my point across that well but I just feel that this forum thrived on the fact that people felt part of it and now so many people no longer feel part of it.
Now my normal reaction to something like that would be to tell them to post more and get back to being part of things but in reality I can see that actually it is very difficult to re-integrate into something that has moved on so far from what it first was.
I guess I'm just rambling now and I don't have any answers for it but I think this could become an interesting debate.
We all know that forums, by nature, wax and wain, and with different influxes of people will always change. Change is not a bad thing but often nostalgia takes over.
One thing I have noticed lately (and was considering posting about) is that there is very much a 'new' group of people in the forums, and whilst they are very welcoming to new members, old members seem to get ignored a little. It is almost like people think 'oh well they've been about for ages so they've got all their own mates and there's no reason for me to speak to them' and therefore the 'old' member gets sort of ignored.
I'm not sure if I'm really putting my point across that well but I just feel that this forum thrived on the fact that people felt part of it and now so many people no longer feel part of it.
Now my normal reaction to something like that would be to tell them to post more and get back to being part of things but in reality I can see that actually it is very difficult to re-integrate into something that has moved on so far from what it first was.
I guess I'm just rambling now and I don't have any answers for it but I think this could become an interesting debate.
Sex God
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I can certainly see both sides to this.
My first thought was that it sent me back to a few years ago, when a mischievous forumite secretly took on a different name as part of the reporting for the SH magazine. It left a bad taste in the throats of a lot of people.
This was well before Mystical-Lady joined, and while the effect of her posts is the same, (i.e we don't know who it is) and I can see why some people are upset now, it's worth bearing in mind the intent behind her posts - it was just meant as a bit of fun, and in my opinion, should be taken as such.
That sums it up pretty well for me Cherry
I can see that it was all meant as a playful joke but for those that remember the 'mischief' incident and other times where users have used multiple accounts to mislead others, mostly with the intent of causing trouble, it does leave a very sour taste indeed.
Sex God
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There are some amazing courageous people in this world that makes me feel quite humble. I think she's one of them...
I'll second that.
Good luck to your daughter as well FB. Remember that however independent you daughter gets that you'll always be the one she needs good honest advice.
Sex God
Firstly please make sure you read the link that Splendid sent to you!
Having looked at your profile, you've put a nice selection of picture up which is a very good start :thumbup:
Now I think you need to do a bit of work on your ad and your profile text, both of which you only really have one line. Why not add a bit more about you and what you are looking for, it might just spark some interest from someone.
Also try and get posting on the forum, or chat in the chatrooms......these are the places where you can start to interact with people and develop a spark. The ad section works for some people, but for some it works better to use other areas of the site. Why not give all of them a go and see what works best for you.
Hope that helps a bit. And don't give up after a week....just because you've paid to join doesn't guarantee a shag, but if you use it well I'm sure you'll find a lot of fun here
Having looked at your profile, you've put a nice selection of picture up which is a very good start :thumbup:
Now I think you need to do a bit of work on your ad and your profile text, both of which you only really have one line. Why not add a bit more about you and what you are looking for, it might just spark some interest from someone.
Also try and get posting on the forum, or chat in the chatrooms......these are the places where you can start to interact with people and develop a spark. The ad section works for some people, but for some it works better to use other areas of the site. Why not give all of them a go and see what works best for you.
Hope that helps a bit. And don't give up after a week....just because you've paid to join doesn't guarantee a shag, but if you use it well I'm sure you'll find a lot of fun here
Good thread Tan......been a while since we had one Sex God
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I love the winter too. I don't like it when it rains, but when it's crisp and cold, wrapping up warm and going for a long walk followed but warming in in a pub with gorgeous roaring fires and then going home and snuggling up on the sofa. Bliss.
you just had to fit a pub in there somewhere didn't you ?
You'd be worried if I didn't........plus I've got it on the brain as we've found a gorgeous place near to us that has the most fabulous atmosphere and perfect for cosying up to the big open fire in the winter.
Sex God
I've just been pondering this post and I am slightly confused as to what you are actually asking.......there seems to be two questions in your post really:
a) is it ethical to to employ a prostitute to fulfil your fantasies,
b) is this easier/cheaper/more fun when you're in the holiday mind set etc. whilst you are away?
The first thing is that ethics are your own decision and no one can make that decision for you, but that said I would personally think that if you have any doubts then it is probably not right for you.
As to employing a hooker for your fantasies.....if you want to fulfil a certain fantasy of your own without having to give anything back, then yes to a certain extend I think it could be a good course of action, but remember that the girl involved may or may not 'click' with you and your partner. I guess it really depends on if you are just looking for a sexual expierience or more of a connection. I'm not saying you wouldn't get a that sort of connection with a hooker, purely just that you would be more likely to get that from someone you had got to know a bit better before hand.
I think the aboard bit has been answered pretty well by others that have posted and I don't have much more to add as I don't know the areas that you are looking at so well.
Hope that is of some help.
a) is it ethical to to employ a prostitute to fulfil your fantasies,
b) is this easier/cheaper/more fun when you're in the holiday mind set etc. whilst you are away?
The first thing is that ethics are your own decision and no one can make that decision for you, but that said I would personally think that if you have any doubts then it is probably not right for you.
As to employing a hooker for your fantasies.....if you want to fulfil a certain fantasy of your own without having to give anything back, then yes to a certain extend I think it could be a good course of action, but remember that the girl involved may or may not 'click' with you and your partner. I guess it really depends on if you are just looking for a sexual expierience or more of a connection. I'm not saying you wouldn't get a that sort of connection with a hooker, purely just that you would be more likely to get that from someone you had got to know a bit better before hand.
I think the aboard bit has been answered pretty well by others that have posted and I don't have much more to add as I don't know the areas that you are looking at so well.
Hope that is of some help.
